Matthew perry died

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Anonymous wrote:The cast released a statement via People:

“We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family," their statement reads. "There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."
"In time we will say more, as and when we are able," the statement continues. "For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."

Took them this long to say “we will say more” later? I see a special on the horizon with proceeds going to his charity.

What more is there to say, really? Since when do people who are not family or current business associates need to make any public statement at all? How do you read something like this and assume the people involved are busy hatching any plans of any kind?

Why are they saying they will say more? Why not a final statement and end it.

Thinking this was their group statement. Later individual statements will come out, as each is ready.

I’m thinking they are waiting for the final autopsy report. When the report came back looking for drugs they knew they had to say something. So they even suspect drugs are involved.

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Anyone know why they left him in the yard and didn’t transport him to hospital even though he was deceased?

It seems like in some cases the person gets transported to the hospital even if they are found deceased and in his case they placed the white tent in his yard until the coroner came.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone know why they left him in the yard and didn’t transport him to hospital even though he was deceased?

It seems like in some cases the person gets transported to the hospital even if they are found deceased and in his case they placed the white tent in his yard until the coroner came.

Crime investigation.

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Anyone finding it difficult to watch Friends since his death?

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Anonymous wrote:The cast released a statement via People:

“We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family," their statement reads. "There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."
"In time we will say more, as and when we are able," the statement continues. "For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."

Took them this long to say “we will say more” later? I see a special on the horizon with proceeds going to his charity.

What more is there to say, really? Since when do people who are not family or current business associates need to make any public statement at all? How do you read something like this and assume the people involved are busy hatching any plans of any kind?

Why are they saying they will say more? Why not a final statement and end it.

Move on. It's their grief to manage not yours.

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Anonymous wrote:He was a talented guy for sure, but he was no schwimmer

Poor Schwimmer. No one is going to grieve like this when he dies.

Wow. How ugly of you to anticipate the reaction to someone's death like this. No, there won't be the level of public, fan posts "like this" for any of the other cast members of a long-ago sitcom. Perry's character was particularly loved and IRL, he apparently made real efforts to help other addicts. But your anticipatory comparison of grief over the deaths of people you don't know personally is shallow and ghoulish. Maybe watch fewer Friends reruns and get out of the house.

This is good advice for one of us, and it ain’t me 😘

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Anonymous wrote:The cast released a statement via People:

“We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family," their statement reads. "There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."
"In time we will say more, as and when we are able," the statement continues. "For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."

Took them this long to say “we will say more” later? I see a special on the horizon with proceeds going to his charity.

What more is there to say, really? Since when do people who are not family or current business associates need to make any public statement at all? How do you read something like this and assume the people involved are busy hatching any plans of any kind?

Why are they saying they will say more? Why not a final statement and end it.

Move on. It's their grief to manage not yours.

I find their statement to very strange.

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Anonymous wrote:The cast released a statement via People:

“We are all so utterly devastated by the loss of Matthew. We were more than just cast mates. We are a family," their statement reads. "There is so much to say, but right now we’re going to take a moment to grieve and process this unfathomable loss."
"In time we will say more, as and when we are able," the statement continues. "For now, our thoughts and our love are with Matty’s family, his friends, and everyone who loved him around the world."

Took them this long to say “we will say more” later? I see a special on the horizon with proceeds going to his charity.

What more is there to say, really? Since when do people who are not family or current business associates need to make any public statement at all? How do you read something like this and assume the people involved are busy hatching any plans of any kind?

Why are they saying they will say more? Why not a final statement and end it.

Move on. It's their grief to manage not yours.

I find their statement to very strange.

Everyone grieves differently. You have never been in their situation unless you're secretly like a Seinfeld cast member... for you to find it strange makes no sense.

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone finding it difficult to watch Friends since his death?

