Get a WFH job. Your bad choices are not others’ concern. |
This doesn't make any sense at all for some professions. I have a doctorate with decades of experience, where I took all of my courses in person. I've held security clearances that the in-office personnel have never held. And I've always worked at the client site. It's only now that I'm in my early/mid 50s that I'm able to work remotely. Every time I asked to work remotely, just even one day a week, I was fired when I was in my 30s. We've always had the ability to work from home. |
I work in an elementary school. We we were teaching online (Sept. through March 2020-2021) I went into my building every day because I knew I had to get out of the house and see other people. I much prefer doing this job in person and have no jealousy or anger towards those who prefer to WFH. I am concerned for those with support jobs or those who work jobs that rely on the foot traffic from office workers. |
https://hbr.org/2022/05/why-many-women-of-color-dont-want-to-return-to-the-office https://hbr.org/2020/06/working-from-home-while-black https://www.shrm.org/resourcesandtools/hr-topics/organizational-and-employee-development/pages/report-students-of-color-women-want-remote-jobs.aspx#:~:text=Students%20of%20color%20were%20more,culture%20when%20they%20work%20remotely. https://www.latimes.com/opinion/story/2022-04-03/work-from-home-race-office https://www.axios.com/2022/02/22/unequal-return-office-hybrid-women-people-of-color https://www.cbsnews.com/news/black-workers-return-to-office-future-forum-workplace/ https://www.shrm.org/hr-today/news/hr-magazine/summer2022/pages/remote-work-may-undermine-diversity-efforts-.aspx |
I understand that many small businesses that support office workers closed but many small businesses in residential areas are thriving with WFH. I almost see if as neutral change given how many coffee shops and lunch places have opened and done well in my residential part of DC. |
Well I chose a telework-friendly government job (even pre-COVID I only went in 1 or 2 days per week) over pursuing a higher paying private sector career because as a mom of young kids I very much value flexibility/not having a commute. So I effectively already have chosen the “pay cut.” Do you now think I need to give up more pay because you made a different choice to have an in office job and you’re clearly jealous of my lunch time errands and the fact I don’t have to spend hours each week commuting in a car? |
Wfh is great if you are older and have a hi one office. If you are younger and just starting your career and live in a small apartment or sucks. |
I am hiring for a very flexible hybrid job. 2-3 days a week at home, casual dress, flex hours, meaning at work or at home pretty much start at 6am if you want, at 12 noon if you want. Work 4 hours one day and catch up later.
But do to scammers first 90 days are in office 5 days a week. Just had women drop out today of interview process as she lied and actually lives in North Carolina using Moms DC address. Remote and WFH attracts scammers |
"Do to" ![]() Go back to J1, J2, J3... |
You get paid for your value add relative to other available workers, not your poor life choices. |
DP. I see this argument all the time. It really isn’t true in an absolute sense unless you are a top expert or there is an extremely low supply of workers with your skill set. Otherwise, companies have always taken into account “costs” necessary for workers to provide their services. If you must live in a HCOL area to provide your services, a company will help defray those costs. Likewise, it makes no sense for a company to pay you HCOL wages after you move to a LCOL area. In fact, the company could argue that you have fewer employment opportunities for your skill set in your new location, so they’ll leverage that against you. |
If we do the same work - shouldn't we get the same pay? Not sure I understand this argument. |
Shouldn’t it be the opposite? If I give an employee a laptop and they require an office building to work, shouldn’t their salary reflect this? |
Seems to me the worker demanding an office building should receive a pay cut! More and more companies will be reducing office space as they figure out technology allows a company to no longer lease or own an office building. It’s a huge expense and a thing of the past. Change happens and technology evolves. Employees used to go to an office building to communicate in person since they didn’t have cell phones or video calls. They pushed papers around before email and electronic documents. It’s bizarre to now have laptops but require everyone to work from a building to send emails as conduct video calls. |
People who took their HCOL salaries from SF or NYC to LCOL places like Idaho and Mexico City have totally f’ed over the local population and created crazy real estate bubbles. I don’t care if you WFH but people should make the local salary, not their old salary. |