We don't need to convince someone who likely already had Covid and doesn't want to acknowledge any of this research. |
I would definitely keep them home because it's going to be a mess, and school will very likely close anyway, so the education benefits are minimal but the risk of infection is high. You are far from alone - many parents are keeping them home, and many doctors are saying it's a valid action. |
I'm keeping her home. I just called it when I realized that the main compelling reason not to was to avoid discomfort and embarrassment on my part. (This is in our specific situation.) Now, I've never been terribly afraid of the consequences of her getting covid (she's 8)-- and especially less so now that she's vaccinated. Although things like what's discussed in this thread have always been in the back of my mind when I said "We don't know the long term consequences and I'd rather avoid it." But it's just not worth it for me to send her to school on Monday, even just considering she could help spread it at her school and in the vulnerable community if she does get it. Im betting on the fact that her school will likely go virtual in a week or so anyway. But either way, I can always change my mind and send her back at any time. If she gets COVID, which she would not be unlikely to, I can't take that back. And though I'm sure she'll catch it one day, and I've made peace with that, I'd rather that happen during a time that not literally almost everyone is getting it. |
Covid isn’t going to disappear. At some point in their life they’ll probably get covid. |
Much respect to your decision. Thanks for sharing your thinking! |
I’m with you. I think there’s basically a division between people who are willing to delay gratification and those who simply cannot. I’m not a gambler in any aspect of my life and certainly not with my health and that of my family. I am able to carve out and retain the things that are meaningful to me and leave the rest. Basically you are a grasshopper or an ant. |
Just popping in to say we are also struggling with this. I am so reluctant to disrupt school more for my earl elementary kid, but I’m super nervous about next week, have an unvaccinated younger child at home and although healthy myself as far as I know, I have had reactive airway and needed an inhaler in the past. We are leaning toward keeping our kid home for at least the first few days. If it seems to go ok, maybe then we will reconsider. I’m worried about telling the school, though. I don’t know how strict they will be on unexcused absences. |
Your kid will catch it, if not next week then next month or next year or five years, but they will catch it |
+1. It’s unavoidable at this point. Your whole family will have it sooner or later. |
| Here’s the thing. Covid is so rampant and widespread at this point, if it actually is causing significant brain damage and future brain disease in everyone it infects, basically the vast majority of the population will have it. It will lead to an apocalyptic situation where there will be more with dementia or whatever brain impact than not, and not enough healthy to care for those who are not. I guess watch a post-apocalyptic movie and decide if you want to be one of the survivors. If it’s really that bad, I guess that’s what we’ll be dealing with in the future, because Covid will infect mostly everyone. |
| OP, why is your school age child unvaccinated? I’m genuinely confused. |
| It may be unavoidable at the point, but I guess I’d rather do my best to avoid it for as long as possible. For one I’d rather not roll the dice when literally everyone else is sick too. And moreover they are learning more about how to treat it every day, getting new meds, ramped up medication supply, and there’s work on a polyvalent (? I think that was the word) vaccine by the Army that’s in phase 2, I think. So I want to put it off as long possible. Not hiding in my house level, but put off stuff that can be reasonably put off - at least for the next month or so to see how this goes. I’m in the camp of being pretty concerned by the brain and vascular aspects of the disease, though I understand that it may present in the immediate term as a bad cold or flu. |
| It's probably true. People don't need to be super smart to function pretty well in society. So many things kill your brain cells, including a glass of wine at dinner, headboard banging sex, and even video games so why not just live it up and zombie out? |
But how are any of those things going to fix the brain aspects (assuming those are even real…) |
True, they may not, but I guess I’m hopeful they will figure something out. Or maybe a new vaccine will be more protective against infection, or maybe all the people saying the virus will attenuate are right and so better to try to avoid. At a minimum trying to get infected as few times as possible seems prudent - within reason of living some semblance of a normal life. Maybe you pull back during surges times and loosen up during lulls. I don’t know. I just am not ready to give up on trying to avoid it quite yet. |