Missing college student in the Dominican Republic from Ashburn

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Anonymous wrote:When I went out with my girlfriends in college we always had a pact to watch each other’s backs and we all left together. Always. Period. And that was before cellphones!

I can’t imagine letting my girlfriend get blackout throw-up drunk and letting her leave with a man we just met. And then shrugging off that she was missing the next morning? No, just no. Those are terrible friends.


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And seems like really weird behavior since “friends of the friends“ say they’re all “nice good girls“. Nice good girls would be alarmed if their friend were unable to be found after last being seen with a stranger on a beach at 5 AM. They certainly would not go off on a boat excursion because her friends behavior would be uncharacteristic.
Those girls made some bad decisions and choices. They will live with it for the rest of their lives. We all know that . They didn’t have anything to do with Sudiksha’s disappearance.

They did absolutely nothing to help find her. If they’d all acted more prudently, this incident would never have happened. Many bad choices.


Lies, reporting her missing to resort and contacting her family is not nothing. It was JR and CJ who did nothing.

His failure to alert resort at 10am or before is all the more curious given his claimed heroic actions and risking of his own life. Hmmmm.


There is nothing suspicious about the boys' behavior towards a literal stranger. Their behavior matches their recounting of what happened and all the evidence supports what they said happened AND what the friends said happened.

I bet you think its fine that her very close friends just hopped on a plane the next day after their friend disappeared.


Her friends are either sociopaths or she wasn’t actually their friend at all, she was just a late addition hanger-on to help off-set a group rate.


One of her friends on the trip went to TJ with her.
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Anonymous wrote:How do we know for sure she was highly intoxicated? We know Riibe was from his own account. But did her friends tell the police/fbi that she was drunk too? Just because she was at the bar doesn’t mean she was drinking heavily. Lots of assumptions here.
Strong currents are dangerous whether or not one is drunk. People drown during the daytime too.

There are videos from the bar not long before when she appears so intoxicated she’s vomiting. She also appears to be walking very unsteadily in the video as she enters the beach


Date rape drugs.


Sure, it could be. It could also be that she just plain drank way too much.
Sure, it could be that she drank too much, but it’s also important not to jump to conclusions and rule out other possibilities, especially when there’s a pattern of risk factors involved. The reality is, date rape drugs do happen, and it’s not 'dramatic' to consider them as a possibility when something’s clearly wrong. Ignoring that potential risks anyone else in a similar situation


No one has ruled anything out. That said, it doesn’t look like there will be a body to examine, so we’ll never know.
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Anonymous wrote:When did the friends leave the DR? What day?

No one knows. Because no one asked and no one told. But like every US college week long spring break, assume they left soon after they last saw Sudiksha (Thursday).


So she disappeared on Thursday and they just flew off on Friday or Saturday ?


What would you do if your kid was one of the friends?

“friends”
I’d hang my head in shame, wondering where did I go wrong, to raise a girl who failed to learn every safety lesson I ever tried to teach.


Two things can happen at the same time, you can do all of the self shaming and want to kill your kid for not listening to you, while also getting the kid out of a third world country. Who knows, maybe the DR police hate Indian women and the Ribe family slipped them $10k and now your kid is at fault. Why stick around to see how it plays out?


The whole group of friends were Indian women?


Yes


OK, the unhinged Indian lady rants make a lot more sense now.

They apparently checked out and flew home within a day of their friend disappearing.
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Anonymous wrote:Karens worry that their sons are the same. Defend this pervert!!


to be fair we also worry our daughter is the same. Don't parents worry about both scenarios?
keep deflecting, it’s much easier than addressing the actual problem.
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Anonymous wrote:How do we know for sure she was highly intoxicated? We know Riibe was from his own account. But did her friends tell the police/fbi that she was drunk too? Just because she was at the bar doesn’t mean she was drinking heavily. Lots of assumptions here.
Strong currents are dangerous whether or not one is drunk. People drown during the daytime too.

we need to hear from the girls
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Anonymous wrote:The group rate becomes cheaper the more people you bring, so a core group of ruthless mean girls will invite a non-core cousin or gal they know from the dorms just to make everyone else’s costs lower. Happens a lot. The core group of gals clearly couldn’t have cared less about this gal.

one of the girls was a lifelong friend of the victim
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Anonymous wrote:How do we know for sure she was highly intoxicated? We know Riibe was from his own account. But did her friends tell the police/fbi that she was drunk too? Just because she was at the bar doesn’t mean she was drinking heavily. Lots of assumptions here.
Strong currents are dangerous whether or not one is drunk. People drown during the daytime too.


There’s literally video of her puking in the hotel bar before they went down to the beach.

this same pp tried to suggest maybe it was due to some unknown pre-exiting condition of the victim ...
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Anonymous wrote:Hitting a bit too close to home for these Karens


Please go do the needful Sunita
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Anonymous wrote:How do we know for sure she was highly intoxicated? We know Riibe was from his own account. But did her friends tell the police/fbi that she was drunk too? Just because she was at the bar doesn’t mean she was drinking heavily. Lots of assumptions here.
Strong currents are dangerous whether or not one is drunk. People drown during the daytime too.

