Matthew perry died

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Just so surprised with his serious health issues he would go in a hot tub or even a pool. How could he not have been informed of the dangers?

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Anonymous wrote:His heart may have simply given up after decades of substance abuse (didn’t his intestines recently rupture for same reason). It was unlucky that he was alone and in the hot tub so that if he had a cardiac episode and can’t get out of the water, then he slides under and there is no one else there to notice and help.

Two people I know who were recovering alcoholics had their hearts just quit, eventually they gave out. He may not have been on anything but the damage was already done.

I think this is what happened. Other nasty PP, get your sh*t together - you don't have to be a jackass.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

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Anonymous wrote:The cast released a statement via People:

“We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family," their statement reads. "There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."
"In time we will say more, as and when we are able," the statement continues. "For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."

Took them this long to say “we will say more” later? I see a special on the horizon with proceeds going to his charity.

What more is there to say, really? Since when do people who are not family or current business associates need to make any public statement at all? How do you read something like this and assume the people involved are busy hatching any plans of any kind?

Why are they saying they will say more? Why not a final statement and end it.

Move on. It's their grief to manage not yours.

I find their statement to very strange.

Everyone grieves differently. You have never been in their situation unless you're secretly like a Seinfeld cast member... for you to find it strange makes no sense.

When you give a condolence message it’s suppose to be final. Not, “we’ll talk about it later.”

And family? Really? Family gets together for birthdays and holidays. They didn’t do that except for the girls. Jen has Friendsgiving every year (minus COVID) the day before Thanksgiving and they are not all there. They are not family nor acct like it.

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Anonymous wrote:NP. As much as I hate to say, his death is only surprising if you have in your head a picture of him in the first few seasons of Friends. He was my favorite character on Friends, but it's painful to watch some of those seasons where he was so clearly sick in his addiction. His appearance in recent years, along with his near death from opioids in 2018, also clearly showed his deep struggles and the damage he had been doing to himself physically for decades.

Even he said his death wouldn't be surprising "I say in the book that if I did die, it would shock people, but it wouldn't surprise anybody."

Not really surprised he was the first to go.

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Anonymous wrote:Not like he was Seinfeld. friends was only 24 minutes long with a cast of 6 and guest stars. He barely had 4 minutes of likes an episode.

He did not write the show.

Actually he frequently helped the writers. He was the only actor allowed in the writers room.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

Even David goes for the young ones! I don’t know about LeBlanc. He seems to keep himself out of the paps and gossip sites.

And David is wearing a baseball hat with the agave leaf (tequila) on it. A little inappropriate at this time.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

Even David goes for the young ones! I don’t know about LeBlanc. He seems to keep himself out of the paps and gossip sites.

And David is wearing a baseball hat with the agave leaf (tequila) on it. A little inappropriate at this time.

LeBlanc always seemed the nicest of the three. The men weren’t close the way the women were. And addicts are hard to get/stay close to. They tend to be emotionally stunted, self-focused, and prone to self-sabotage. I give Perry a lot of credit for his efforts to help other addicts though, seemed very heartfelt.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

Even David goes for the young ones! I don’t know about LeBlanc. He seems to keep himself out of the paps and gossip sites.

And David is wearing a baseball hat with the agave leaf (tequila) on it. A little inappropriate at this time.

LeBlanc always seemed the nicest of the three. The men weren’t close the way the women were. And addicts are hard to get/stay close to. They tend to be emotionally stunted, self-focused, and prone to self-sabotage. I give Perry a lot of credit for his efforts to help other addicts though, seemed very heartfelt.

LeBlanc is super nice and super humble in person (and when he was young, more handsome in person than on television). Have not met the others.

No one deserves this way of life or death.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

Even David goes for the young ones! I don’t know about LeBlanc. He seems to keep himself out of the paps and gossip sites.

And David is wearing a baseball hat with the agave leaf (tequila) on it. A little inappropriate at this time.

LeBlanc always seemed the nicest of the three. The men weren’t close the way the women were. And addicts are hard to get/stay close to. They tend to be emotionally stunted, self-focused, and prone to self-sabotage. I give Perry a lot of credit for his efforts to help other addicts though, seemed very heartfelt.

+1 This seemed to bring out his best self. Poor guy, and the poor people who loved him.

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Anonymous wrote:His heart may have simply given up after decades of substance abuse (didn’t his intestines recently rupture for same reason). It was unlucky that he was alone and in the hot tub so that if he had a cardiac episode and can’t get out of the water, then he slides under and there is no one else there to notice and help.

Two people I know who were recovering alcoholics had their hearts just quit, eventually they gave out. He may not have been on anything but the damage was already done.

The medical examiner would have been able to determine that. Deferral pending toxicology results makes it clear what's expected.

He may have passed out from whatever drug/alcohol he was taking and slipped under the water.

His heart may have just given out from decades of drugs/alcohol abd he happened to be in a hot tub at that moment.

You're not supposed to be in a hot tub for too long anyway so he may have gotten dizzy/fainted and then slipped underwater.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

MAYBE I can see a 19 year old with David, he still looks in shape and big MAYBE on LeBlanc, he’s gained some weight. BUT Perry? I just don’t see why a 19 year old would be attracted to him. I’m talking on-line hook ups.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

I agree. I have 3 family members with decades old substance issues (drinking and drugs). It’s incredible how people are romanticizing MP, probably based on his likable characters he portrayed on the screen. But none of the posters know him, and if he had been in rehab 15 times, he wasn’t immune to the character traits that are common to addicts: lying, manipulation, sneaking around, etc. His most recent fiancé even said she had to go to Al-Anon in order to deal with him, she finally broke it off with him after catching him communicating with a 19 year old on a dating app and that their break up was not amicable. He wasn’t Chandler Bing. He was a very sick person.

I really feel sorry for his parents.

MAYBE I can see a 19 year old with David, he still looks in shape and big MAYBE on LeBlanc, he’s gained some weight. BUT Perry? I just don’t see why a 19 year old would be attracted to him. I’m talking on-line hook ups.

The story was that they matched one another on Raya and started FaceTiming, which apparently the 19 year old recorded and then went public with. He was engaged at the time, so he was busted by his fiancé and it is why she broke up with him. The story has resurfaced now that he died.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the toxicology report will come back that he relapsed. So sad. So many people struggle with addiction.

Yeah, he attended rehab 15 times and it never stuck. In his final Insta posts, he seemed happy. Happy and high. He had plenty of prescription drugs in the house.

You suck, pp

PP was just stating facts.

+1 some posters clearly have never known addicts. It is a brutal, brutal disease. My addict brother’s heart stopped in his sleep after he accidentally took too many prescription pills. His autopsy report was the same: deferred pending toxicology report. We were not surprised by the final results. The medical examiner could have finalized the report with cardiac damage/event if that’s what it was.

That is a drug overdose, and no one really knows if it was accidental or intentional .

I am sorry for your loss.