Visiting family member doesn’t mask on trip here

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.



Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.



Everyone I know who has flown in the past tree months has come down with Covid if they didn't mask the entire time. So far it's 8 people with Covid who didn't mask, and three people with Covid who did mask but took the masks off to eat on the plane. Everyone else who said they masked the entire time we're fine.


Again your circle must be VERY small. I don't know anyone who has gotten Covid from flying in the past 6 months and we don't mask AT ALL anymore. 15 family members flew here for Christmas. None masked. No covid.

Anecdotes mean nothing.


Same here. Business and personal travel, international and domestic, quite often (multiple times a month) including several long haul flights, and no covid in our family of five in 11 months. Also add in multiple schools, several indoor concerts, countless hotel stays…
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think when people say no one is masking...you have to realize than almost none of them are visiting someone in ICU! It is a huge distinction.


Don’t most hospitals require masks?


Yes they do because the patients are mostly at high risk so if you know you are visiting you shoudl take extra precautions...even if you typically do not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I think when people say no one is masking...you have to realize than almost none of them are visiting someone in ICU! It is a huge distinction.


You shouldn’t be seeing them, that’s the point. They should be avoiding others for a period of time before they travel. . Not hitting the grocery store, post office and gym maskless before slapping on a mask and boarding a plane.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Nobody is masking. If you wanted her to, it was absolutely on you to tell her that.



Except for in Wildwood Shopping plaza. I still see so many masks there particularly in Balduccis.
Anonymous
Sorry your sister is a dope. Everyone who visits your H should mask carefully and try to stay away from others as much as possible. I think she can be unmasked at your house and you guys just keep testing for a few days. It would be a pain if she gives you covid but the real worry is your H. I am a cancer patient and very familiar with this dance.

Hoping for a speedy recovery for him.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Fauci isnt even masking anymore.


Is Fauci’s spouse also in the ICU? Because it’s the ICU part that is key here.
Anonymous
JFC. No one is wearing masks anymore. OP if this was 2019, would you be going through all this nonsense? No. You wouldn't.

No one cares about COVID except the virtue signaling ninnies on DCUM. Look around you. No one is masking.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would have her mask and take a home Covid test every day, after three days would consider unmasking. I would also consider masking in your own house so you can continue to go to the ICU.

Almost everyone I know who has flown unmasked has ended up with Covid, maybe she will be an exception. I would have probably told her I would make a hotel reservation for her and only see her when masked for the next three days.

She is a moron to come visit to help support family in ICU and not mask on the way here. I would consider that in any other interactions with her from now on.



Either you know a total of two people who have flown recently and had bad lack or you're LYING for who knows what reason.



Everyone I know who has flown in the past tree months has come down with Covid if they didn't mask the entire time. So far it's 8 people with Covid who didn't mask, and three people with Covid who did mask but took the masks off to eat on the plane. Everyone else who said they masked the entire time we're fine.


Oh STOP. I fly 2x a week for work to various cities across the US. I don't mask. I'd say it's 5% masking on the flights. You're telling me 95% of these people have COVID. RIGHHHTT.

Quit making stuff up. Or, I'll put it in terms you understand - quit 'spreading misinformation'
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:You're stressed about your husband being in the ICU and your sister is an easy target for your anxiety and anger. It's understandable but not ideal. Of course she should mask when visiting the hospital; that's required, yes?


This. You are understandably stressed and it’s coming out on your sister. If you are that worried you shouldn’t have agreed to a visit.

A lot of people don’t think to mask anymore. My father is in long term cancer treatment. Unless he’s at the hospital or a doctor’s office, he doesn’t mask. We flew twice to see him this past year and we didn’t mask. We would if anyone asked but I didn’t think of it since he also doesn’t mask in day to day life.
Anonymous
21:58 again. I completely forgot, last time my father went for an appointment at his cancer center he was surprised to learn they no longer have the mask requirement. It’s not local.
Anonymous
Oh God, OP, don’t post this here. You’ll just get a litany of idiots shrieking “OMG WHO MAAAAAAASKS ANYMORE? ARE YOU WRITING THIS FROM 2020?!?!? GET A THERAPIST!!! OMG!!! UR POOR KIDZ!!!”

This is the last place to ask for any intelligent advice about COVID.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would be upset too, but please remember most people are idiots and don't take enough precautions, including wearing stupid cloth masks that don't do squat. Your sister is in the moron majority. Tell her why you're upset, and give her an antigen test. Also, wear proper KN95 or KF94 when visiting your husband in the hospital.


Please get help for your anxiety disorder.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would be upset too, but please remember most people are idiots and don't take enough precautions, including wearing stupid cloth masks that don't do squat. Your sister is in the moron majority. Tell her why you're upset, and give her an antigen test. Also, wear proper KN95 or KF94 when visiting your husband in the hospital.


Please get help for your anxiety disorder.


And should add I’m a Democrat.
Anonymous
Non masking posters: her dh is in the ICU and she is primary contact.How low does your IQ have to be to stay with her after you have traveled unmasked and not isolated beforehand?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I would be upset too, but please remember most people are idiots and don't take enough precautions, including wearing stupid cloth masks that don't do squat. Your sister is in the moron majority. Tell her why you're upset, and give her an antigen test. Also, wear proper KN95 or KF94 when visiting your husband in the hospital.


Please get help for your anxiety disorder.


And should add I’m a Democrat.


And an idiot.
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