Which is why we need flexible groups in which ALL kids can get the instruction they need in the subjects they need it in - whether they’re advanced in some subjects but not in others. Many GE kids should be in advanced language arts and/or math, but are stuck in some “level 3” purgatory in which the school pretends to give them advanced instruction by way of pull-outs. This is nonsense. There need to be groups for all levels that kids can move in and out of as needed. Period. |
OMG. Kids talk about this ALL the time at center schools. The parents don’t have to say a word. The children are WELL aware of who is in AAP or not and the ones who aren’t are told they’re not smart - in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. You have no clue whatsoever. DP |
this. The kids know it and, if they manage to be oblivious, the center kids make sure they correct that situation |
Of course not. You can frame it any way you like. But once those kids are at school - especially center schools, where there are as many AAP as GE classes - and the kids will take care of the rest. You’re kidding yourself to think otherwise. DP |
+1 And one day, my kid came home crying because most of the kids in her second grade class got in and were all talking about it, asking her why she didn’t. “Are you dumb? You should try harder.” We left for a different school not long after that - NON-FCPS. |
+100 |
DP. But that’s pretty much the process now. You can appeal every year. If you’re not getting in it’s because your kid really doesn’t belong in the program. Which is fine. Relax, you can push them to succeed in their gen Ed class. If they are far ahead in gen ed they’ll make it into level 4. If not, what is your problem exactly? |
We do if we make some significant life changes and sacrifices, and move to a lower cost neighborhood. Will do it in a heartbeat to make sure our child gets the education he deserves. But you’re right, it’s a pisser for families that can’t afford private but have really bright and hardworking kids that are ahead of their peers in school. |
I’m not “kidding myself” as my kids are at a particularly cut-throat center elementary as our base school. My child still doesn’t think he’s more special or better than anyone in GE and he has plenty of friends who aren’t in AAP. I’m sure there probably are kids who talk this way but i can guarantee it comes directly from their parents — so stop blaming centers for killing self-esteem, start looking in the mirror, and spend a little extra time on the message you’re sending as parents (I’m saying this in general terms, I make no assumptions in regards to the messaging you use w your kids). Perhaps FCPS should offer a parent primer during the AAP informational sessions on not being an a-hole. |
You really think that???? I guess AAP parents have to convince themselves the only reason their kids got in vs kids with same or better stats is bc their kid belonged in AAP. Child please. I have a kid in AAP and even I know the system is rigged. |
Rigged how? Are there marginal cases where a kid didn’t get in that probably could keep up, sure. And vice versa. Appeal. Everyone I know who has appealed gets in! The only people I know who complain about AAP are parents whose kids are not ahead, and would not do well in an accelerated class—they’re not doing well in a regularly paced class! The reason the pace is faster is because the kids can keep up. Now, if you’re saying that’s not the case, that the kids aren’t actually more capable of a faster pace, then they wouldn’t actually be moving as fast as they do. It’s the peer group that makes the program work. If everyone was in, it’s be exactly the same pace as general Ed and exactly as inadequate for the 20% or so of kids who need a faster pace to stay engaged in learning. Ans yeah, my kid is one of those. You’re kid might have been fine in gen Ed, but maybe that’s because they are one of the marginal cases. |
What are you blabbering about PP? Your post makes no sense. |
This post makes sense to me. I’ll add for us that it’s the pace and the people — when your kid is in the percentage that truly needs it, trust me, it’s not a brag. There are usually some deficits that come along with a super high IQ and oftentimes it’s in the social realm. AAP has been a game-changer academically and socially for my child and quite a few others I know. My child’s needs are finally being met in the classroom in an environment where he’s accepted and appreciated by teacher and peers. That wasn’t the case in GE. |
Yes no is arguing that AAP isn’t needed but rather that who gets in is quite arbitrary at times. There are nerdy type kids in gen ed who suffer as a result. |
Actually, there are a few ppl arguing on this thread that AAP should either be eliminated or opened up to all. |