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I doubt crimes like this are a common occurrence. I think it is a rare individual who can cause all the mayhem he did. His life must be absolutely devoid of any hope. |
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EVERY time I see RAGING violent behavior, I wonder what kind of every childhood they had. Either neglect or abuse. Neither is an "excuse." |
Change the mind set from "It will never happen" to "You never know". |
*EARLY childhood.... |
I actually don't think 10-year old boys are tortured and murdered in their homes every week in the United States. |
agree -- my guess is that there's a connection somewhere along the spectrum you describe -- possibly via suspect's mom's business -- possibly they were involved in build-out at martial arts studio? |
My cousin is a Firefighter in New Haven and often has to go into the 'crack' neighborhoods. He said what's truly horrifying is the casual disregard for any human life. The strung-out will kill anyone. There is true evil and it freaks the hell out of me. He describes the look in some of these people as they try to reason. There is no reasoning with these types because they don't value anything. Zero remorse. |
| So--this guy and cohorts are in the run now? Terrifying. |
Police have to be looking into this, right? I live in NW DC. My DH was out of town earlier this week and at 4:00 in the morning, our alarm system went off. I grabbed my cell phone and barricaded myself in DC's room until the police came, about 3 minutes later. I was scared out of my mind. It turned out that I had not dead-bolted the patio door and the wind blew it open. The police were very nice about it, but also let me know in no uncertain terms that it is carelessness like this that gets people in trouble. DH was livid -- as well he should have been -- that I had been negligent about checking this. |
I subscribe to the 'bad seed' theory. I truly believe some are born this way and there is zero hope for any form of rehabilitation. |
In theory, this sounds like good advice, however, being the victim of a violent crime and speaking from the fear I experienced, when in that situation, staying alive is your goal. Since you don't know what the person is capable of, if they tell you *I won't cut your throat if you don't fight me*, you BELIEVE you have a chance at seeing daylight. The second location thing? I was taken away, forced to, blindfolded. In therapy, as I expressed my regret that I didn't fight back, the therapist listed many cases where the woman did fight back and had every bone broken in her face, where she was stabbed repeatedly, etc. Random crimes happen, and the best way to prevent one is to hyper vigilant, such as locking doors, setting alarms, looking under cars before getting in, being aware of who is around you, don't open doors before seeing who is on the other side - sounds easy enough, right? It's been 31 years since my violent crime, and I'm not as hyper vigilant as I should be. After what happened to this family, I'm upping the ante, because it brings back a flood of feelings I haven't experienced in a long time. In my situation, by not fighting back saved my life. You can never predict how these situations will culminate. My heart aches for the family, the panic and terror they experienced is unlike any other emotion most people have ever experienced - it's indescribable. They didn't fight back because they were probably told they would live. |
| I fear this will actually get worse before it gets better. Now we have 1-3 desperate individuals one of whom has his face and name on national media on the run and with nothing to lose. I am confident it will all end in a week or two with either their arrests or deaths but fear more violence as they attempt to flee |
No, actually he could just be a psychopath. Feeling hopeless doesn't allow you to torture a little boy. |
| Has an APB been issued on this perp nationwide? An APB helped catch Jessie Matthews. |
| While the family lived in the Caribbean, wasn't the house under extensive renovation? Could suspect have worked on the house at that time? |