Ok to celebrate coming out day ?

[Anonymous]

We democrats are never going to win again until we settle down on this. I don’t understand how we got from “being gay is normal and acceptable” to people seating if elementary schools celebrate/should celebrate coming out day, if OP confirms the school is actually doing. Obviously there’s no need to celebrate or even acknowledge something like that in elementary school. Same way we don’t celebrate straight marriage.
We need to protect everyone’s rights. I also would rather stop focusing on this topic and trans issues until the fascists have been stopped.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All the gay and lesbian people I know have all told me they knew they were that way, even if they didn't know the word for it, between ages 5-7. Which IS around 1st grade. Plus, kids have parents who are same-sex couples. So this lets the kids know it's okay to be open about that at school. AND, teaches kids from homophobic families that it's no big deal and in fact some of their little friends have parents who are same-sex couples.

How would kids know that at such an early age, way before puberty and any interest in romantic relationships? In my circle, I can think of a 6 year old wants to grow up to be a cat. Another wants to marry his best friend so they can play on the same soccer team.

6 year olds understand that their parents have once dated and are now married/were married and that their future will hold this as well by their own autonomy. So even if they are pre-sexual, they get that there are units that form by choice and maybe they don't picture that unit with someone from the opposite sex and while some one day will, others won't. Some of those people will look back and think, oh, so I was always this way!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is celebrated on October 11th. That’s fine. Not sure why needs to be celebrated in 1st grade. Even if my kid is homosexual, I don’t expect them to come out in elementary school. Am I missing something ?

I think this is more about exposure that there are different types of relationships. Maybe some of your son's classmates has two moms or dads? Even if they don't, they will in due time and by introducing it early, it helps normalize it and helps create a more inclusive and less homophobic society.

And that's exactly why Gen Z, the generation that has been most exposed to these types of initiatives, is one of the most right wing generations in a long time.

Generational Logic 101: whatever the adults push hard will be rejected in time because people want to set their own path.

[Anonymous]

My only question if this something that could be celebrated outside school, or NEEDS to be celebrated in school. I can think of hundreds of days that are as equal or more important than coming out day and are not celebrated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yikes! I’d keep my kids home that day.

Good other kids don’t need to be around your ignorant spawn

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yikes! I’d keep my kids home that day.

Good other kids don’t need to be around your ignorant spawn

Hate the parent, not the kid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is celebrated on October 11th. That’s fine. Not sure why needs to be celebrated in 1st grade. Even if my kid is homosexual, I don’t expect them to come out in elementary school. Am I missing something ?

So is it fine or not? Is it on your school calendar as a school celebration or is it a Google calendar note like Canadian independence day? Which school?

Lots that’s missing here, OP.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I have never heard of this and my daughter is a lesbian.
There are a lot of made up holidays on the calendar that aren’t celebrated. This seems like a weird one to celebrate. If anything, do something for pride during pride month. This seems to me like some admin person that got one of those automated calendars with every holiday on it and so is sending out a message for every day that’s marked on the calendar she bought.

Yikes. Your daughter got unlucky to have you as a mom.

It's one day. Okay TWO if you count LGBTQ+ day. My God. Must you blow out every candle that isn't about you?

Yikes, you are a mean person! My daughter and I have a great relationship. She has literally never mentioned this and I don’t think she cares about it (if she even knows about it). Unlike Pi Dsy and May the Fourth day, both of which she definitely does commemorate as a massive geek girl. I’m not blowing out anyone’s candle. Everyone call celebrate whatever they want. Let a thousand flowers bloom.

[Anonymous]

This sounds like a great school! I wish my kids school would do that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is celebrated on October 11th. That’s fine. Not sure why needs to be celebrated in 1st grade. Even if my kid is homosexual, I don’t expect them to come out in elementary school. Am I missing something ?

So is it fine or not? Is it on your school calendar as a school celebration or is it a Google calendar note like Canadian independence day? Which school?

Lots that’s missing here, OP.

School calendar plus mentioned today by the head of school in their email.

[Anonymous]

I am wondering. Now anyone can come out without prejudice at least in the school. So again my question. Do you really need that day on top of pride day ( which I support).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We communally celebrate all kinds of life events— birthdays, retirements, engagements, weddings, graduations, even choosing a college. People literally celebrate their child’s gender when it is in utero.

Coming out is another life event that we can recognize communally, and proactively doing so can help counter negative reactions.

If you think coming out is negative, no, you would not want your child at a school that supports it.

None of this is appropriate at school.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yikes! I’d keep my kids home that day.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We democrats are never going to win again until we settle down on this. I don’t understand how we got from “being gay is normal and acceptable” to people seating if elementary schools celebrate/should celebrate coming out day, if OP confirms the school is actually doing. Obviously there’s no need to celebrate or even acknowledge something like that in elementary school. Same way we don’t celebrate straight marriage.
We need to protect everyone’s rights. I also would rather stop focusing on this topic and trans issues until the fascists have been stopped.

Not the same. You do understand why there is a Coming Out day for gay people, but not straight people right? Straight people never had to hide "in the closet." It is a celebration of the end of hiding, shame, intolerance, fear, discrimination.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am wondering. Now anyone can come out without prejudice at least in the school. So again my question. Do you really need that day on top of pride day ( which I support).

You think prejudice has ended? Did you read this thread?