Female sexual desire

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The angry incel guy is on a roll today!!

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

When women don't want to have sex with a fat guy - "well of course, no duh, what do you expect?"

When men don't want to have sex with a fat woman - "EW HOW DARE YOU, YOU DISGUSTING FATPHOBIC INCEL TROLL!"

Aww, his widdle feefees got hurted!

No, when "men" compare body types they don't like to diseases, smart people call that nonsense out. Sorry not sorry.[/quote

It doesn’t hurt my feelings at all to point out female hypocrisy, solipsism, and hatred of men. I enjoy it! Could do it all day. Sorry not sorry.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

When women don't want to have sex with a fat guy - "well of course, no duh, what do you expect?"

When men don't want to have sex with a fat woman - "EW HOW DARE YOU, YOU DISGUSTING FATPHOBIC INCEL TROLL!"

women have sex with unattractive men and unconventionally attractive men all. the. time.

Way to miss the point genius. Men have sex with unattractive women all the time, too. Yet on DCUM refusing sex to an unattractive spouse is considered normal and acceptable if it’s a woman refusing, but an outrage if it’s a man refusing.

[Anonymous]

News flash… women don’t have difficulty having sex whenever they want it. That is why there aren’t communities of female incels.

Women don’t launch entire social movements designed around the idea that they are entitled to sex with men that are more attractive than they are.

If a woman can’t have sex with someone she wants to have sex with, she just doesn’t have sex. She doesn’t die, doesn’t become a bitter angry incel. She just moves on and gets a pet.

[Anonymous]

I will never understand incels. I have been rejected by women in the past. I'm not every woman's cup of tea. I just don't get it. Men get rejected more than woman do and OMG that's okay guys lol. Seriously it's okay.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction.

30 lbs overweight isn't a disorder. And no, sexually rejecting someone you claim to love because they've gained weight isn't "a normal reaction" at all.

You're vain. Just admit it.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

When women don't want to have sex with a fat guy - "well of course, no duh, what do you expect?"

When men don't want to have sex with a fat woman - "EW HOW DARE YOU, YOU DISGUSTING FATPHOBIC INCEL TROLL!"

women have sex with unattractive men and unconventionally attractive men all. the. time.

Way to miss the point genius. Men have sex with unattractive women all the time, too. Yet on DCUM refusing sex to an unattractive spouse is considered normal and acceptable if it’s a woman refusing, but an outrage if it’s a man refusing.

Where is the forum of angry incel women, my guy? See the part that's missing here?

If you're dying of thirst and someone offers you water, but you reject it because it's not the fancy brand you like best, your death by dehydration is your own fault. If men create whole forums devoted to hating the women who won't have sex with them, but DQ any woman who isn't a size 2 or smaller and an 8+ on whatever gross scale men use to rate women as objects, well, guess who's responsible for them not getting laid...

And women don't do this. We really don't. Maybe there are some super vain women who would rather not have sex than have sex with a man who doesn't meet some impossibly-high standard, but that 6-foot, 6 figures, 6... logic is men projecting their sexual dysfunction onto women (or their idea of women, since most "men" who think that way don't seem to know many).

I'm sorry men were somehow conditioned by ads and porn to think that only women who look and sound a certain way are desireable. Maybe if more of you used more of the big head on your shoulders you'd be able to expand your "effability" spectrum and get laid more often? Women do this ALL. THE. TIME.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction.

No, you're not. You may be a "female", but I doubt that too. No grown woman compares fat women to people with chicken pox, unless she's got a dysfunctional level of internalized misogyny or some other sort of psychological issue.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

When women don't want to have sex with a fat guy - "well of course, no duh, what do you expect?"

When men don't want to have sex with a fat woman - "EW HOW DARE YOU, YOU DISGUSTING FATPHOBIC INCEL TROLL!"

women have sex with unattractive men and unconventionally attractive men all. the. time.

Way to miss the point genius. Men have sex with unattractive women all the time, too. Yet on DCUM refusing sex to an unattractive spouse is considered normal and acceptable if it’s a woman refusing, but an outrage if it’s a man refusing.

And here's the on-thread answer. What makes a man unattractive to a woman isn't necessarily what he looks like. The hottest man in the world being openly racist, sexist, redhatty or just plain stupid makes my downstairs desert dry. Female sexual desire isn't the pornified, ad-fueled, reductive, "human as object" nonsense that men have apparently accepted as some sort of biological default (it isn't). At least, not yet.

