80% of women swipe on just 20% of men on dating apps

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

DP.

Why are men on DCUM obsessed with using women? How old are you? When adults have consensual sex, no one is using anyone. Do you only get off when you think you are " using" women?

I mean the only way he would be able to have sex is non-consensually so I think we should just be glad he's talking about using someone in terms of picking up a drunk girl at a bar as opposed to actually hurting her.

Still super rapey. Can’t get a girl who’s sober, has to take advantage of one under the influence. I bet the bars around have his picture posted in the women’s bathroom to avoid.

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DP but come on, as my hot, successful, attorney husband likes to say, you're better than mocking typos.

You don't think this typo (i.e., typing "dog" for "God") is mockable? You must not have been on this board for long.

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Hysterical reading a thread full of men complaining about ugly women when I know half of y'all would pay for a handjob from an ugly woman.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

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DP but come on, as my hot, successful, attorney husband likes to say, you're better than mocking typos.

You don't think this typo (i.e., typing "dog" for "God") is mockable? You must not have been on this board for long.

No, I don't. The letters in both words are exactly the same, they are just out of order, hence me being able to reasonably assume it was a typo. Her point is still made.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

He's jealous of them. So he tells himself that they're all out to use women, but he's a "nice guy" who just wants to get married.

That makes sense.

One of the best looking guys I know has a wife and 2 kids and is deliriously happy. His wife is gorgeous as well. They are #relationshipgoals

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Anonymous wrote:If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

^This. This is why you see on facebook's "are we dating the same guy?" and Tea App.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

I am a woman in my early 30s living in a city and dating until about two years ago. I was never ghosted, if anything I did the ghosting, which I fully admit was shitty of me.

I don't know men who have slept with over 100 women because I don't hang out with trashy people. The men I socialize with are professional men looking for a wife/mother of their children.

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Anonymous wrote:Oh sweetie. I’m happily married. And I thank dog every day I don’t have to deal with dating men like you. Your continual dismissal of basic facts to insult and hate women is sad for you. Time to rejoin reality, otherwise you’ll get left behind.

Sweetie, I also thank Dog (see your post above) every day that I do not have to deal with dating you.

Most women are great. They are not the problem. The problem is what you see in the mirror. And I wish to Dog it were not true.

Oh it wasn’t a typo. I don’t believe in magic sky daddy. So yea, I thank dog that I don’t have to deal with incel losers like you IRL. You’re really not as clever as you think you are. It’s getting sad.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

More evidence you're an idiot, you're shocked to find out people on a parenting forum are, you know, old enough to be parents.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

Why don’t you just pay a prostitute? Why do you pester women on dating apps if you just want to “use them for casual hookups”? Too cheap?

Too broke, more like. It's hard finding meaningful employment when you're not naturally intelligent, not educated, and so maladjusted you're living in your parents' basement at 30.

😂😂😂

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

Why are teenage boys hanging out on a mommy forum??

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

I am a woman in my early 30s living in a city and dating until about two years ago. I was never ghosted, if anything I did the ghosting, which I fully admit was shitty of me.

I don't know men who have slept with over 100 women because I don't hang out with trashy people. The men I socialize with are professional men looking for a wife/mother of their children.

This is exactly what it is. Low class, antisocial behavior. We are all wasting our time arguing with a man who has likely not gone to college, doesn't hold down a professional job, and was raised in a dysfunctional household where women are good for sex and making dinner. If you are the type of person to come from a nice family and hold down a 9-5 job, you likely do not have to worry about encountering incels in your day to day life.

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Anonymous wrote:If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

^This. This is why you see on facebook's "are we dating the same guy?" and Tea App.

Meh.

Women ghost too, but men don't bother talking about it. Women are more likely to complain out loud while men just move on...or become bitter incels.

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

Are you seriously trying to argue that an attractive man won't play the field with less attractive women and use them for one night stands? You're living under a rock if you think this isn't occurring. Forget the numbers, they're not meant to be taken literally. It's to illustrate the concept of men being less picky about who they bang vs who they date/marry, and this dynamic is being magnified x10 on dating apps. A few hot men are inundated with matches from a multitude of women and use them for casual hookups.

You have a very shallow view of men. Likely because that’s what YOU would do (if you could). Lots of gorgeous men want to wife up a great woman and start a family.

It’s really sad you think all men are just horn dogs who can’t control themselves. You don’t think very highly of other men, do you?

If you've been in your 20's any time recently, living in a city, knowing a mix of both men and women and listening to their dating experiences, you will KNOW this is happening on a large scale. I'm not projecting what I wish I could do on other men, I'm simply reporting my observations. I know men who are models (or could be) and literally have slept with over 100 women. They are playing the field like crazy. I hear from female friends and relatives all the time about how they go on dates with hot guys and then get ghosted immediately after sex or after a few dates. Men ghosting after sex is so common that it's become a meme. Are you guys just old?

Why aren't you getting it?

You are the male equivalent of women who post here on "how to find an old money husband." We say to those women every time, if you are not of that milieu, those men do not want you.

These women do not want you because you are ugly and weird.