Men seem eager to be remarried!

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Anonymous wrote:He’s clueless - military pensions are a joke in most cases and not worth of investing 20 years of professional career in it. Only a complete and total financial ret..rdation would force anyone with a decent degree put on boots to earn early pension. Nobody steeply wealthy (1%) will flex their pensions, unless it’s someone who retires from an international organization with an old pension plan matching last salary.

That’s why they all turn 100% disabled about military retirement too.

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I’m for equal opportunity so I am delighted to have our first real man-hating woman troll. I’ve grown tired of all the characters who post here to piss off the 40-50 something women.

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Anonymous wrote:He’s clueless - military pensions are a joke in most cases and not worth of investing 20 years of professional career in it. Only a complete and total financial ret..rdation would force anyone with a decent degree put on boots to earn early pension. Nobody steeply wealthy (1%) will flex their pensions, unless it’s someone who retires from an international organization with an old pension plan matching last salary.

That’s why they all turn 100% disabled about military retirement too.

Yea, all mentally or physically affected after many years of military career

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Anonymous wrote:He’s clueless - military pensions are a joke in most cases and not worth of investing 20 years of professional career in it. Only a complete and total financial ret..rdation would force anyone with a decent degree put on boots to earn early pension. Nobody steeply wealthy (1%) will flex their pensions, unless it’s someone who retires from an international organization with an old pension plan matching last salary.

That’s why they all turn 100% disabled about military retirement too.

Yes, he indeed mentioned he was getting a disabled veteran pension…. Poor guy I can’t imagine wasting so many years and having your only dream in your 50s to leave the country for southern Europe.
Wealthy couples travel to Europe no prob while working office jobs or even work remotely while still relatively young. They can travel and maintain a home base in the US in retirement

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I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

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Anonymous wrote:Late thirties woman looking for a husband. I’m dating a lot of divorced days; mid thirties; make good money; have a kid or two. They all want to settle down and be married and are even open for another kid.

It’s definitely raining men! ☺️

Because men are extremely stupid. I am 48 and haven't been divorced for 3 years. I would rather have my d**k chopped off than marry any woman ever again. No thanks I am good. I am sure there extraordinary women out there. But there are plenty of other suitors who will try the marriage thing again.

OP do you really want to marry a divorced man? Think hard for real lol. I am just imagining the drama any woman will walk into by marrying a guy like me with twin daughters. Money isn't an issue. I have my own money and old family money as well. I just don't want anyone to be anywhere near anything resembling remarriage.

Lol. As you already know, men aren't stupid. They're lazy, exploitative, and sociopathic. They remarry to find a maid to raise their children because they don't want to do their job as fathers. I bet your ex-wife is doing most of the work of raising the kids and when if kids spend any significant time with you, you have babysitters, nannies, and/or female relatives doing the work. That's why you don't want to get married. You already have women to shift your responsibilities to and don't need another. Don't bother denying it.

You made my point. Why would I remarry if there are plenty of women who will do as you suggested. Y'all don't have to do it. You can go on a strike and "buy" sperm so you can have your own child and not deal with "man-child". It's a choice and you don't have to sign up for it. Instead you sign up for it and endlessly complain. We are not going to change okay. If you go on a strike then we may change. But so far it seems to me women are still signing up. When you stop signing up we can have a conversation.

Now you're talking sense. I said openly, even while I was married, that a vial of sperm for $50 was a better deal than letting the idiot who produced the sperm latch onto you. My ex-husband used to get so angry, but I'm under no obligation to tell lies. Most men simply have no value beyond those microscopic swimmers and, like you, are determined to spend their lives as parasites.

Sorry it took you a long time to realize you could have bought sperm instead. That sucks.

It sucks more for him. I make sure of it. Can I let him come get some expensive items he forgot when I got a court order booting him out? Can I switch weekends so he can see the kids on his birthday? Can I agree to extend his deadline so it doesn't fall the day after Christmas? Can I agree to installments instead of a lump sum? Nope, nope, nope, and nope! No favors ever. I listed his stuff on eBay and kept the cash. His Dad had to pay me the amounts due to save him from selling separate assets at a massive loss.

Believe me, he wishes he had gotten a surrogate. More and more, we women aren't playing nice with you parasites anymore and it feels good.

You sound crazy. I’m not surprised that you can’t find an emotionally secure and functional man.

And what would a newly-minted baby daddy of twin girls like you know about emotionally secure and functional men? But I was wondering when you'd start the name calling. Men like you always get mad at the idea of getting what they deserve and not enjoying unearned favors. That sucks!

I’m not a man. I’m a mother of four teenagers, and I mean this in the kindest way. You need to stop devoting time to making sure that your ex wishes he never met you, and you need to stop talking about men this way. It makes you sound crazy. If you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your children.