"He was really hot... until he opened his mouth" is a thing women say. Like our emotional range, our desire is still allowed to be complex and nuanced (for now). Most of us don't want to be with someone who just treats us like an object, at least not all the time.

Refusing to have sex with a "partner" who tasks you with all the household/childcare/emotional labor isn't anywhere comparable to "I'd have stuck it in her if she was 20 pounds lighter".

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

When women don't want to have sex with a fat guy - "well of course, no duh, what do you expect?"

When men don't want to have sex with a fat woman - "EW HOW DARE YOU, YOU DISGUSTING FATPHOBIC INCEL TROLL!"

Aww, his widdle feefees got hurted!

No, when "men" compare body types they don't like to diseases, smart people call that nonsense out. Sorry not sorry.

It doesn’t hurt my feelings at all to point out female hypocrisy, solipsism, and hatred of men. I enjoy it! Could do it all day. Sorry not sorry.

Well then, I'm sorry by how empty you must feel on a thread that has exactly none of those things, poor boy.

[Anonymous]

Obesity is not a disease.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction.

30 lbs overweight isn't a disorder. And no, sexually rejecting someone you claim to love because they've gained weight isn't "a normal reaction" at all.

You're vain. Just admit it.

The f^^k it isn't. You don't even differentiate between a 12 yo girl at 140 and a 55 yo man at 230. They aren't the same and you are so disingenuos that you will atempt to normalize it.

This country is in crisis. People are fat af. The Army declined the largest percentage of recruits in .... the history of.... Army recruiting. Diabetes is rampant in the youngest generation.

Stop making it Ok to be fat. You may as well be defending drunks. Just stop.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction.

30 lbs overweight isn't a disorder. And no, sexually rejecting someone you claim to love because they've gained weight isn't "a normal reaction" at all.

You're vain. Just admit it.

DP. My husband didn’t want to have sex with me when I gained 30 lbs during a mental health situation. I don’t blame him. I am only 5’2 and the extra weight made me look and feel awful. I’ve lost the weight and everything went back on track.

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I don’t want to have sex with my husband when he’s fat. I have never been attracted to women, yet I get the simulated experience of sleeping with a pregnant woman if I ever want to have sex. His beer belly is the size of a 6 month pregnant woman. It’s unattractive and kills the mood.

This has nothing to do with my insecurities or how I feel about my body. It’s insulting to suggest that not wanting to have sex with an obese guy is somehow “in my head.”

"the mood" is in your head. Get on top, get it from behind, get creative. If you're imagining "beer belly" and "6 month pregnant woman" and that's not doing it for you, well, that's your head. You can condition yourself to be attracted to all kinds of things.

-a woman

This is the dumbest most insane thing on this thread. No way can I close my eyes and think of England. I’m not Melanie. I’ll literally vomit.
-a woman

Squeamish people are bad in bed.

I’m not squeamish if you’re hot. But I’m not effing you if you’re fat. Sorry not sorry.

"My orgasm depends on your body" is a low-skill, sexually-immature mentality, for all parties

Get real.

Sorry you’re unattractive.

Sorry you're small-minded and a terrible lay!

Dude, it's basic biology to want to mate with someone who is healthy. It goes against nature to want to procreate with someone who is obviously ill. That's like someone saying to you that you are bad at sex because you don't want it with your partner who currently has a chicken pox infection. It's normal (and healthy) to be turned off by an unhealthy body.

compares "obesity" (which, to someone like you, is probably a size 12) to an infectious disease...

Yup. fatphobic incel troll is back!

I’m a woman. And obesity is a disorder. It’s not a healthy or normal way of being. It’s not a moral failing. But I don’t want to have sex with my DH after he gained 30lbs. That’s a normal reaction.

30 lbs overweight isn't a disorder. And no, sexually rejecting someone you claim to love because they've gained weight isn't "a normal reaction" at all.

You're vain. Just admit it.

DP. My husband didn’t want to have sex with me when I gained 30 lbs during a mental health situation. I don’t blame him. I am only 5’2 and the extra weight made me look and feel awful. I’ve lost the weight and everything went back on track.

How long did you stop having sex for? Other than when I our children, I don’t think we have gone more than a week without having sex. It would take six months to lose 30lbs at 1-2 lbs/wk. Not to mention the time he wasn’t having sex with you before you lost the weight.
That seems kind of wild.