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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Late thirties woman looking for a husband. I’m dating a lot of divorced days; mid thirties; make good money; have a kid or two. They all want to settle down and be married and are even open for another kid. It’s definitely raining men! ☺️[/quote] Because men are extremely stupid. I am 48 and haven't been divorced for 3 years. I would rather have my d**k chopped off than marry any woman ever again. No thanks I am good. I am sure there extraordinary women out there. But there are plenty of other suitors who will try the marriage thing again. OP do you really want to marry a divorced man? Think hard for real lol. I am just imagining the drama any woman will walk into by marrying a guy like me with twin daughters. Money isn't an issue. I have my own money and old family money as well. I just don't want anyone to be anywhere near anything resembling remarriage.[/quote] Lol. As you already know, men aren't stupid. They're lazy, exploitative, and sociopathic. They remarry to find a maid to raise their children because they don't want to do their job as fathers. I bet your ex-wife is doing most of the work of raising the kids and when if kids spend any significant time with you, you have babysitters, nannies, and/or female relatives doing the work. That's why you don't want to get married. You already have women to shift your responsibilities to and don't need another. Don't bother denying it. [/quote] You made my point. Why would I remarry if there are plenty of women who will do as you suggested. Y'all don't have to do it. You can go on a strike and "buy" sperm so you can have your own child and not deal with "man-child". It's a choice and you don't have to sign up for it. Instead you sign up for it and endlessly complain. We are not going to change okay. If you go on a strike then we may change. But so far it seems to me women are still signing up. When you stop signing up we can have a conversation. [/quote] Now you're talking sense. I said openly, even while I was married, that a vial of sperm for $50 was a better deal than letting the idiot who produced the sperm latch onto you. My ex-husband used to get so angry, but I'm under no obligation to tell lies. Most men simply have no value beyond those microscopic swimmers and, like you, are determined to spend their lives as parasites.[/quote] Sorry it took you a long time to realize you could have bought sperm instead. That sucks.[/quote] It sucks more for him. I make sure of it. Can I let him come get some expensive items he forgot when I got a court order booting him out? Can I switch weekends so he can see the kids on his birthday? Can I agree to extend his deadline so it doesn't fall the day after Christmas? Can I agree to installments instead of a lump sum? Nope, nope, nope, and nope! No favors ever. I listed his stuff on eBay and kept the cash. His Dad had to pay me the amounts due to save him from selling separate assets at a massive loss. Believe me, he wishes he had gotten a surrogate. More and more, we women aren't playing nice with you parasites anymore and it feels good.[/quote] You sound crazy. I’m not surprised that you can’t find an emotionally secure and functional man. [/quote] And what would a newly-minted baby daddy of twin girls like you know about emotionally secure and functional men? But I was wondering when you'd start the name calling. Men like you always get mad at the idea of getting what they deserve and not enjoying unearned favors. That sucks![/quote] I’m not a man. I’m a mother of four teenagers, and I mean this in the kindest way. You need to stop devoting time to making sure that your ex wishes he never met you, and you need to stop talking about men this way. It makes you sound crazy. If you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your children. [/quote] I hope none of them are daughters. Women like you raising your girls to think standing up for themselves is crazy are the biggest part of the problem. Yuck.[/quote] DP. No, we’re teaching to get out any relationship before they turn nuts and lose their soul.[/quote] I'm not surprised you're teaching them that if a man lies them into a marriage, then it's their fault for not getting out sooner. Plus, if they decide to develop a backbone and start saying no, then they've turned nuts and are crazy. To quote you, "I mean this in "the kindest way" --> You have a wicked case of internalized misogyny and your children have my sympathy. [/quote] Wow, this is one bitter old bitty. And I say this as an ex-wife.[/quote] Posts like these are why you're an ex-wife. [/quote]
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