Husband Criticizing Me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m one of the rat pack haters Bc I think OP deserves it.

It’s all right everyone, after the c section she’ll drive home, do a quick clean up, breastfeed the baby, let them nap, recycle some boxes, make some hello fresh meals, then go for a hike with the baby where there’s no people and then come back for dinner and a quick nursing session then bed time for everyone. It’ll be just like getting a nice plant and everyone can go on with their daily planned activities because we’re all idiots and don’t REALLY know how it is to raise kids and we should just shut up.

Congrats! You’re officially the Chrissy Teigen of this thread. Sheds a terrible human being. You seem on par with her. I will pray for your kids to turn out half decent.

She’s

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I am still so confused by WHAT DID HOPE TO ACHIEVE FROM STARTING THIS THREAD?!?

this has been asked more than once, and you haven't answered. Did you just hope that people would sympathize with you and agree your husband should just "shut up"?? were you just venting? then why do you keep coming back with really rude a defensive responses? it sounds like there is an aspect of this 1950s housewife set up that you aren't happy with, but can't verbalize.

and I am still caught up on how strict you are about covid exposure (no trips to the store, pediatrician home visits) - but you HAVE A CLEANING CREW COME INTO YOUR HOUSE TWICE A WEEK! does.not.compute.

you sound like you are super submissive and anxious, and are lashing out at strangers on the internet to try and feel better.

It’s doesn’t matter. Stay off the damn thread if you don’t like it. My god, grow up, lady. Stop acting like a mean high school kid.

is this OP with one of her "kind responses"

[Anonymous]

Who else would love to see OP's DH's reaction to her description of this patriarchal paradise he lives in?
If someone was to read him, how it works that he has the last word and makes decisions in their marriage?
I've been chuckling just thinking about it in my head!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP I am still so confused by WHAT DID HOPE TO ACHIEVE FROM STARTING THIS THREAD?!?

this has been asked more than once, and you haven't answered. Did you just hope that people would sympathize with you and agree your husband should just "shut up"?? were you just venting? then why do you keep coming back with really rude a defensive responses? it sounds like there is an aspect of this 1950s housewife set up that you aren't happy with, but can't verbalize.

and I am still caught up on how strict you are about covid exposure (no trips to the store, pediatrician home visits) - but you HAVE A CLEANING CREW COME INTO YOUR HOUSE TWICE A WEEK! does.not.compute.

you sound like you are super submissive and anxious, and are lashing out at strangers on the internet to try and feel better.

It’s doesn’t matter. Stay off the damn thread if you don’t like it. My god, grow up, lady. Stop acting like a mean high school kid.

Aw, OP, you're so sweet!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Who else would love to see OP's DH's reaction to her description of this patriarchal paradise he lives in?
If someone was to read him, how it works that he has the last word and makes decisions in their marriage?
I've been chuckling just thinking about it in my head!

There are many marriages like this. I don’t see why it’s so shocking. Look at Candace Cameron Bure for instance. She has been on record saying her husband makes the last decision because he’s the man in the house. I don’t agree, but there are many marriages like this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who else would love to see OP's DH's reaction to her description of this patriarchal paradise he lives in?
If someone was to read him, how it works that he has the last word and makes decisions in their marriage?
I've been chuckling just thinking about it in my head!

There are many marriages like this. I don’t see why it’s so shocking. Look at Candace Cameron Bure for instance. She has been on record saying her husband makes the last decision because he’s the man in the house. I don’t agree, but there are many marriages like this.

But, you miss my point. OP has been browbeating us for pages here, bought what she wanted regardless of his wishes, and has even asked us how to get him to shut up about it. I meant that he would certainly disagree with OP that he is the lord of the manor!

[Anonymous]

OP: Here is the problem. You are using your baby as an excuse to buy things. You don't NEED to stock up for six months. You know this company called Amazon? Target? Walmart? They all deliver to your house!

You don't need to spend $5,000 to "stock up" on anything. You can easily buy what you need one month at a time. Plus, you did all this knowing your husband would get frustrated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP: Here is the problem. You are using your baby as an excuse to buy things. You don't NEED to stock up for six months. You know this company called Amazon? Target? Walmart? They all deliver to your house!

You don't need to spend $5,000 to "stock up" on anything. You can easily buy what you need one month at a time. Plus, you did all this knowing your husband would get frustrated.

Another one? You didn’t even read any of OPs replies or you would know all of what you said is a lie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP: Here is the problem. You are using your baby as an excuse to buy things. You don't NEED to stock up for six months. You know this company called Amazon? Target? Walmart? They all deliver to your house!

You don't need to spend $5,000 to "stock up" on anything. You can easily buy what you need one month at a time. Plus, you did all this knowing your husband would get frustrated.

Another one? You didn’t even read any of OPs replies or you would know all of what you said is a lie.

And I don’t trust Amazon like OP. Many of the sellers are selling fake products and expired food and formula.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:God, I am exhausted just reading OP's replies. I feel bad for her husband.

Same. I think OP is a troll. Has an answer/excuse for everything. Story keeps changing. You have a group of moms here trying to give her sound advice but OP knows better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:God, I am exhausted just reading OP's replies. I feel bad for her husband.

Same. I think OP is a troll. Has an answer/excuse for everything. Story keeps changing. You have a group of moms here trying to give her sound advice but OP knows better.

Nah, I think she is just that kind of a person. Sees any disagreement as a personal attack. I can't stop laughing thinking about her poor husband finding out his wife thinks she is a perfect submissive wifey!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m one of the rat pack haters Bc I think OP deserves it.

It’s all right everyone, after the c section she’ll drive home, do a quick clean up, breastfeed the baby, let them nap, recycle some boxes, make some hello fresh meals, then go for a hike with the baby where there’s no people and then come back for dinner and a quick nursing session then bed time for everyone. It’ll be just like getting a nice plant and everyone can go on with their daily planned activities because we’re all idiots and don’t REALLY know how it is to raise kids and we should just shut up.

Congrats! You’re officially the Chrissy Teigen of this thread. Sheds a terrible human being. You seem on par with her. I will pray for your kids to turn out half decent.

And you're the MTG of this thread. You may be sock puppeting. The lone looney tune that's been spewing trash. Thank you for your prayers. Mine just turned 18, and the kindest, most decent young man. OP, you should request this thread to be deleted. No need for you to be bothered with this nonsense.