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Your older one carpools? So he has his own car and drives his share of the time? Or you mean you just rely/cross-your-fingers that his friends' parents will take pity and drive him and you all never reciprocate? You can't carpool and not rely on other people to drive around your kids.
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No, https://www.hopskipdrive.com/carpool |
You don’t know me, you don’t know my family. I took his team mates to practices for years at oak grove, Quincy, w-l, tj, asfs, key, rocky run, long branch. Walking. His friends parents were more than happy to have me do it because they didn’t have to come home early. Nobody pities my family, my eldest has had other parents take him to a total of two out of ten games this fall. This has nothing to do with boundaries. I know some of you here can’t imagine lifestyles different than your own, but there are people who survive with multiple kids in parts of the county without a car. |
What neighborhood is this where the majority of parents do not have cars? Sounds like some fact-checking is in order. |
What neighborhood is this magical place, we get assigned practices and games all over the place. Or do you do EVERYTHING at the Y? Do county camps offer bus service? We did county camps but most years they aren’t at our neighborhood school. I assume you must not work, b/c waking or taking pokey ART buses will take a *lot* of time. By the way, what is your plan when the start the multi-year renovation of the Y next year? |
Interested to know this as well. I'd be interested to move to this neighborhood. Only data I can find ends at 2016 ... but states that 12.7% of Arlington VA households did not have a car [see: https://www.governing.com/gov-data/car-ownership-numbers-of-vehicles-by-city-map.html] guess they were all parents colocated in this one neighborhood. |
An appropriate neighborhood zone is whatever the zone needs to be in the context of all the other neighborhood zones in the system. There are essential factors to consider other than the distance the crow flies. |
DP. You are simply trying to be a PIA and obtuse. There's a difference between people who are constantly living off and taking advantage of others, and the poster you're antagonizing. We're a 2-car family (because we don't live along a metro line or a transit corridor that provides efficient transportation to the places we need to go on a daily basis). Our kids still get rides with friends to and from things. So what? And we give rides now and then too. And even if we couldn't because we didn't have a car, we'd "reciprocate" our kids' friends and their parents in other ways. It's time for you to lay off. |
People, what's with the interrogation? The point is that some people do indeed live a family life with kids of all ages without owning a car. Stop trying to disprove or discredit someone who is successfully doing something you don't believe is possible or that you don't have the courage to do. |
Or wherever people who just can't afford a car happen to live - ever think of that? |
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We have two cars ourselves but know many families at our school who don’t have a car or just have one car. These families walk, bike, and bus around town.
Not sure why that’s so hard for the nasty posters to believe. There are tons of families who live in the high-density areas along the R-B corridor. And more buildings going up every year. Get your head out of your ass and you will notice these things. |
| Arlington hypes up a car free diet, some peoplereport that yes, they are living that way, and other people try to tear them down or snark about it. Arlington in a nutshell. |
Pass. |