Boyfriend told me to “shut the F up”

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. You get one chance. He'll keep doing it

So you're cool with getting dumped for one mistake, even after you apologize? Must be nice to always be perfect...

It’s not hard to not curse at your family. I’m sorry that you were raised to accept this behavior as normal.

Normal or not normal. It seems what is hard for you to accept is that people are different than you are. Your world view isn’t the only acceptable outlook. It’s what works for you but there are different types who can be totally fine people who get there a different way than you do

Of course. And I get to ditch suitors and anyone else who behaves like this around me.

Have fun being cursed at by your partners, I am sure that you will find the spouse that you deserve.

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

Some of the people who aren't OP claiming they're "supporting" op for "literally basic human decency" are dehumanizing the man she loves and calling him literal trash, so, you know, maybe consider your approach if you're trying to convince people you give half a rat's ass about decency...

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. You get one chance. He'll keep doing it

So you're cool with getting dumped for one mistake, even after you apologize? Must be nice to always be perfect...

It’s not hard to not curse at your family. I’m sorry that you were raised to accept this behavior as normal.

Normal or not normal. It seems what is hard for you to accept is that people are different than you are. Your world view isn’t the only acceptable outlook. It’s what works for you but there are different types who can be totally fine people who get there a different way than you do

Of course. And I get to ditch suitors and anyone else who behaves like this around me.

Have fun being cursed at by your partners, I am sure that you will find the spouse that you deserve.

The first line is fine. The second line reveals what a judgmental see-you-next-Tuesday you actually are, even though you didn't use no-no words.

What a nasty witch you are!

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. You get one chance. He'll keep doing it

So you're cool with getting dumped for one mistake, even after you apologize? Must be nice to always be perfect...

It’s not hard to not curse at your family. I’m sorry that you were raised to accept this behavior as normal.

Normal or not normal. It seems what is hard for you to accept is that people are different than you are. Your world view isn’t the only acceptable outlook. It’s what works for you but there are different types who can be totally fine people who get there a different way than you do

Of course. And I get to ditch suitors and anyone else who behaves like this around me.

Have fun being cursed at by your partners, I am sure that you will find the spouse that you deserve.

The first line is fine. The second line reveals what a judgmental see-you-next-Tuesday you actually are, even though you didn't use no-no words.

What a nasty witch you are!

So you are allowed to curse at your partner but they aren’t allowed to curse back at you? Surprise surprise.

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

NPCs, eh? doubling down on that dehumanizing language whle claiming to be for "basic decency" is so pathetic.

You're a clown. And a clown who apparently cares a great deal, as you continue to engage. We all heard your (stupid) point the first 25 times, hunty.

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Anonymous wrote:Nope. You get one chance. He'll keep doing it

So you're cool with getting dumped for one mistake, even after you apologize? Must be nice to always be perfect...

It’s not hard to not curse at your family. I’m sorry that you were raised to accept this behavior as normal.

Normal or not normal. It seems what is hard for you to accept is that people are different than you are. Your world view isn’t the only acceptable outlook. It’s what works for you but there are different types who can be totally fine people who get there a different way than you do

Of course. And I get to ditch suitors and anyone else who behaves like this around me.

Have fun being cursed at by your partners, I am sure that you will find the spouse that you deserve.

The first line is fine. The second line reveals what a judgmental see-you-next-Tuesday you actually are, even though you didn't use no-no words.

What a nasty witch you are!

So you are allowed to curse at your partner but they aren’t allowed to curse back at you? Surprise surprise.

Wut

Seriously, what even is this new and ridiculous argument? You may need to sober up before replying; you sound wasted and your argument is a mess!

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

NPCs, eh? doubling down on that dehumanizing language whle claiming to be for "basic decency" is so pathetic.

You're a clown. And a clown who apparently cares a great deal, as you continue to engage. We all heard your (stupid) point the first 25 times, hunty.

I just started replying two comments ago, it’s just that normal people agree with me.

It’s too bad that you were raised by negligent parents who taught you to tolerate this behavior. There is still hope for you to break the cycle.


https://1in6.org/

[Anonymous]

OP: get out. Now. Wishing you strength and hoping you go.

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

Wait, are you using gamer lingo? The irony

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

NPC?

Speak English please.

[Anonymous]

Run

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

NPC?

Speak English please.

PP is trying to be modern, and showing their age. https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/real-life-npc

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Anonymous wrote:That was not okay. You should consider if you want a man to treat you that way. I would not.

Counterpoint: everyone makes mistakes. I’ve heard worse from my wife.

No one should be spoken to like that by a loved one. It is abusive.

Glad you’re perfect. But with mere mortals, they make mistakes. The whole picture matters and context matters.

Of course people make mistakes, yet somehow some of us have managed to go our whole lives without talking to someone like that.

Right, because being a smug ah on an anon board makes you better somehow...

You think not cursing at people is being smug? Wow your bar is super low.

You think not cursing at people is being great? Wow your bar is super low.

Not cursing at people is basic manners and human decency.

How sad is it that all we're supporting for op is literally basic human decency, and some people show up and say that's still too much. Wow.

No one is saying basic human decency is “too much”. Sometimes people disagree and that’s ok.

Disagreeing with someone requesting basic human decency = saying it's "too much". Hope that helps.

Your opinion of basic human decency can be different than others when it comes to words being used. Hope that helps.

Some things are clear cut, such as the fact that cussing at someone is not ok. I hope you are just shit posting and trolling and that you truly understand what good treatment is. I won't try to convince you anymore.

Cussing at someone is not okay TO YOU, and that's fine. But expecting that the whole world share your standards is selfish to the point of being myopic.

Not the whole world babe. Just the people we choose to be around. We don’t care about NPCs like you.

NPCs, eh? doubling down on that dehumanizing language whle claiming to be for "basic decency" is so pathetic.

You're a clown. And a clown who apparently cares a great deal, as you continue to engage. We all heard your (stupid) point the first 25 times, hunty.

I just started replying two comments ago, it’s just that normal people agree with me.

It’s too bad that you were raised by negligent parents who taught you to tolerate this behavior. There is still hope for you to break the cycle.


https://1in6.org/

Again, the dehumanization. "Normal people" also disagree with you. Your need to bring someone's parents into it is all about your own dysfunction; this is an anon board, and you don't even seem to know what you don't know. PP was right: you're a clown, and your concern-trolling is totally negated by your choice of labels for strangers. "NPC" is a violent way to describe the peers with whom you share a planet, narcissist.