Haven't tried to watch full episodes but have been fine with clips on my FB feed. His memoir is another story. I was struggling to read it before his death, even though I've read many addiction memoirs (and have alcoholics in my family so somewhat understand the struggle). I only got 50 pages in and don't know that I'll ever finish it now.

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NP. As much as I hate to say, his death is only surprising if you have in your head a picture of him in the first few seasons of Friends. He was my favorite character on Friends, but it's painful to watch some of those seasons where he was so clearly sick in his addiction. His appearance in recent years, along with his near death from opioids in 2018, also clearly showed his deep struggles and the damage he had been doing to himself physically for decades.

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Anonymous wrote:NP. As much as I hate to say, his death is only surprising if you have in your head a picture of him in the first few seasons of Friends. He was my favorite character on Friends, but it's painful to watch some of those seasons where he was so clearly sick in his addiction. His appearance in recent years, along with his near death from opioids in 2018, also clearly showed his deep struggles and the damage he had been doing to himself physically for decades.

Even he said his death wouldn't be surprising "I say in the book that if I did die, it would shock people, but it wouldn't surprise anybody."

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Anonymous wrote:I am super impressed they are doing something together. They were known as a tight group of friends personally but you can never really be sure how close they were. But the fact they haven't issued a statement ti me means they are so in shock and processing. Also their relationship with him must have been so special for them to take the time to do this much like family would. It's the really quick postings to me that seem like it's a reaction - not insincere but it's easy to post a reaction. When someone is super close to you either you're grieving or you aren't ready to verbalize to public yet. I know if one of my close friends died tragically in an accident and we had mutual close friends I'd be talking to them a lot for comfort before I was able to talk to other people who were not in our circle. I think the magic of that show is that they really were all friends. It's rare to find these days on a hit show. Kind of like how the cast if Orincess Bride

I don’t think they’ve been super close to him in years. He said in the reunion none of them called him.

I never got the impression that any of them were tight, except maybe during filming because they were together so much. I think a lot of people wanted to believe they were a close little family because it keeps the magic of the show going, but at the end of the they were just coworkers. Are people super close with coworkers years after they leave a job? Sometimes, but it's not really the norm. Plus it can be very hard to be close to someone with addiction--it ruins friendships.

+1

They spent 10 years co-starring together on the #1 sitcom - and they got to do this as equals, who negotiated their contracts as a unit. I don't think it's crazy to think that these six actors, with that history, share a bond that the rest of us would find almost impossible to understand.

A bond from 20 years ago, where most have had kids, divorces, family deaths, etc. that bond is fractured by now. They didn’t even get together as a group for 20 year except 2 times. Do you have a bond with your coworkers from 20 years ago?

I do, actually. I was a law clerk with three other people in a very remote area 20 years ago, and we still have a group chat to this day. I don't talk to them every day, but we went through something unusual together, and it created a lasting bond.

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Before I had a mastectomy, I was instructed not to enter a hot tub, sauna, or hot shower.

I already had low blood pressure episodes and a history fainting in the shower.

After the mastectomy, I fainted in the shower during my hospital stay. The steam really can be a killer. I also had low blood pressure and very low heart rate following the surgery.

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Not like he was Seinfeld. friends was only 24 minutes long with a cast of 6 and guest stars. He barely had 4 minutes of likes an episode.

He did not write the show.

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Anonymous wrote:It's so crazy how celebs (and other rich people) seemingly have everything and more disposable income than most of us could ever imagine, yet they reveal how they feel so empty and lifeless inside (and turn to drugs and alcohol/addiction instead).

I guess I'll choose my humble yet happy & healthy life over the glitz and the constant gnawing of unfillment of Hollywood.

This is because money, and the adoration of strangers, do not bring happiness.

And because they were often driven to seek fame/entertainment careers because they already had major issues. (Like writers and alcoholism).

https://www.irishtimes.com/culture/books/booze-as-muse-writers-and-alcohol-from-ernest-hemingway-to-patricia-highsmith-1.2369720