Late 40s woman: age-appropriate men look so old

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I am the OP. Thanks for believing me! I have only posted once on here about the fireman and I was called a troll. It’s been over a year of seeing him now.

Let's try using an example since you are having trouble picking this up.

Think about a 53-year-old man posting that he was: 1) fit and fun, 2) dating a 25-year-old model/influencer, and 3) finding that age-appropriate women looked too old for him to find attractive.

This example is point-for-point the same as yours. And equally as unlikely.

🙄 OP here. My person is a caring dad of 2. Kids come first. He is a stand-up member of the community and a lot of people respect him for his fundraising and volunteering time. I am finally an empty nester and am now holding space to meeting new people. I prioritized my kid for over a decade as an only parent. I have a career and travel a lot, so our time together works for both of us. We respect and care for each other. We have become good friends and will remain this way even if we go our separate ways.

You are clearly showing your age and lack of experience in life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am the OP. Thanks for believing me! I have only posted once on here about the fireman and I was called a troll. It’s been over a year of seeing him now.

Let's try using an example since you are having trouble picking this up.

Think about a 53-year-old man posting that he was: 1) fit and fun, 2) dating a 25-year-old model/influencer, and 3) finding that age-appropriate women looked too old for him to find attractive.

This example is point-for-point the same as yours. And equally as unlikely.

🙄 OP here. My person is a caring dad of 2. Kids come first. He is a stand-up member of the community and a lot of people respect him for his fundraising and volunteering time. I am finally an empty nester and am now holding space to meeting new people. I prioritized my kid for over a decade as an only parent. I have a career and travel a lot, so our time together works for both of us. We respect and care for each other. We have become good friends and will remain this way even if we go our separate ways.

You are clearly showing your age and lack of experience in life.

Are you the OP of this entire thread?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am the OP. Thanks for believing me! I have only posted once on here about the fireman and I was called a troll. It’s been over a year of seeing him now.

Let's try using an example since you are having trouble picking this up.

Think about a 53-year-old man posting that he was: 1) fit and fun, 2) dating a 25-year-old model/influencer, and 3) finding that age-appropriate women looked too old for him to find attractive.

This example is point-for-point the same as yours. And equally as unlikely.

🙄 OP here. My person is a caring dad of 2. Kids come first. He is a stand-up member of the community and a lot of people respect him for his fundraising and volunteering time. I am finally an empty nester and am now holding space to meeting new people. I prioritized my kid for over a decade as an only parent. I have a career and travel a lot, so our time together works for both of us. We respect and care for each other. We have become good friends and will remain this way even if we go our separate ways.

You are clearly showing your age and lack of experience in life.

Are you the OP of this entire thread?

The real OP here. No, she is not. She should have identified herself as PP ("previous poster"), not "original poster."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am turning 53 next week and I look 40 I am seeing a 40 year old man at the moment.

Here is a translation of this post into the truth:

I am turning 53 next week and look every bit of it. Maybe even older.

Some hard up 40-year-man is banging me when he can stand it. We can only do it doggie-style or reverse cowgirl because otherwise, he has to look at my face, which makes it a rough ride.

OP here. Wow, you are disgruntled.

I promise you that my 40 year old man is not hard up. He is a firefighter who is in the local firefighter calendar. For real. We are having the best sex, and he loves seeing all of me. I am fit and fun.

LOL. Firefighters are literally known for dating trash.

Shhh, it's funny when people tell on themselves here without realizing it. Imagine being middle-aged and bragging about being used by a man likely to have low, if any, standards.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am the OP. Thanks for believing me! I have only posted once on here about the fireman and I was called a troll. It’s been over a year of seeing him now.

Let's try using an example since you are having trouble picking this up.

Think about a 53-year-old man posting that he was: 1) fit and fun, 2) dating a 25-year-old model/influencer, and 3) finding that age-appropriate women looked too old for him to find attractive.

This example is point-for-point the same as yours. And equally as unlikely.

🙄 OP here. My person is a caring dad of 2. Kids come first. He is a stand-up member of the community and a lot of people respect him for his fundraising and volunteering time. I am finally an empty nester and am now holding space to meeting new people. I prioritized my kid for over a decade as an only parent. I have a career and travel a lot, so our time together works for both of us. We respect and care for each other. We have become good friends and will remain this way even if we go our separate ways.