There are videos from the bar not long before when she appears so intoxicated she’s vomiting. She also appears to be walking very unsteadily in the video as she enters the beach
It’s important to focus on the fact that she’s missing, and there’s a person of interest in this case—someone who was with her at the beach. Whether she had been drinking or not doesn’t change the fact that she was put in a vulnerable situation. The priority should be understanding what happened, especially given the circumstances and the involvement of someone who’s now under investigation. The real questions are about what led to her being in that position, not just assumptions about her actions


I’m not sure what you’re insinuating by “what led her to being in that position”, but Ribe was not with this group of friends all night. He had only met them about half an hour to an hour before they walked down to the beach. He and his friend had been partying elsewhere while her friends have been partying at the hotel.
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Anonymous wrote:When did the friends leave the DR? What day?

No one knows. Because no one asked and no one told. But like every US college week long spring break, assume they left soon after they last saw Sudiksha (Thursday).


So she disappeared on Thursday and they just flew off on Friday or Saturday ?


What would you do if your kid was one of the friends?

“friends”
I’d hang my head in shame, wondering where did I go wrong, to raise a girl who failed to learn every safety lesson I ever tried to teach.


Two things can happen at the same time, you can do all of the self shaming and want to kill your kid for not listening to you, while also getting the kid out of a third world country. Who knows, maybe the DR police hate Indian women and the Ribe family slipped them $10k and now your kid is at fault. Why stick around to see how it plays out?


The whole group of friends were Indian women?


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OK, the unhinged Indian lady rants make a lot more sense now.

They apparently checked out and flew home within a day of their friend disappearing.
It’s easy to assume the worst when we don’t have all the details, but we should be cautious before placing blame on the friends or making generalizations. We don’t know the exact timeline or circumstances of when they left the DR, and without that information, it’s hard to make any definitive conclusions.

This is an incredibly tragic situation, and we should focus on supporting efforts to find Sudiksha and bring clarity to what happened.
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The hearing on his motion to be released is Tuesday at 2pm.
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Anonymous wrote:When did the friends leave the DR? What day?

No one knows. Because no one asked and no one told. But like every US college week long spring break, assume they left soon after they last saw Sudiksha (Thursday).


So she disappeared on Thursday and they just flew off on Friday or Saturday ?


What would you do if your kid was one of the friends?

“friends”
I’d hang my head in shame, wondering where did I go wrong, to raise a girl who failed to learn every safety lesson I ever tried to teach.


Two things can happen at the same time, you can do all of the self shaming and want to kill your kid for not listening to you, while also getting the kid out of a third world country. Who knows, maybe the DR police hate Indian women and the Ribe family slipped them $10k and now your kid is at fault. Why stick around to see how it plays out?


The whole group of friends were Indian women?


Yes


OK, the unhinged Indian lady rants make a lot more sense now.

They apparently checked out and flew home within a day of their friend disappearing.
It’s easy to assume the worst when we don’t have all the details, but we should be cautious before placing blame on the friends or making generalizations. We don’t know the exact timeline or circumstances of when they left the DR, and without that information, it’s hard to make any definitive conclusions.

This is an incredibly tragic situation, and we should focus on supporting efforts to find Sudiksha and bring clarity to what happened.


How are keyboard warriors supposed to do that?
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Anonymous wrote:How do we know for sure she was highly intoxicated? We know Riibe was from his own account. But did her friends tell the police/fbi that she was drunk too? Just because she was at the bar doesn’t mean she was drinking heavily. Lots of assumptions here.
Strong currents are dangerous whether or not one is drunk. People drown during the daytime too.

we need to hear from the girls


Video shows her vomiting at bar. She was intoxicated, her drink was drugged, or both. She was visibly unsteady on her feet. Watch the video.
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She was drinking. They all were drinking. Zero hint of any drugs except for on this page, coming from women who need a pill or two.
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Anonymous wrote:When did the friends leave the DR? What day?

No one knows. Because no one asked and no one told. But like every US college week long spring break, assume they left soon after they last saw Sudiksha (Thursday).


So she disappeared on Thursday and they just flew off on Friday or Saturday ?


What would you do if your kid was one of the friends?

“friends”
I’d hang my head in shame, wondering where did I go wrong, to raise a girl who failed to learn every safety lesson I ever tried to teach.


Two things can happen at the same time, you can do all of the self shaming and want to kill your kid for not listening to you, while also getting the kid out of a third world country. Who knows, maybe the DR police hate Indian women and the Ribe family slipped them $10k and now your kid is at fault. Why stick around to see how it plays out?



The whole group of friends were Indian women?


Yes


OK, the unhinged Indian lady rants make a lot more sense now.

They apparently checked out and flew home within a day of their friend disappearing.
It’s easy to assume the worst when we don’t have all the details, but we should be cautious before placing blame on the friends or making generalizations. We don’t know the exact timeline or circumstances of when they left the DR, and without that information, it’s hard to make any definitive conclusions.

This is an incredibly tragic situation, and we should focus on supporting efforts to find Sudiksha and bring clarity to what happened.

yes, we should be respectful and not rush to judgment except that we don't know that these girls actually consumed alcohol at the bar for hours, sure it was ok to leave their friend at the beach, off to the day trip and off the island without her and that hulking bruiser definitely spiked her drink, killed her and disposed of her body, may he rot in hell. Please don't assume the worst, let's support these young people.
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