A middle aged man's (actual) list of desired qualities

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t oppose men who date way younger, I just think it’s gross. But I can’t think of any I know whom I didn’t already think were gross, and it doesn’t matter anyway. I think it only becomes a rub if it’s your ex-husband or your Dad.

One of the main things that is gross about it is such men have often already built and abandoned a family. It’s socially acceptable now, but for me it just means I’ll never respect you.

My personal least favorite age gap couple is David Brooks. That a-hole STILL gets paid to lecture the public about morality and he abandoned his family and religion for goodness sake for his much, much younger research assistant. Gag.

80% chance the divorce was the XWs idea, so she's the one who "abandoned the family" not him. And very often in such cases, the XW denies the man access to his kids and then lies to the kids that he doesn't care about them and doesn't want to see them anymore. He really can't be blamed for finding another wife of whatever age at that point.

By the time exW files for divorce he’s done many things that she can’t live with.

Doesn't alter the fact that she's the one who abandoned the family. And in the majority of cases what she "can't live with" is relatively frivolous - mainly she's just bored.

Nope. Keep repeating this lie (and you will). You’ll still be wrong.

Nope. Women keep repeating the lie that they didn't divorce for frivolous reasons. It's understandable, because if they admitted it then they'd have to acknowledge they are lousy human beings.

I agree. Many times (70% of divorces initiated by women and check out the lesbian divorce rate, which is insane) it’s this reflexive, emotional response from women to get divorced for all the grudges they cant let go of, or for the household imbalance in chores they perceive, or just general female flightiness. That sounds sexist as hell and I don’t mean it that way, but honestly women complain in general more than men. They vocalize all their displeasure. Men let things wash off their backs easier. Don’t bond grudges as much. And are more emotionally balanced. It’s the truth. Gay men stay together much more. Truth.

Im a woman and I have to say I agree with this 100%.

Till they point a gun at you or take drugs or alcohol. All I know is that every day on the news I see multiple men arrested for very impulsive agressive behavior. They may not have as many other emotions, but they understand pleasure and anger. Ever see the video of the guy that decided to shoot all his wives and ex girlfriends in front of his children and videotape their murders as he made his way around the city? One of the ladies he had just been dating for a month or so.

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Domestic dispute today and the police take a man of interest into custody. Not saying it's never a woman, but it's usually never a woman. But what about her words? Men have fewer emotions day to day but have the emotional control of children quite often. Women have more emotional strength and control.

https://www.princewilliamtimes.com/news/updated-5-shot-1-killed-in-dumfries-person-of-interest-in-custody-police-say/article_955f64d0-8c4b-11ed-9d1c-abbd28a839ab.html

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t oppose men who date way younger, I just think it’s gross. But I can’t think of any I know whom I didn’t already think were gross, and it doesn’t matter anyway. I think it only becomes a rub if it’s your ex-husband or your Dad.

One of the main things that is gross about it is such men have often already built and abandoned a family. It’s socially acceptable now, but for me it just means I’ll never respect you.

My personal least favorite age gap couple is David Brooks. That a-hole STILL gets paid to lecture the public about morality and he abandoned his family and religion for goodness sake for his much, much younger research assistant. Gag.

80% chance the divorce was the XWs idea, so she's the one who "abandoned the family" not him. And very often in such cases, the XW denies the man access to his kids and then lies to the kids that he doesn't care about them and doesn't want to see them anymore. He really can't be blamed for finding another wife of whatever age at that point.

By the time exW files for divorce he’s done many things that she can’t live with.

Doesn't alter the fact that she's the one who abandoned the family. And in the majority of cases what she "can't live with" is relatively frivolous - mainly she's just bored.

Nope. Keep repeating this lie (and you will). You’ll still be wrong.

Nope. Women keep repeating the lie that they didn't divorce for frivolous reasons. It's understandable, because if they admitted it then they'd have to acknowledge they are lousy human beings.

I agree. Many times (70% of divorces initiated by women and check out the lesbian divorce rate, which is insane) it’s this reflexive, emotional response from women to get divorced for all the grudges they cant let go of, or for the household imbalance in chores they perceive, or just general female flightiness. That sounds sexist as hell and I don’t mean it that way, but honestly women complain in general more than men. They vocalize all their displeasure. Men let things wash off their backs easier. Don’t bond grudges as much. And are more emotionally balanced. It’s the truth. Gay men stay together much more. Truth.

Im a woman and I have to say I agree with this 100%.

Till they point a gun at you or take drugs or alcohol. All I know is that every day on the news I see multiple men arrested for very impulsive agressive behavior. They may not have as many other emotions, but they understand pleasure and anger. Ever see the video of the guy that decided to shoot all his wives and ex girlfriends in front of his children and videotape their murders as he made his way around the city? One of the ladies he had just been dating for a month or so.

Women are equally or more capable than men of impulsive, emotion-driven behavior. If you don’t see that then you are a poor student of human behavior. Female impulsiveness does not manifest itself as physical violence as often as it does in men, but it shows up in many other ways. (And oh yeah, women are just as susceptible as men to “pleasure and anger”.) Female impulsiveness and emotional lack of balance was very well described by the PP.

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Domestic dispute today and the police take a man of interest into custody. Not saying it's never a woman, but it's usually never a woman. But what about her words? Men have fewer emotions day to day but have the emotional control of children quite often. Women have more emotional strength and control.

Oh geez you MUST be kidding me. The cops usually arrest the man because the woman weeps and cries when they show up, and lies about what happened, and they believe her.

Anyone who thinks “women have more emotional strength and control” than men is just wallowing in self-delusion. Women don’t want to believe bad things about themselves, women are happy to believe anything bad about men, water wet sky blue, yeah whatever.

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Domestic dispute today and the police take a man of interest into custody. Not saying it's never a woman, but it's usually never a woman. But what about her words? Men have fewer emotions day to day but have the emotional control of children quite often. Women have more emotional strength and control.

Oh geez you MUST be kidding me. The cops usually arrest the man because the woman weeps and cries when they show up, and lies about what happened, and they believe her.

Anyone who thinks “women have more emotional strength and control” than men is just wallowing in self-delusion. Women don’t want to believe bad things about themselves, women are happy to believe anything bad about men, water wet sky blue, yeah whatever.

A child died and four others critically injured and you want the woman who didn't shoot to be charged? You don't think this man was capable not just of physical violence but also emotional and verbal?

Even Jordan Peterson king of the incels agrees that women have more self-control than men and better emotional intelligence.

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This is happening every day. Even comedians are commenting about how dangerous it is for women to date. I've seen 3 skits now about it. Women are not saints but they just are not capable of this level of violence at the same rate as men although it's increasing because we are allowing it in men and women think they should be more like men to have power so why not? And because men are so out of touch with their emotions they can be like a cannon with them without even noticing. Oh, it was the alcohol or the drugs or the video game. Tons of kids now getting killed because some guy was angry about a video game. I just can't take the comments that women are emotional about something too seriously when women are literally taking their life into their hands by going on a date with some of these men. So they have to worry about getting pregnant and getting killed and you really think that men are worried about women they date doing the same thing? It's not equal no matter what the words said.