My 22 Year Old Stepdaughter Lives at Home and I’m Unsure How to Handle Her Behavior

[Anonymous]

Sorry, this sounds like a troll post.

[Anonymous]

Her father started banging a much younger woman then she started banging a much older guy.

Surprise, Surprise,

[Anonymous]

Troll overreach with the “oh I’m pregnant”

[Anonymous]

Who is paying for her lifestyle (car, insurance, and her social life?)

[Anonymous]

If not a troll, the step-daughter is one of the high-performing people who don't make a transition to real life easily and would rather be a lifelong student.
Give her two months to move out or keep her as a nanny.

[Anonymous]

How old were you when you became her stepmom? 20?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, the obvious question is, what is her father doing about it?

Overarching, this is for her parents to handle. For you, at a minimum stop doing her laundry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, the obvious question is, what is her father doing about it?

[phone]

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The laundry is the giveaway that this is a troll. That makes no sense. Why would OP be doing her laundry?

She’s very lazy, and didn’t do laundry even as a teen, so she’s gone back to that routine.

Why are you doing it, though? If she wants clean clothes she can wash them.

She’s asks me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old were you when you became her stepmom? 20?

I’m 35, so I was 20 at the time. My husband was 36 then and is now 51. We have a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year-old son, and we’re expecting another boy in June.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old were you when you became her stepmom? 20?

I’m 35, so I was 20 at the time. My husband was 36 then and is now 51. We have a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year-old son, and we’re expecting another boy in June.

Yikes!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old were you when you became her stepmom? 20?

I’m 35, so I was 20 at the time. My husband was 36 then and is now 51. We have a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year-old son, and we’re expecting another boy in June.

So your judgment is worse than hers, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old were you when you became her stepmom? 20?

I’m 35, so I was 20 at the time. My husband was 36 then and is now 51. We have a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year-old son, and we’re expecting another boy in June.

I feel so sorry for this 22 yo.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old were you when you became her stepmom? 20?

I’m 35, so I was 20 at the time. My husband was 36 then and is now 51. We have a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year-old son, and we’re expecting another boy in June.

And SD at age 20 was "talking" with a 35 year old man living across the country and went to live with him....

Yikes.

She tried to get that male daddy approval by excelling but kept getting new baby hslf sibs so then found and got preyed on by her very own 35 year old...who was a predator. Surprise!

Make family therapy a prerequisite for continuing with her in house. Tell DH that is that. Then the work on getting her some kind of college degree assp.

[Anonymous]

Is she your only step kid? Does she have any siblings?