A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The key question is, who are these middle aged men? There are very few who are single and desirable IME.

I think this thread is a lot of unhappy married men talking about who they wish they married

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:After 15 years of marriage, my husband has a simple list:

“I want an older, independent woman who takes care of me. I want someone who cooks for me, cleans for me, and never asks for sex.”

There you have it.

So a mother?

Conferred with DH: he says yes, a mother would be nice.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No mental health issues.

So, not a woman, then?

Talk about searching for the impossible unicorn...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find? Seems like it shouldn't be

As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.

Kind of like women who want a man who is over 6 feet tall, makes at least $500k/year, etc.

Over 5’ 10” and over $300K would suffice : )

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The key question is, who are these middle aged men? There are very few who are single and desirable IME.

I think this thread is a lot of unhappy married men talking about who they wish they married

Winner winner chicken dinner!

[Anonymous]

Loyal and faithful
Kind, loving, and supportive
Someone that I'm physically attracted to
Someone who has a genuine desire for me
Someone that deeply appreciates me

Nice to haves:
Enjoys architecture and likes DIY projects.
Wants to build a boat and sail to globe

[Anonymous]

Strong fetlocks. Good teeth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Pretty
Likes sex
Smart
Wicked sense of humor
Adventurous (food, experience, travel)
Hates clutter
Decent stiletto collection
Doesn’t get seasick

I'm all of these minus the stilettos. I'm 5'10" in flats, tho.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The key question is, who are these middle aged men? There are very few who are single and desirable IME.

I think this thread is a lot of unhappy married men talking about who they wish they married

I've been divorced for a decade.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find? Seems like it shouldn't be

As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.

Kind of like women who want a man who is over 6 feet tall, makes at least $500k/year, etc.

Over 5’ 10” and over $300K would suffice : )

Okay the heightening surgery we need some breakthroughs on that. I can't be down for a whole year. I'm just saying everything physical you ladies can change with about 20 grand and a pretty short recovery. For us a lot of times it's not even feasible. Sure we can get you 300K some of us but the height requirements feel very exclusionary. It's not like getting a BBL, lipo or tit job. The height surgery means breaking bones for a couple of inches and you'll never be able to play sports again.

I'm just saying I know there are some fine medical minds amongst you ladies, give me some help please. Let's make 6 ft a standard achievable by all men for a price equivalent to a boob job because it's the fair thing to do.

[Anonymous]

Not fat

[Anonymous]

Do kids factor in at all?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find? Seems like it shouldn't be

As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.

Kind of like women who want a man who is over 6 feet tall, makes at least $500k/year, etc.

Over 5’ 10” and over $300K would suffice : )

Okay the heightening surgery we need some breakthroughs on that. I can't be down for a whole year. I'm just saying everything physical you ladies can change with about 20 grand and a pretty short recovery. For us a lot of times it's not even feasible. Sure we can get you 300K some of us but the height requirements feel very exclusionary. It's not like getting a BBL, lipo or tit job. The height surgery means breaking bones for a couple of inches and you'll never be able to play sports again.

I'm just saying I know there are some fine medical minds amongst you ladies, give me some help please. Let's make 6 ft a standard achievable by all men for a price equivalent to a boob job because it's the fair thing to do.

Honestly it’s a preference not a requirement. I’ve been super attracted to men my height (5’9”) and shorter. Kind winning honest open trustworthy personality and solid stable secure responsible financials are much more important than height. Height just adds something to the sex life that is really nice to have (and actually contributes to the security feeling).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Of the guys who posted here ... is such a woman hard to find? Seems like it shouldn't be

As you have noticed, a lot of guys put "fit" in their description of what they want in a woman. Most America women (and men) are not fit, especially in middle age. So that removes about 70% of the population right there.

Kind of like women who want a man who is over 6 feet tall, makes at least $500k/year, etc.

Over 5’ 10” and over $300K would suffice : )

Okay the heightening surgery we need some breakthroughs on that. I can't be down for a whole year. I'm just saying everything physical you ladies can change with about 20 grand and a pretty short recovery. For us a lot of times it's not even feasible. Sure we can get you 300K some of us but the height requirements feel very exclusionary. It's not like getting a BBL, lipo or tit job. The height surgery means breaking bones for a couple of inches and you'll never be able to play sports again.

I'm just saying I know there are some fine medical minds amongst you ladies, give me some help please. Let's make 6 ft a standard achievable by all men for a price equivalent to a boob job because it's the fair thing to do.

Maybe they could invent some kind of optical illusion or reality-altering glasses. Maybe in the metaverse.

[Anonymous]

Boob jobs did change the market, imo.