You are clearly showing your age and lack of experience in life.

Are you the OP of this entire thread?

The real OP here. No, she is not. She should have identified herself as PP ("previous poster"), not "original poster."

Yeah sorry. I am the PP. Sorry OP

[Anonymous]

I don't think so. I'm 56, female, and not interested in men not age-appropriate.

[Anonymous]

Let's try using an example since you are having trouble picking this up.

Think about a 53-year-old man posting that he was: 1) fit and fun, 2) dating a 25-year-old model/influencer, and 3) finding that age-appropriate women looked too old for him to find attractive.

This example is point-for-point the same as yours. And equally as unlikely.

🙄 OP here. My person is a caring dad of 2. Kids come first. He is a stand-up member of the community and a lot of people respect him for his fundraising and volunteering time. I am finally an empty nester and am now holding space to meeting new people. I prioritized my kid for over a decade as an only parent. I have a career and travel a lot, so our time together works for both of us. We respect and care for each other. We have become good friends and will remain this way even if we go our separate ways.

You are clearly showing your age and lack of experience in life.

Your response makes no sense. How does your summary of your life address the fact that the PP posting that she (a 53-year-old woman) was dating a 40-year-old calendar model/fireman, a circumstance that is highly unlikely?

What does "you are clearly showing your age" mean? I am proud of my age, and your attempt to bag on it is simply word drool.

In fact, your writing is so poor that no one can follow how your lengthy post responds meaningfully.

[Anonymous]

Dehumanizing Asians? Is it because too many white women as well as African women envy Asians who are older than than me us and happen to be more petite than us white women as well as African women. I speak as a large breasted women myself. And yes, us large breasted women envy petite women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dehumanizing Asians? Is it because too many white women as well as African women envy Asians who are older than than me us and happen to be more petite than us white women as well as African women. I speak as a large breasted women myself. And yes, us large breasted women envy petite women.

What's your definition of "petite" women?
And why do you envy "petite" women? Large boobs are the beauty standard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I am turning 53 next week and I look 40 I am seeing a 40 year old man at the moment.

Here is a translation of this post into the truth:

I am turning 53 next week and look every bit of it. Maybe even older.

Some hard up 40-year-man is banging me when he can stand it. We can only do it doggie-style or reverse cowgirl because otherwise, he has to look at my face, which makes it a rough ride.

OP here. Wow, you are disgruntled.

I promise you that my 40 year old man is not hard up. He is a firefighter who is in the local firefighter calendar. For real. We are having the best sex, and he loves seeing all of me. I am fit and fun.

LOL. Firefighters are literally known for dating trash.

Shhh, it's funny when people tell on themselves here without realizing it. Imagine being middle-aged and bragging about being used by a man likely to have low, if any, standards.

How is she being “used” if she is enjoying it and has a successful independent life? Please enlighten us. She is supposed to save herself for what exactly? An 80 year old?

[Anonymous]

I’m a 40yo woman and I’ve found men 30-33yo are the sweet spot for me. Old enough it’s not creepy, young enough that they still look good. Most are grateful for an older woman and are more chivalrous than men my own age, who expect a nurse and a purse.

My plan is to have fun for the next few years until menopause hits, then quit men entirely. Don’t want to waste the time I have left on older, disappointing men.

Men had it right all along. Have fun playing the field, settling down is overrated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Dehumanizing Asians? Is it because too many white women as well as African women envy Asians who are older than than me us and happen to be more petite than us white women as well as African women. I speak as a large breasted women myself. And yes, us large breasted women envy petite women.

Nope.
Don’t envy any White or Asian women.

-Petite Black woman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a 40yo woman and I’ve found men 30-33yo are the sweet spot for me. Old enough it’s not creepy, young enough that they still look good. Most are grateful for an older woman and are more chivalrous than men my own age, who expect a nurse and a purse.

My plan is to have fun for the next few years until menopause hits, then quit men entirely. Don’t want to waste the time I have left on older, disappointing men.

Men had it right all along. Have fun playing the field, settling down is

overrated.

Trolls don't even try anymore

[Anonymous]

Op is s troll

[Anonymous]

NP - I’m 55 and last night I was at a dinner party and met a guy who must be 65 or so based on when he went to college. He looks 50ish with a full head of hair and looks very fit! We are both single so I’m going to be bold and call him. Too many guys my age are not aging gracefully