Does he want his ex back? I’m flying out to spend Valentine’s Day with him tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

[Anonymous]

This is so sad.

[Anonymous]

Most middle schoolers have distorted perception and can be a bit disconnected from realty. Emotions and impulses rule behavior so drama is “normal.”
The dramatic behavior usually simmers down in the later teenage years as people begin to mature. The relationship middlemen (such as the cousin) lose their jobs, face-to-face interaction becomes more solid, it becomes less necessary to play emotional games. By the late 20’s it is possible to have a meaningful relationship - no middlemen, no drama, no insipid BS.
I suspect OP is in middle school.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

What the hell, she responded to you and not to me? Op, is it because I called you pathetic???

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most middle schoolers have distorted perception and can be a bit disconnected from realty. Emotions and impulses rule behavior so drama is “normal.”
The dramatic behavior usually simmers down in the later teenage years as people begin to mature. The relationship middlemen (such as the cousin) lose their jobs, face-to-face interaction becomes more solid, it becomes less necessary to play emotional games. By the late 20’s it is possible to have a meaningful relationship - no middlemen, no drama, no insipid BS.
I suspect OP is in middle school.

Nah. These are exactly the kind of women that are in affairs in midlife. Drama is their middle name. Look up 'histrionic personality disorder'.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

Oh lord. I can't keep up with op and her messiness. Regardless, everything I said about op being a warm hole still stands. He's afraid of being alone so he has op at his beck and call to keep him from feeling too lonely while he waits to see what comes of his attempts to get back with MED.

While we're here, can we also discuss how annoying op is? Someone gives her an honest answer and her response to everything is "What do you mean?" We mean he doesn't love you, idiot. Move it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

And I would say I’m pathetic for reading it, but as a worldly Washingtonian I have that privilege pass that I’m gingerly leaving here before my sentence ends.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

Oh lord. I can't keep up with op and her messiness. Regardless, everything I said about op being a warm hole still stands. He's afraid of being alone so he has op at his beck and call to keep him from feeling too lonely while he waits to see what comes of his attempts to get back with MED.

While we're here, can we also discuss how annoying op is? Someone gives her an honest answer and her response to everything is "What do you mean?" We mean he doesn't love you, idiot. Move it.

Ha! Yes, very annoying!

I don’t think OP thinks he loves her (hopefully). I think she’s convinced that he likes her.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

And I would say I’m pathetic for reading it, but as a worldly Washingtonian I have that privilege pass that I’m gingerly leaving here before my sentence ends.

What does this even mean?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

Oh lord. I can't keep up with op and her messiness. Regardless, everything I said about op being a warm hole still stands. He's afraid of being alone so he has op at his beck and call to keep him from feeling too lonely while he waits to see what comes of his attempts to get back with MED.

While we're here, can we also discuss how annoying op is? Someone gives her an honest answer and her response to everything is "What do you mean?" We mean he doesn't love you, idiot. Move it.

DCUM:
He doesn't love you, idiot. He doesn’t even think the sex is good. Beat it.

OP:
So you’re saying there is a chance?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

And I would say I’m pathetic for reading it, but as a worldly Washingtonian I have that privilege pass that I’m gingerly leaving here before my sentence ends.

What does this even mean?

Bump the thread in 2 years and maybe I’ll divulge at that time.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You aren't from DC, are you? I am genuinely asking because most 27 year olds in DC are more mature than this. This sounds like some white trash Teen Mom social media drama bullshit.

No, I’m not. I just moved to the area not that long ago. I’m from Chattanooga.

Of course you are, sweetie.

what is that supposed to mean?

It means you're not as sophisticated and worldly as most Washingtonians are in their late 20s. If you've spent a few years here you have a savviness about you by your age, but you're over here acting like some B-list reality show star with the drama and the laundry being aired out for all of the internet to see.

Just a heads up, this isn't some cute "will he or won't he" thing. He won't. He's pathetic and obsessed with the ex and you're pathetic for tolerating this.

I 1000% agree OP is pathetic. However, I doubt this dude is “obsessed” with his ex if he’s in another woman’s inbox the next day and she’s blocked, right?

I don't think he's obsessed w/ her or he wouldn't have let her go, lol. He sounds like an indecisive man child who is afraid to be alone. Can't be with the ex but can't be by himself, so he finds someone dumb enough to basically be an on-call hole for him when he gets too lonely.

Op, he's scared to spend the night alone. Move along.

I disagree. He isn’t the one letting her go. It’s the other way around. I saw somewhere in the thread that during their breakup he bought tickets to a concert in the spring, where he knew the ex would be in hopes he’d run into the ex.

Oh lord. I can't keep up with op and her messiness. Regardless, everything I said about op being a warm hole still stands. He's afraid of being alone so he has op at his beck and call to keep him from feeling too lonely while he waits to see what comes of his attempts to get back with MED.

While we're here, can we also discuss how annoying op is? Someone gives her an honest answer and her response to everything is "What do you mean?" We mean he doesn't love you, idiot. Move it.

Ha! Yes, very annoying!

I don’t think OP thinks he loves her (hopefully). I think she’s convinced that he likes her.

I agree. She's extremely annoying. I'm 28 and her posts remind me of myself at 22. This has to be some kind of delayed adolescence like Kimmy Schmidt or something.