Visiting family member doesn’t mask on trip here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Nobody is masking. If you wanted her to, it was absolutely on you to tell her that.

Tons of people are masking. Last Sunday I was at the birthday party and almost all the little kids were masked as were half the adults.

I don’t see anyone masking.

Regardless, masking wont do much if she were out partying the day before the flight, or not masking in the security lines at the airport etc. If someone isn’t socially distancing - and basically no one at this point is - then the masking should have begun about a week before the flight, not just when she stepped on to the plane. That’s the reality and that’s why OP should have been crystal clear about what her expectations were.

[Anonymous]

I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.

[Anonymous]

As PP pointed out, unless she had been quarantining prior to her visit, there is no real point in masking on her trip.

Have her test daily (or 2xs a day) and go from there.

I’m so sorry your DH is in the ICU. I wish you all well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Nobody is masking. If you wanted her to, it was absolutely on you to tell her that.

Not true. Plenty of people in nova still are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So my spouse has been in the ICU for the past three weeks. My sister flew several hours yesterday to visit us for a few days and lend moral support, but when I picked her up at the airport she revealed that she hadn’t worn a mask the entire trip. I am pretty upset but want to make sure I’m not overreacting. Also, the rest of us have been super careful about masking because, you know, ICU. Thoughts about how to let this go? Thoughts about what you’d do going forward? Do we all have to mask now at home while she’s here? Does just she need to mask? For those of you who use masks, what would you do?

The main person who should be masking is your spouse.

ICU is the ultimate pool for infection. Not an airplane. Tell me you knew this?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.

Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

[b]Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid,[/b] maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.

Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.

+1. Stop making sh!t up. This is complete BS and you know it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So my spouse has been in the ICU for the past three weeks. My sister flew several hours yesterday to visit us for a few days and lend moral support, but when I picked her up at the airport she revealed that she hadn’t worn a mask the entire trip. I am pretty upset but want to make sure I’m not overreacting. Also, the rest of us have been super careful about masking because, you know, ICU. Thoughts about how to let this go? Thoughts about what you’d do going forward? Do we all have to mask now at home while she’s here? Does just she need to mask? For those of you who use masks, what would you do?

The main person who should be masking is your spouse.

ICU is the ultimate pool for infection. Not an airplane. Tell me you knew this?

My spouse is unconscious and on a ventilator. He cannot mask. The hospital staff and all visitors must mask. I don’t think they make other ICU patients mask, though they do give patients a covid test.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.

Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.

Everyone I know who has flown in the past tree months has come down with Covid if they didn't mask the entire time. So far it's 8 people with Covid who didn't mask, and three people with Covid who did mask but took the masks off to eat on the plane. Everyone else who said they masked the entire time we're fine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.

Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.

Everyone I know who has flown in the past tree months has come down with Covid if they didn't mask the entire time. So far it's 8 people with Covid who didn't mask, and three people with Covid who did mask but took the masks off to eat on the plane. Everyone else who said they masked the entire time we're fine.

I posted earlier - my DH got it on a flight (probably) and was masked the whole time, no eating/drinking. I got it too, but did eat and drink.

[Anonymous]

I think when people say no one is masking...you have to realize than almost none of them are visiting someone in ICU! It is a huge distinction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So my spouse has been in the ICU for the past three weeks. My sister flew several hours yesterday to visit us for a few days and lend moral support, but when I picked her up at the airport she revealed that she hadn’t worn a mask the entire trip. I am pretty upset but want to make sure I’m not overreacting. Also, the rest of us have been super careful about masking because, you know, ICU. Thoughts about how to let this go? Thoughts about what you’d do going forward? Do we all have to mask now at home while she’s here? Does just she need to mask? For those of you who use masks, what would you do?

The main person who should be masking is your spouse.

ICU is the ultimate pool for infection. Not an airplane. Tell me you knew this?

My spouse is unconscious and on a ventilator. He cannot mask. The hospital staff and all visitors must mask. I don’t think they make other ICU patients mask, though they do give patients a covid test.

So your sister will only see your spouse when she’s in the hospital wearing an N95? That seems like enough.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think when people say no one is masking...you have to realize than almost none of them are visiting someone in ICU! It is a huge distinction.

Don’t most hospitals require masks?

[Anonymous]

Sorry op. Thinking good thoughts for your husband. We still mask and it’s frighting to me, but not surprising, that someone wouldn’t mask to travel to support someone in ill health. Best wishes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.

Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.

Everyone I know who has flown in the past tree months has come down with Covid if they didn't mask the entire time. So far it's 8 people with Covid who didn't mask, and three people with Covid who did mask but took the masks off to eat on the plane. Everyone else who said they masked the entire time we're fine.

Again your circle must be VERY small. I don't know anyone who has gotten Covid from flying in the past 6 months and we don't mask AT ALL anymore. 15 family members flew here for Christmas. None masked. No covid.

Anecdotes mean nothing.