It’s very unusual a man is asked to “excel” in two spheres. What many men seem disincentivized to do is to do the work of a below-average woman on the domestic front, while he may (or may not) excel professionally. The statistics are pretty clear that low-earning men don’t do more housework than their high-earning peers. |
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Hold on. So women, who only recently got the right to work and to exist independently outside of a man, picked up the skill of multi-tasking through osmosis while men's ability to cope and do the same fell in the gutter? And their increased ability to function took away mens' ability to function due to a limited supply? Sure Jan. |
Are you going to tell women to wait until marriage? If not you're being hypocritical. Sex is the lynchpin. Historically, boys became men largely so that they could get sex on the regular. There's no reason the women's lib movt and sex revolution had to go hand in hand. |
Women are always the scapegoats for what men don't want to do any introspection about. |
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+1 This is the equivalent argument of “I just don’t know HOW to load the dishwasher…” |
WTF are you talking about. Boys today aren’t becoming men to get sex. It’s literally the easiest time in history to get laid, and instead of becoming men, they drink their Mountain Dew and play their video games and complain that men in the past had it easier. |
I think this is pretty insulting to every woman who lived before 1960. What do you think the avg woman's life was like before reliable birth control and a washing machine. Yes, I think women, on average, have always been better at multitasking then men, on avg. |
Um that's my point. If you can get sex without becoming a man, why become a man? |
Matchmakers (women) are quitting because single women have become completely unreasonable with their wish lists and high standards. The men are dating younger or are dating foreign women.
So, yes. |
They aren’t getting sex. That’s literally the whole point of this thread, that guys are complaining women’s standards are too high and they’re not getting sex or companionship. Women don’t have to withhold sex. They withhold relationships, which is what most guys want. Women get to sleep with the small percentage of men who are actually hot, make their own money, and can have a baby on their own. So the standard for relationships is higher. |
There’s “multitasking” and then there is literally fighting their way into careers that were closed to women as recently as mothers and grandmothers day, and somehow that is the less challenging task than learning to fold laundry? I think you’re doing a disservice to every woman who became a pilot, a diplomat, a judge, a surgeon in the last 40 years… |
The average woman today will never become a pilot, a diplomat, a judge or a surgeon. But now it's also a hell of a lot harder for her to become a mother and wife. |
What a bleak view of both sexes. Women can't become pilots (something they have done since at least WWI) and men are so mentally incapacitated that they can't walk and chew gum at the same time because of those dang women. |