Is this weird? Met a married guy on vacation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP did nothing wrong, and to me it's within normal to exchange social media with people you meet and find interesting on vacation or otherwise. Some people are more open and some are more closed, and it's not necessarily about sex for every friendly acquaintaince.

But now she is sketched out --- so OP, listen to your internal alarm and ignore him, maybe unfriend him, whatever makes you feel right.

Op did plenty wry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You waited in the lobby for a married guy to "say goodbye?!"

LOL of course not. He asked when I was leaving and I said ‘check out is at noon.’ I went to front desk at 11:45, got my receipt, had concierge order me a car and left. I didn’t look to see if he was anywhere in the giant lobby but assume if he was he would’ve said something. I didn’t agree to meet him.

It never ceases to amaze me how people will jumó to conclusions on this board. I’m not naive. I’m just curious about his machinations. He and his wife both followed me to check out my music. If he says anything overt I’ll screenshot it and send to her. I’m not interested in becoming involved with him in any sense.

I have never blocked anyone. I prefer to be aware of what crazies are up
To..,How will you know you need a restraining order?!

Since you've got it all figured out why did you post?.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think op is a troll or weird

Ditto

No. She's just what the kids call a bird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I have a coworker, who is married that does this openly in the workplace. He grooms people. It's really awful.

Ew!

[Anonymous]

Are men and women not allowed to have friendships together?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What's weird is your behavior in all this. Starting with giving a a man you knew was married your info.
Block him and do better.

I am an artist and give married men my public Instagram acct info all the time. Its building a brand. It’s different than if you’re just someone who posts selfies and pics of your food.

[Anonymous]

Are you a porn artist

[Anonymous]

How did you know she looked you up on Instagram? You said your profile is public so you would have no idea. Sketch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How did you know she looked you up on Instagram? You said your profile is public so you would have no idea. Sketch.

I said I was a musician and they asked if I had an Instagram page. I told her my profile name and she looked it up on her phone and followed me while we were talking. This is omety normal when you meet people with this hs to
Promote. Or if you’re in your 20s. You must not use social media much

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How did you know she looked you up on Instagram? You said your profile is public so you would have no idea. Sketch.

I said I was a musician and they asked if I had an Instagram page. I told her my profile name and she looked it up on her phone and followed me while we were talking. This is omety normal when you meet people with this hs to
Promote. Or if you’re in your 20s. You must not use social media much

Sorry. Completely normal if you have things to promote

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How did you know she looked you up on Instagram? You said your profile is public so you would have no idea. Sketch.

I said I was a musician and they asked if I had an Instagram page. I told her my profile name and she looked it up on her phone and followed me while we were talking. This is omety normal when you meet people with this hs to
Promote. Or if you’re in your 20s. You must not use social media much

You're not gonna win with this group. They see you as the OW even though you did nothing wrong.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it sounds like he is grooming you. He isn't at all suave or charming. It sounds to me like he wants to sleep with you, knows that it's inappropriate because he is married, but enjoys keeping up kind of a flirtatious relationship. The reason this doesn't feel fun and light and flirty isn't that he's married. It's that he is just really, really bad at it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Sketchy. Block him.

Agree’d.

This guy will only bring trouble into your life.

This sounds like an opening scene in a Lifetime movie….

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think it sounds like he is grooming you. He isn't at all suave or charming. It sounds to me like he wants to sleep with you, knows that it's inappropriate because he is married, but enjoys keeping up kind of a flirtatious relationship. The reason this doesn't feel fun and light and flirty isn't that he's married. It's that he is just really, really bad at it.

LOL. This sounds right.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How did you know she looked you up on Instagram? You said your profile is public so you would have no idea. Sketch.

I said I was a musician and they asked if I had an Instagram page. I told her my profile name and she looked it up on her phone and followed me while we were talking. This is omety normal when you meet people with this hs to
Promote. Or if you’re in your 20s. You must not use social media much

You're not gonna win with this group. They see you as the OW even though you did nothing wrong.

This tracks!