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I have no trouble believing she is a vindictive and petty person. She also seems like a classic "my way or the highway" person who refuses to lose, ever. I also find it hard to envision him doing anything to justify this hard line. |
You can refuse to believe it, but it doesn’t mean he isn’t a bad guy. |
+1 I think he’s an alcoholic and nothing an alcoholic does can surprise me at this point. |
DP. Brad doesn’t have a track record of being abusive, and he seems better liked among his peers than she is. Based on both of their known personal histories, she’s much more erratic and unstable than he is. |
And there's been nothing to suggest he deserved to be cut out of his kids' lives. |
I think they're probably both egomaniacal jerks, but she's the worse of the two. |
| He strikes me as a somewhat distant father. Because she’s obviously terrible and he did nothing to get his kids away from her. The real headline is that the kids are clearly secondary to whatever drama they refuse to give up. |
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I think it’s a window into Jolie’s mind that she’s the daughter of that nutjob Jon Voight and that they’ve had a very strained relationship her whole life. Also that she was hospitalized for anorexia as a teenager and quite obviously still struggles to maintain a healthy weight - that is, heavy enough. Anorexia is notoriously incurable and the most deadly of psychiatric disorders.
The gamut of weirdness Jolie has exhibited over her time in the public eye and the collecting of foreign born adopted children reminds me of Mia Farrow, another unbalanced person who was all about making her breakup from Woody Allen as toxic as possible and making it a lifelong ongoing drama that has damaged their kids and her kids and lots of other people in the collateral damage. Both of them seem like histrionic personalities, maybe borderline personality disorder is at play. Both of them have messed up their kids in very serious ways by undermining healthy relationships with fathers and other extended family members. Neither is a good mother in my book. |
He strikes me as a totally checked out father. Which, given the bizarre childhood that Jolie made sure to give the children, is reasonable. But that was years ago and he cleaned up and tried to be more a part of the children's lives. Of course Jolie didn't want that to happen. She has been in complete control of their lives for years and years. |
| The older adopted kids supposedly don’t want to see him, which isn’t surprising given that she successfully alienated them from him. |
Or they know the worst of him and are opting out. |
They've been divorcing for over 4 years. She's had that long to alienate them from their father. |
Why is it so hard for you to believe he could be at fault? Having been raised around chill, charismatic alcoholics who turn in to freaking nightmares I tend to think the kids could be acting rationally. |
The kids aren’t babies though. Maybe she’s trying to protect the kids — who have decided for their own reasons that they don’t want him to have custody and decision- making powers over them. It does happen, it it may have much more to do with him as a father than anything else. While there are no winners here, being forced by the courts to be in the custody of someone that you feel isn’t a good parent can leave you feeling very helpless and very screwed. |
Yes, of course children make decisions and decide they don't want to see a parent. That doesn't mean they should get their wish. Children are children, not adults. |