I hope none of them are daughters. Women like you raising your girls to think standing up for themselves is crazy are the biggest part of the problem. Yuck.

DP. No, we’re teaching to get out any relationship before they turn nuts and lose their soul.

I'm not surprised you're teaching them that if a man lies them into a marriage, then it's their fault for not getting out sooner. Plus, if they decide to develop a backbone and start saying no, then they've turned nuts and are crazy. To quote you, "I mean this in "the kindest way" --> You have a wicked case of internalized misogyny and your children have my sympathy.

I’m the poster who means this in the kindest way. You don’t sound crazy because you have a backbone. You sound crazy because you are obsessed with your ex.

Posting repeatedly to convince someone else they're crazy is...you guessed it: crazy.

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Anonymous wrote:That's weird. I was a single Mom in my 20s. I didn't meet a single divorced Dad under 40. That seems very unusual.

Most men in their 20s and 30s don't want to date single mothers. I stayed far far away from single mothers at that age because I didn't have kids, didn't want to continue someone else's abandoned project, had options (line single women with no kids) and was too busy with work and activities that I was t about to be a father to a kid that isn't mine.

I'm in my forties and still won't date single mothers in their 20s. My kids are either in college or about to be so my life is easy. My kids take care of themselves and drive themselves around or they're away nine months out if the year starting their own life journey. I will and have dated women in their late 20s to mid 30s who don't have kids so I will do that, just not long term as they have no concept of what it's like to be a parent and often can't stand when they're not the primary focus of your attention. I usually tend to stick with women in their late 30s and very early 40s who have older kids.

I'm at a place where I'm financially stable, can retire early and travel a lot and have no debt and a good pot of money we're I can move overseas to Europe or central America and life life in a tropical paradise. Brutal reality for most men in my position is there is very few viable partners who are not full of drama, issues with kids and their ex, not insane and most aren't super attractive. I'm lucky in some respect as I have a steady partner but she lives a considerable distance away who I met through business trips to the area. Hopefully it works out because most of the women in this area are not really people is consider quality partners. As soon as my last kid is out if the house I'm out of here and I'll sell my place, collect a nice profit and can almost outright pay for another place with cash.

So you don’t want to live closer to your kids ? Weird you feel so little connection with them

Interesting passive aggressive takeaway. It seems he loves his kids, but is jaded byunreasonable and unaccountable shrill single moms he’s met that doesn’t want to bankroll anymore or have control his life. Does that makes sense? He’s seen what’s out there locally and it would not be an improvement over his current situation. Understand?

His whole story is fishy. Few men have grown kids in their late 40s, is he in the Midwest ? Even fewer HS or young adult kids are totally independent just driving around. Anyone who has a child in college knows that they still need a home base as an important emotional foundation . He’s eager just to sell his kids family home and take off abroad. All combined sounds like he had little involvement in raising them and little emotional connection with kids.
We live at times with toughest job market for college grads. I’m a late 40s mother of a very advanced college student at a prestigious school who is getting in-demand tech degree, drives, has summer internships etc. I know zero parents who are so rushed to liquidate their family homes ones kids are off to college.

Almost everyone now has a tech degree, they're not really in demand because they're all over the place. I am a male in my forties and I have older kids, I'm also retired military and had them when I was younger.

I also have a great job and lots of retirement to look forward to, and have tons of freedom so there is no way that I would ever get married again. I live in the DC area and have to say that most of the women here are not marriage material. I will date them but I won't settle down with anyone because I have too much at stake to risk. Plus I do plan on moving out of this area when I retire from my regular job, probably overseas somewhere where the weather is nice or maybe somewhere in the Pacific. The bottom line is that as a 40 something year old male who works out 5 days a week already and we'll have two retirements and a nice nest egg. I don't want to put that at risk of being lost by marrying the wrong woman. And in this area most of the women are the wrong woman

lol not almost everyone has a tech degree most people have liberal arts degrees. Most college grads with those degrees struggle.
You are clueless and clearly think your military pension is some sort of achievement. Only those who couldn’t get straight into a good college chose military careers. You are cheap and likely low 7 figures NW.
Men who are truly wealthy have their assets well protected in trusts and are not afraid to marry over a military pension

lol. Are you trolling? You need to calm down. This guy sounds like he’s good with money, not “cheap”. You sound like a professional gold digger, however.

His military pension paranoia is laughable. I’m a high NW professional late 40s woman. $3k daily return is not unusual for my brokerage portfolio so yea he’s a joke.

Oh wow. I had no idea! Well, I guess what you say goes!

