Actually, this is not an issue of a teacher's particular behavior. Of course there are many non-Catholic teachers that do not attend weekly mass. There are also teachers that engage in other sinful acts on a daily basis. As long as they don't bring those concepts into the classroom and imply that it is fine to engage in those behaviors, there would not be an issue. That dean was gay. Assuming he acted on his sexual preferences, he would be sinning. That wasn't the issue here. It was him admitting that he enjoyed subverting Catholic doctrine in the classroom by helping to affirm students' gender or sexual identities. |
You are very selective in your enforcement of Catholic teachings. All Catholics are imperfect Catholics who are called to love their neighbors. Let’s put that teaching first. |
He was "affirming" their identities, while initially keeping parents out of the loop. He said it on the tape. |
OK - that's not trying to change the girls, just support them. |
No, just to subvert the agenda of certain Catholics who are anti-LBTBQ. |
Agenda, teachings, doctrine -- these are all synonyms. And he specifically said "Catholic Church," not Catholics in general. Nice try though. |
Also the same with SR’s middle school. SR is probably more progressive than most other Catholic schools, and it does not teach about birth control. If parents want to teach those things to their daughters, they do it at home. Which is how it should be. |
No. They may teach the doctrine, but an agenda is a set of objectives created by modern men. |
SR strongly states in their contract with parents that the school and parents are PARTNERS in the education of our daughters. The school will not overstep familial boundaries in each family’s personal values. Teachers who hide information about children from their parents are not being partners in the education of their children. This goes against the school’s contract with parents. |
Except, this wasn't about the girls' education. It was emotional support for girls who couldn't find support at home. Teachers should support girls, every time. |
But this teacher stated that part of his subversion of the Catholic teaching was in keeping identity information about the students from their parents. His only purview as an educator is to teach school subjects, not taking on parents’ roles in personal areas or sexual identity. Furthermore, he went against the foundational teachings of the school, the basis for which most parents chose this school. His overstepped his boundary and does not belong at this school. |
Teacher overstepped his role. If anything, his interference likely confused the poor girls even more. Teachers and schools should stay out of these issues altogether unless parents are involved and want the school involved. |
How would he (or you) know that the girls wouldn’t be supported by their parents at home if he refused to let parents know what’s going on? Seems he he has a savior-mentality and thinks he knows better than the unbeknownst parents. |
He didn't say he refused to let parents know. We don't have the full conversation, but it sounds like he was talking about supporting girls who may not be getting support at home yet. "For some of these parents, we affirm their identity before they were able to, and them being on the journey with us and feeling support and getting to a place where they can affirm it, feels like I’m subverting the Catholic Church’s agenda on homosexuality, and that feels great." |
What interference? He's just supporting the girls until their parents "are able to". |