BIL offered our vacation home to his brother

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Anonymous wrote:Nah, OP is enabler who goes along to get along, doesn’t mind drama. Her husband wanted to cancel and it’s pretty clear from her posts that she doesn’t want to cancel. She’s into big family gatherings, likes to play hostess and doesn’t have to entertain the kids as much if cousins are around.

Her husband’s sister is a jerk. Not only did she pull this crap, she has yet to apologize instead trying to minimize her brother, OP’s feelings and then trying to claim misunderstandings and then rationalization. OP and sister will have a good time, OPs husband will have a crappy time.

Incredible psychoanalysis, Dr. Freud! Danke Schoen!
How ever did anyone get through life without your baseless diagnoses before?

You don't know the OP, and you have less than ZERO clue of what type of person she really is.
It seems you're projecting a bit too much here (or you're putting that associates degree in psychology from University of Phoenix to g̶o̶o̶d̶ ridiculous use here).
Her story really triggered you, huh?

Thankfully, OP isn't a bitter, impulsive, irrational & hate filled person, because resorting to burning bridges as a manor of resolving emotions for feeling wronged, maltreated or taken anywhere of (rather than having a mature conversation, which may include creating appropriate boundaries, constraints, limitations or restrictions) is what emotionally stunted people do, who don't have the intellectual resources, capabilities, competence or wherewithal, to do the work to get through such ordeals, while befitting in keeping the bonds tight).

What the "difficult" personality does instead, is goes through life cutting off, cutting out and burning bridges, no matter who else it affects... as long as they feel better, so be it.
We certainly can't have BIL & SIL feeling like they "won" right? Or that they got off the hook without receiving their 20 full lashes across their backs??
"Giving" in like OP is doing is weak, weak, weak and that would be a fate worse than death, right??

What an awful way to manage life (apologies... rather, NOT-manage-life) and a far worse example to set/pattern for your children.

Oh, see... that WAS fun!
Of course, you don't need to be a psychiatrist to figure the difficult personality out, it's so simple... it's basic common sense.

Ummm..who is the one triggered? Look in the mirror. Geeesh.

+1. PP sounds like a hysterical nut job."HURR DURR UR ASSOCIATES DEGREE FROM UNIVERSITY OF PHOENIX." Fool.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm trying to understand what the screened in porch is like that it can sleep 4 - do you have several sectionals? They did bring a tent with pads?

I am weird out people sleeping on couches sometimes, especially if the furniture is wicker or more flimsy. Especially adult-size man people: you stretch when you sleep, you indent cushions, you sweat, etc... I would be SO ICKED OUT to have 3-4 people sleeping on my furniture that I want to relax on the next day. And as for coolers, etc... that's just a lot of wear and tear and food prep that normally doesn't happen on your porch. It's a lot.

Eww eww eww.

This is nuts.

Do you ever sit on couches/chairs in hotels, or sleep on beds in hotels? Do you ever sit on the chairs or benches on Metro platforms, at the train station, or at the airport?