The previous poster here is clueless. It's not like the pension is the only thing that comes in retirement, especially if you've done your tsp, which is essentially a 401k. That military retirement on top of the other investments that have a good rate of return. It's just more icing on the cake. Especially when you take the military retirement or your federal pension and just apply it towards a high-yield account or take that money and dump it into stocks. That's what I was doing and I got a good rate of return. And my other theories still stand, women in DC are not marriage material

Is someone trying to force you to marry women in DC? I mean there are entire categories of men whom I find unfit for human consumption, but why bother telling them that? What are you hoping to achieve here?

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Anonymous wrote:Late thirties woman looking for a husband. I’m dating a lot of divorced days; mid thirties; make good money; have a kid or two. They all want to settle down and be married and are even open for another kid.

It’s definitely raining men! ☺️

Because men are extremely stupid. I am 48 and haven't been divorced for 3 years. I would rather have my d**k chopped off than marry any woman ever again. No thanks I am good. I am sure there extraordinary women out there. But there are plenty of other suitors who will try the marriage thing again.

OP do you really want to marry a divorced man? Think hard for real lol. I am just imagining the drama any woman will walk into by marrying a guy like me with twin daughters. Money isn't an issue. I have my own money and old family money as well. I just don't want anyone to be anywhere near anything resembling remarriage.

Lol. As you already know, men aren't stupid. They're lazy, exploitative, and sociopathic. They remarry to find a maid to raise their children because they don't want to do their job as fathers. I bet your ex-wife is doing most of the work of raising the kids and when if kids spend any significant time with you, you have babysitters, nannies, and/or female relatives doing the work. That's why you don't want to get married. You already have women to shift your responsibilities to and don't need another. Don't bother denying it.

You made my point. Why would I remarry if there are plenty of women who will do as you suggested. Y'all don't have to do it. You can go on a strike and "buy" sperm so you can have your own child and not deal with "man-child". It's a choice and you don't have to sign up for it. Instead you sign up for it and endlessly complain. We are not going to change okay. If you go on a strike then we may change. But so far it seems to me women are still signing up. When you stop signing up we can have a conversation.

Now you're talking sense. I said openly, even while I was married, that a vial of sperm for $50 was a better deal than letting the idiot who produced the sperm latch onto you. My ex-husband used to get so angry, but I'm under no obligation to tell lies. Most men simply have no value beyond those microscopic swimmers and, like you, are determined to spend their lives as parasites.

Sorry it took you a long time to realize you could have bought sperm instead. That sucks.

It sucks more for him. I make sure of it. Can I let him come get some expensive items he forgot when I got a court order booting him out? Can I switch weekends so he can see the kids on his birthday? Can I agree to extend his deadline so it doesn't fall the day after Christmas? Can I agree to installments instead of a lump sum? Nope, nope, nope, and nope! No favors ever. I listed his stuff on eBay and kept the cash. His Dad had to pay me the amounts due to save him from selling separate assets at a massive loss.

Believe me, he wishes he had gotten a surrogate. More and more, we women aren't playing nice with you parasites anymore and it feels good.

You sound crazy. I’m not surprised that you can’t find an emotionally secure and functional man.

And what would a newly-minted baby daddy of twin girls like you know about emotionally secure and functional men? But I was wondering when you'd start the name calling. Men like you always get mad at the idea of getting what they deserve and not enjoying unearned favors. That sucks!

I’m not a man. I’m a mother of four teenagers, and I mean this in the kindest way. You need to stop devoting time to making sure that your ex wishes he never met you, and you need to stop talking about men this way. It makes you sound crazy. If you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your children.

I hope none of them are daughters. Women like you raising your girls to think standing up for themselves is crazy are the biggest part of the problem. Yuck.

DP. No, we’re teaching to get out any relationship before they turn nuts and lose their soul.

I'm not surprised you're teaching them that if a man lies them into a marriage, then it's their fault for not getting out sooner. Plus, if they decide to develop a backbone and start saying no, then they've turned nuts and are crazy. To quote you, "I mean this in "the kindest way" --> You have a wicked case of internalized misogyny and your children have my sympathy.

Wow, this is one bitter old bitty.
And I say this as an ex-wife.

Posts like these are why you're an ex-wife.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

What does she get out of this deal?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

NP. You thought divorcing when you had a 1 and 3 year old was something to boast about. You're also deriding a woman who had 4 children in 5 years for your nasty behind. You were the nutjob in that relationship and your current girlfriend will soon realize it.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

+1 million

4 little kids? She is not a gem if you were her best option. What a mess.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

This is the same clown who's been writing awful works of fiction every few pages in this thread.

I'm in my 40s with ED and a bright red face set in an overgrown bald head about to explode like an overripe tomato from abusing steroids and growth hormone to develop an underwhelming four pack, but a long line of supermodel billionaire 25 year olds want to mother my 9 rotten kids under age 6 and marry me!!! Herp derp duh."