Absolutely. There is a very bitter poster here and u have no idea why they have such an ax to grind. My kid isn’t even applying for a couple of years and my top vice would definitely not be 5 miles from my house but likely in-state public is our most likely option, and it’s a good college if only you can get in. Really no reason to trash it or piss on other people’s choices unless you are a very unhappy mean person. |
Please name them. |
PP referenced the "Big 10". That's the name of UMD's athletic conference.
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Wtf is wrong with you? |
This is me not caring. The point still stands. NYS, btw, is cheaper. |
You should ask that question while stating in a mirror? You wrote a troll post that your son was rejected with great stats. What was your end goal? I suspect it’s a MAGA thing. |
dp.. my kid's potential is a double STEM major +1 year master, graduating in 4 years from UMD because that's what they want. "Excellent" college is subjective. My DC#2 absolutely does not want a SLAC in the middle of nowhere. They would call that "provincial", and boring AF. UMD is T50. Why on earth would people pay money for a college that is rated much much lower, and where the job prospects are much lower. Most of us don't have family money such that our kids can just do whatever they want and not think about getting a good paying job? Do you know how many grads can't find decent jobs after college? I want my kids to go wherever they want. I have encouraged them to go study abroad. My spouse is a dual citizen, and we've encouraged them to go live in that country for a while. I've also told them to not be tied to this area. I'm originally from CA, and DC#2 wants to move back there at some point. So you are also wrong about UMD parents wanting them to live "provincial" lives. This area is a very diverse area, more so than the Bay Area where I moved from. If my kids want to stay here, I see nothing wrong with that. It's more diverse than the vast majority of cities around the world. Ask anyone who has lived in a different country and who now lives here (like my spouse). Also, my kids are biracial, and there are some places in this country and around the world that I would not want them to live in. You sound like an utter snob and completely clueless. |
FFS, it’s clearly not a troll. Unfortunately this happens. And yes it’s offensive that you said the essay must have been offensive or the recommendations were bad. |
And out my family to you nice people? Hell no. I have no idea why you're so invested in UMD, and the fact that you're not even going through college admissions right now makes your opinion even more sad and suss. The fact that another poster comes in here with a story about their own experience and you attack and insinuate things about their kid is also, btw, beyond horrible. Why on earth would I open up my own family to your nasty crap? No, Virginia, when everyone doesn't want the same things you do that isn't because they're jealous. Sometimes it's just because you're ignorant and have no taste. |
Ha! You’re hilarious. My kids applied to 5-6 schools each. UMD was a match. Both got in to UMD. We can afford to send both. One will go as UMD was her first choice. The other will likely go out of state to art school. I think you’re posting BS as you can’t cite the schools. |
Those schools are offering a lot of merit to a lot of students because they are desperate for students. They are also tiny in comparison to a large flagship. Some kids would die at a SLAC in the middle of nowhere, my kids included. |
DP. How would naming the colleges out your family? Aren’t their thousands of students attending? |
dp.. hey dummy, this is a thread about UMD. If you hate it so much, why the heck are you on this thread. Only people who have an inferiority complex linger on threads that have nothing to do with them. You sound like a dumb insecure snob. |
It doesn’t happen with those stats. NM semi-finalist especially. Especially as students with lower stats were admitted. She added the white male part to rile people up. The essay was probably about the “Great Replacement”. |
You seem to be confusing several posters. I asked what colleges they were. Someone else expressed skepticism that you got $50k a year merit (not me but I agree with that). And I absolutely, resolutely, am not attacking the poor kid with very high stats who did not get in to UMD engineering. The fact that several posters are trying to tear that poor kid apart searching for the reason he didn’t get in (to convince themselves that the same won’t happen to them) is not only shameful and offensive but it also makes it less likely that others like you will share useful info on this thread. How about showing some support here? |