| Ok, then go to one of the schools where all anybody cares about 24/7 are race & gender issues. Those are good places to prepare for the real world. |
I applied to and got into Dartmouth back in the day. I didn't carpet bomb the Ivies. I always think it's odd when people do that, as they really are very different schools. I applied to just 2 Ivies that spoke to me, including Dartmouth which I liked very much. But in the end, I didn't go there. I also got into two in the HYPSM group, and I picked one of those instead. It's very, very hard to turn down one of those top tier schools. |
Princeton and Dartmouth make a ton of sense app overlap wise. HYPSM are also all not true equals, especially depending on interest areas. It is interesting to see the grouping used all the time on DCUM. There is a good discussion of MIT's weaknesses in the humanities on another thread. Also, Yale was late to the CS party (but is doing a lot now). HYS have a different level of international name recognition and acclaim than Dartmouth, MIT, and Princeton too, especially in the developed/western world. |
A lot of misunderstanding here. Kenyon certainly has a lot of liberal students but every single one of these schools does, especially Dartmouth. In terms of wokeness (liberal to the point of dogmatism) Kenyon does a far better job avoiding it than most. https://reason.com/2019/05/02/10-colleges-where-you-wont-have-to-walk-on-eggshells/ In terms of size, Kenyon is basically the same size as the other LACs mentioned with some 1800 students. Dartmouth is compared to these LACs because it actually is pretty small for an Ivy with 4500. Everyone single one of the schools mentioned above are basically in the middle of nowhere including Dartmouth but Kenyon is in fact an hour away from Columbus which has a population of nearly one million. Culturally and geographically, all of these schools have a lot in common. Bizarre that you would think Hamilton and Colby are at different ends of any sort of spectrum. Hamilton in fact is often considered a very preppy school that has the sort of kids you imagine going to Dartmouth. But I think your perception of a typical Dartmouth student is dated. In general, your stereotypes are dated or just off. |
^ and sadly Dartmouth is trending in the direction of its Ivy peers and turning into just another woke madras https://www.realcleareducation.com/articles/2020/11/06/dartmouths_free_speech_decline_110502.html |
I am just so tired of parents trying to flex on this. I think we would all agree that for every kid admitted, there are many more that were on paper qualified and would do well at these schools. |
As an HYP grad, one problem of attending a super selective school is that you have to be more cautious of evincing school pride (because you look like a total a-hole) whereas families that are connected with slightly less prestigious schools (say Michigan) can run around proudly. This may be the only outlet where the mom above can flex without risking social repercussions. |
If it never got cold, how could we wear our moncler? |
I think there’s a difference between public school pride tho. the vast majority of people regardless of school affiliation get this - I notice you used Michigan as your example vs say Georgetown or WUSTL Yeah “go blue” is kinda cringe but Michigan’s private peers are even more cringe to flex even amongst private school crowd. It just feels icky |
Lewisburg is nothing like Hanover though |
The less elite the school, the safer it is to flex. And the more praise you will receive as to how great the school is. |
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HYP all have terrible football teams. I see college gear mostly on Fridays and Saturdays during the fall here. Lots of Michigan, Georgia, Alabama, ect. People are flexing based on the football program and not the quality of school. I find your observation hilarious.
During the rest of the year, HYP people wear their shirts and hats about as often as other schools of comparable size. During basketball season, you'll see a lot more Duke, Kentucky, Kansas and Georgetown stuff in DC too! |
As a HYP graduate, You have to worry about not flexing but also not not flexing- like hiding the information because you think It’s so great they can’t handle it. |
People end up looking worse in an amusing way trying to hide where they went. When I hear someone talk about going to school in Palo Alto, I go into a little monologue about Palo Alto University and it really throws people off in a funny way. My HY friends joke about how comparatively bad the football and basketball teams are since on an early football season Saturday, they can be in the minority not wearing any gear. DC has far more people wearing HYP and general college stuff than I've seen before though. People here wear shirts showing off where they went to school in the same way they do where they work in the Bay Area. I'd see as much Google, Meta, Palantir, and Amazon swag as Stanford and Cal there. Also, do everyone's seniors wear almost nothing but college shirts from May-August? This summer seemed like nothing but college shirts on the kids in our local coffee shop. |
Not to throw P under the bus too much since it is an amazing school but it isn't as impressive to most people. Would they even be able to tell you Princeton's colors or anything? I wouldn't worry about "flexing" Princeton in the same way as HYS. It is more like any other Ivy when "flexing." Many will know but the general population wouldn't be at all annoyed. |