Is the redhead kid who calls me dad actually mine?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here...

Test results came in last night and confirmed my paternity. If it came in the other way, I never would have disclosed it to anyone.

Now are you reconsidering your certainty that your wife has been cheating? Is there any possibility that you have some mental health issues that are making you a little paranoid?

+1000000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here...

Test results came in last night and confirmed my paternity. If it came in the other way, I never would have disclosed it to anyone.

Congrats OP!

Sense of relief, I hope?

Perhaps counseling would help to get over this hump in your marriage. Perhaps before you couldn't fully commit to making it work because of the uncertainty, but now with that cleared working on trust and building a stronger foundation with your spouse can move you all forward as a family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here...

Test results came in last night and confirmed my paternity. If it came in the other way, I never would have disclosed it to anyone.

OP I am thrilled for you, but I knew it was yours!

[Anonymous]

Phew, I feel like I need a drink.

[Anonymous]

This is really the best possible outcome for the kid. The adults can deal with their own drama now without making the red-headed kid a pawn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is really the best possible outcome for the kid. The adults can deal with their own drama now without making the red-headed kid a pawn.

Oh, sounds to me like the kid will be a pawn in the future, just not in this way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is really the best possible outcome for the kid. The adults can deal with their own drama now without making the red-headed kid a pawn.

Oh, sounds to me like the kid will be a pawn in the future, just not in this way.

Yep, me too. OP seems very willing to use him that way.

[Anonymous]

This post just confirms how weird people are about redheads.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here...

Test results came in last night and confirmed my paternity. If it came in the other way, I never would have disclosed it to anyone.

Congrats OP, happy for you! But your response is so laconic.. Are you alright?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This post just confirms how weird people are about redheads.

Oh no, my baby is a flaming redhead and my huns and I are both brunette. My goodness what the neighbors must be saying...

[Anonymous]

Who doesn't know "Billie Jean"? Seriously.

Congrats, OP.

[Anonymous]

OP I said it earlier and I'll say it again - get therapy. For everyone's sake.

[Anonymous]

AWWW <3 This made me so happy!! Congrats!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wife cheated and now I wonder if our son is mine. I love him madly and would be devastated if he weren't but I have to ask the question.

I have dark brown hair and WW has black hair. OM has red headed children.

Our son was born with a full head of red hair which has darkened a little over time to light brown with red highlights.

Google not real helpful to me.

Any genetics experts out there?

he's your son in every way that really matters. Do you want to ruin his and your world's by looking into this? If you are sure your wife cheated maybe you split up, maybe you work things out. Either way, that is YOUR SON.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wife cheated and now I wonder if our son is mine. I love him madly and would be devastated if he weren't but I have to ask the question.

I have dark brown hair and WW has black hair. OM has red headed children.

Our son was born with a full head of red hair which has darkened a little over time to light brown with red highlights.

Google not real helpful to me.

Any genetics experts out there?

he's your son in every way that really matters. Do you want to ruin his and your world's by looking into this? If you are sure your wife cheated maybe you split up, maybe you work things out. Either way, that is YOUR SON.

Um. Keep up.