Men seem eager to be remarried!

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We all know that any man who claims his ex was crazy was just a subpar partner and parent. It's easier to blame it on the woman than take accountability.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

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This is some deep thinking. Truly. I don't think your posts are deliberately funny though. You're frothing mad.

The sad thing is that you are easy to make fun of and sad to behold.

And it is not deep thinking. Everyone (including all of your mystery "sockpuppetters") can see what a mess you are.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants.

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This is some deep thinking. Truly. I don't think your posts are deliberately funny though. You're frothing mad.

The sad thing is that you are easy to make fun of and sad to behold.

And it is not deep thinking. Everyone (including all of your mystery "sockpuppetters") can see what a mess you are.

There are at least two people you're typing to right now. Just because multiple people disagree with you doesn't make us sock puppets Is it your first day on the internet?

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This is some deep thinking. Truly. I don't think your posts are deliberately funny though. You're frothing mad.

The sad thing is that you are easy to make fun of and sad to behold.

And it is not deep thinking. Everyone (including all of your mystery "sockpuppetters") can see what a mess you are.

There are at least two people you're typing to right now. Just because multiple people disagree with you doesn't make us sock puppets Is it your first day on the internet?

Shhh! Don't tell her how the internet works. That'll make you "sad to behold."

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This is some deep thinking. Truly. I don't think your posts are deliberately funny though. You're frothing mad.

The sad thing is that you are easy to make fun of and sad to behold.

And it is not deep thinking. Everyone (including all of your mystery "sockpuppetters") can see what a mess you are.

There are at least two people you're typing to right now. Just because multiple people disagree with you doesn't make us sock puppets Is it your first day on the internet?

Shhh! Don't tell her how the internet works. That'll make you "sad to behold."

Pretty sure it's a man

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Shhh! Don't tell her how the internet works. That'll make you "sad to behold."

You are still sad to behold. Pretending that other people are making your posts does not make it so.

You need to focus on healing. It scares that you are not.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants.

I loved her, thought she’d get better.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants.

I loved her, thought she’d get better.

Right, loved her so much you cheated on her and left when she had a newborn? Right right.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So, she was like that from the beginning, but it only bothered you after they were four kids to take care of. Almost as if it's the responsibility you were running from, not her.

It's crazy that you set out to write your story as favorably to yourself as possible and you still come off as an evil deadbeat loser who abandoned your wife and kids. Now you're working on your next victims.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants.

I loved her, thought she’d get better.

Right, loved her so much you cheated on her and left when she had a newborn? Right right.

I wasn’t the one who left, and never did any cheating. We were a sex everyday couple even with toddlers.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants.

I loved her, thought she’d get better.

I'm sure she did once you were out of her life. You'll never get better though.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a dad in my early 40s, divorced for five years, with four kids aged 11, 10, 8, and 6. Since my divorce, I’ve dated three women, and my current girlfriend is a gem. She connects really well with my kids, helps out when needed, and is the best partner I’ve ever had—she’s smoking hot, smart, good in bed. I’d like to get remarried someday, but I’m not in a hurry and am just enjoying life and dating, & will see where things eventually take me.

You divorced when you had a 1 and 3 year old? Why would a gem end up with someone like that?

ExW is crazy.

She was so crazy that you impregnated her four times in five years. Are the kids you inflicted on her also as stupid as you?

Troll math ain’t math’in

It's the biggest red flag when a dude with little kids badmouthed his exW calling her "crazy". Usually it's a code word for someone who couldn't pull off his parenting duties at home, and the exW indeed went crazy and depressed. And yet he kept making babies with her, and already plans for baby #5 with his current partner. Who would you consider crazy in this whole setup?

Judges don't buy this s..t about crazy wives. My attorney told me literally 90% of divorcing dads were trying to pull this crap at no avail.

The GF is ether inexperienced or she's stupid and/or unattractive if she's ok to be anywhere near this mess.

So everything is the divorced dad’s fault. For me, parenting duties were never a problem. My exwife and I both decided to have kids, and if I get married again in the future and my spouse wants kids, I’m open to having one or two. And my current girlfriend is none of that—you ladies might find it believe, but yes she truly is a gem.

At what point did your exW become crazy ? If it was between babies 1-3 then why did you agree to impregnate a crazy woman ? If she went nuts after #3, why did you impregnated her again, and then divorced a year after having the baby #4, without first trying to get mental health for the mother of your kids? Don’t you see how crazy it looks ?

She wasn’t ‘crazy’ in the sense some might think, but I do believe there were traits, like some narcissistic and borderline tendencies, that made things worse. I wanted to save our marriage and did put in a lot of effort to save it, but we ultimately just weren’t compatible, and it didn’t work out. Absolutely, wish it did though.

I see what you’re saying about narcissism. Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. Either overt or covert, or however on the NPD spectrum, it’s a hard thing to handle. Then you read about associated behaviors. I think modern society is also breeding narcissism with social media culture, etc. Either way, it’s toxic in marriage.

Yeh, it was overt. Included a lot of manipulation, threats, sometimes violence. Not something that we needed to deal with together.

So, your ex-wife had postpartum from carrying your kids back to back and you ran out on her. Such a long suffering hero. When does your memoir come out?

I didn’t leave. She was like that from the beginning.

So you had four children with a manipulative, threatening and violent person? Wow. Maybe you should have picked better and kept your dick in your pants.

I loved her, thought she’d get better.

Right, loved her so much you cheated on her and left when she had a newborn? Right right.

I wasn’t the one who left, and never did any cheating. We were a sex everyday couple even with toddlers.

She was violent and manipulative, but you knocked her up 4 times and were having sex daily and she's the one who left you. It's chilling that you're so crazy that you can't see how crazy you are.

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This is some deep thinking. Truly. I don't think your posts are deliberately funny though. You're frothing mad.

The sad thing is that you are easy to make fun of and sad to behold.

And it is not deep thinking. Everyone (including all of your mystery "sockpuppetters") can see what a mess you are.

There are at least two people you're typing to right now. Just because multiple people disagree with you doesn't make us sock puppets Is it your first day on the internet?

Shhh! Don't tell her how the internet works. That'll make you "sad to behold."

Pretty sure it's a man

I dunno. She sounds like a lot of woman-hating female boomers I know. They hate to see a woman anywhere but suffering under a man.