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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.

I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.

It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's more like the teens have consensual sex and then one of them tells other people. There's no rape analogy at all. It's offensive to rape victims to even suggest a similarity.

1) Please don't presume to declare what is and is not offensive to rape victims. Get over yourself.

2) It's not at all more like the teens have consensual sex and one of them tells other people. No one says, "well, the girl shouldn't have slept with him in the first place" when that happens -- people think the boy is a cad. In this case, many have, as a first instinct, reacted not by saying the boys are cads (or worse) but by pointing fingers at the girls.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

I am the type of mom who is sick of girls saying they were raped when it was consensual, but get their feelings hurt because it was sex not love.

As a woman who was raped, I find your comment misinformed, offensive and downright dangerous to the future of our girls.

The ones that are dangerous are the ones with false accusations and the reason the state can't convict many rape cases.

[Anonymous]

Thought experiment:

Teenage boys snap pictures of their junk and send them to girlfriends, who share them. A gay guy starts a dropbox site and collects as many photos as he can and starts labeling them and shares him with his homo friends.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

I am the type of mom who is sick of girls saying they were raped when it was consensual, but get their feelings hurt because it was sex not love.

As a woman who was raped, I find your comment misinformed, offensive and downright dangerous to the future of our girls.

The ones that are dangerous are the ones with false accusations and the reason the state can't convict many rape cases.

The infrequency of false accusations is dwarfed by the sheer number of sexual assaults that go unreported out of fear that the victim will be blamed. False accusations are rare enough to be newsworthy -- that should tell you something.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

Another misogynistic attempt to blame the girls for leading the poor, innocent boys astray. One can't help but wonder if this is the general atmosphere at the high school involved in this case or just the attitude of a few individuals?

If you want the girls to take responsibility for their possible actions you need to accept that the actions of the boys were far more blame-worthy. It took time and effort to put this site together. The difference in the level of culpability has been noted numerous times. It does a child no favors to make excuses and blame others for their actions.

"It does a child no favors to make excuses and blame others for their actions." This applies equally to the girls.

Sorry, but it only applies equally if the girls both took the pictures themselves and then put them together into a website and circulated links so others could view them. At this time, there is nothing in the news indicating the girls took the pictures themselves and two boys are being investigated for starting, owning, and/or operating the website where 52 folders of pictures, 24 of which were labeled with names, were found.
It does not appear that the boys in question were dragged or forced in any way to keep, organize, and distribute these pictures. The people in the pictures were held up for embarrassment and have been placed in danger.
It is much worse to embarrass others and put people in danger than it is to do something foolish thinking someone is romantically interested in you. In terms of character, it is far worse to take advantage of another's vulnerability to put them in a position of embarrassment and possible danger.

You should get your child into therapy. I am sorry she is embarrassed by her actions. I am sorry she learned at an early age that she can't trust somebody that she loves. Luckily she is underage, because if she were 18 the pictures are legal and can never be recovered.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

I am the type of mom who is sick of girls saying they were raped when it was consensual, but get their feelings hurt because it was sex not love.

As a woman who was raped, I find your comment misinformed, offensive and downright dangerous to the future of our girls.

The ones that are dangerous are the ones with false accusations and the reason the state can't convict many rape cases.

The infrequency of false accusations is dwarfed by the sheer number of sexual assaults that go unreported out of fear that the victim will be blamed. False accusations are rare enough to be newsworthy -- that should tell you something.

No false accusation far exceed real accusations. They are not newsworthy because nobody cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.

I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.

It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.

Totally agree. And it's not just the first instinct, posters have blamed the girls on page after page of this thread. They've made a lot of assumptions about these girls that haven't been grounded in reality. What we know from the article is what these boys did, How about we refocus the thread on the facts instead of spewing misogynistic assumptions about girls in general.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.

I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.

It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.

Totally agree. And it's not just the first instinct, posters have blamed the girls on page after page of this thread. They've made a lot of assumptions about these girls that haven't been grounded in reality. What we know from the article is what these boys did, How about we refocus the thread on the facts instead of spewing misogynistic assumptions about girls in general.

How about we stop the thread until all the evidence comes out and if the girls sent picture of themselves we all agree the charges should be dropped and the girls should be charged with distribution of child porn. If the boys drugged 24 girls and took pictures of them passed out the boys should be charged.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So all you moms see nothing wrong with the girls posting nude selfies on social media? I wouldn't be surprised to hear that the girls sent them directly to the Dropbox themselves. Without the girls' naked pics, the boys would have been playing Call of Duty.

I imagine you're the type of person who believes a woman who was raped "asked for it" by wearing a skirt.

Not the PP, but the trashiness is just plain embarrassing. Nice try with the rape cliche, but it does you no good. We are not discussing rape.

I have a huge problem with schoolgirls sending obscene photographs of themselves anywhere. So ugly, so sad.

It's actually very analogous, especially in terms of blaming the girls. The fact that the first instinct here for many was to say, "well, those little sluts" is disgusting.

Totally agree. And it's not just the first instinct, posters have blamed the girls on page after page of this thread. They've made a lot of assumptions about these girls that haven't been grounded in reality. What we know from the article is what these boys did, How about we refocus the thread on the facts instead of spewing misogynistic assumptions about girls in general.

The article is only the beginning of this story. Guess you will have to wait until they do a followup with the girls' version.

[Anonymous]

Sure they're both to blame. And looking at the acts equally (posting naked selfies vs. posting an online library of various naked selfies), I'd agree the boys' actions are worse. The point the boy bashers can't seem to acknowledge is that the girls were wrong, ignorant and naive to post the naked pics and that parents need to teach all our kids that there's no expectation of privacy what you share on a public social media. To bring in ridiculously poor analogies just proves that some people want to excuse the behavior and blame others.

[Anonymous]

Actually, what the girls did was criminal. They produced child porn and then they showed it to a minor.

[Anonymous]

I hope these two boys go to JV or county and have a good experience. Maybe they will come out better men. Being from a 'good family' means what? I don't even know what makes a family"good" Does "good" mean white, upper-middle class, winter and summer vacations, a country club life? Yes? That's what I thought you meant. Thanks for clarifying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope these two boys go to JV or county and have a good experience. Maybe they will come out better men. Being from a 'good family' means what? I don't even know what makes a family"good" Does "good" mean white, upper-middle class, winter and summer vacations, a country club life? Yes? That's what I thought you meant. Thanks for clarifying.

Ditto for the girls.

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Anonymous wrote:Actually, what the girls did was criminal. They produced child porn and then they showed it to a minor.

And all the receiver needed to do was hit "delete." No one forced anyone to open a website, compile and label pictures, and send out links so others could view the pictures. Many more counts of possible criminal activity for the ones involved in the creating and organizing of the website.