Beauty and Grooming habits to appeal to "UMC type" men

[Anonymous]

OP I am open to dating UMC white or Indian or Pakistani men. My parents are very worldly and modern and I was raised in Geneva and Cairo. I moved to the U.S for college and have been here since. I was shy and very insecure when I was younger so I never made myself available until now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP I am open to dating UMC white or Indian or Pakistani men. My parents are very worldly and modern and I was raised in Geneva and Cairo. I moved to the U.S for college and have been here since. I was shy and very insecure when I was younger so I never made myself available until now.

Why not a Pakistani cricketer or cricket exec like Malala?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I am open to dating UMC white or Indian or Pakistani men. My parents are very worldly and modern and I was raised in Geneva and Cairo. I moved to the U.S for college and have been here since. I was shy and very insecure when I was younger so I never made myself available until now.

Why not a Pakistani cricketer or cricket exec like Malala?

I would look to your family and Pakistani friends to connect you with someone. That would be your best bet. Not that you no white man would be interested, but Pakistani immigrants have a reputation for not dating outside of their own and families not approve. Men probably recognize you are 1st generation and don’t want that drama

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Thank god my UC DH isn’t a superficial narcissist. He loves me however I dress.

You’re the wife, he saves the looks for his AP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

[Anonymous]

Wax on, wax off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Like a WASP.

You cannot look like a WASP if youre Pakistani. It would be literally impossible.

Better to give OP some real, actionable advice. Make sure you look clean, spray some perfume on, make sure you're not cooking with heavily smelly middle eastern flavors like curry as that can stick to you, wear flattering clothes that show off your figure, master a pretty, flattering makeup routine.

Good lord.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

I have seen many UMC women have longer nails, but they generally dont work in DC and are in more fashion forward fields like entertainment, PR, fashion etc and live in places like New York or Los Angeles. But yeah, youre not gonna find many feds with long acrylics

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

I have seen many UMC women have longer nails, but they generally dont work in DC and are in more fashion forward fields like entertainment, PR, fashion etc and live in places like New York or Los Angeles. But yeah, youre not gonna find many feds with long acrylics

+1

Nyc finance, sales, crypto, media umc millennial and gen z women have longer nails.

[Anonymous]

Umc women in Milan and Madrid absolutely have longer nails as well.

[Anonymous]

What man rich or otherwise looks at a woman’s nails?

[Anonymous]

Vineyard Vines everything

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Dear goodness, is this always the same obsessed poster?

You need to look clean and put-together, OP, whoever you consort with. Casual means a style (like jeans and a large sweater), it doesn't mean schlumpy (jeans must fit your figure, sweater mustn't pill).

Pay attention to your body: nice clean arch to your brows (don't overpluck), as clear, glowing skin as you can for your skin type and age, soft hands and clean nails, healthy hair. It helps to be reasonably fit and slim. These basics are so important.

If you select something that's edgy, like long nails, or over-the-knee boots, or wild colors of make-up/polish/hair dye, or particularly deep decolletee, whatever it is, remember to have the rest of you be more conservative, otherwise you'll look weird.

OMG! Never choose long nails! That’s a like a blasting neon sign that you are not UMC. I have never met a single UMC woman who has long nails—but their assistants certainly do!

This. The longest I have seen on an UMC professional woman are like Melania Trump's nails. Slightly longer than fingertip length, rounded, and painted pale. That still looks elegant. Most have Kate Middleton nails which are fingertip length, rounded, and not polished.

I have seen many UMC women have longer nails, but they generally dont work in DC and are in more fashion forward fields like entertainment, PR, fashion etc and live in places like New York or Los Angeles. But yeah, youre not gonna find many feds with long acrylics

+1

Nyc finance, sales, crypto, media umc millennial and gen z women have longer nails.

Yep. For many of these UMC women, it's a status symbol. "Look at my job and how i can afford to pay for these elaborate nails and am allowed to wear whatever the F I want at work and still make bank." Same thing with dying your hair elaborate colors. It's conspicuous consumption. But it's definitely not the DC government worker crowd

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Vineyard Vines everything

Nope.

Brown girls rocking vineyard vines, ll bean, New England prep attire is total cringe.

Brown girls with money present way better in designer.

Op do not copy umc dc white women.

Your references should be to see what is happening in nyc or la.

Not dc or Boston.

You can overlap with Lululemon but not the vineyard vines ll bean stuff.