NY mom murdered

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

Because she wanted to get laid. I know a mother that did stuff like this. Also lives in a million home+ and has the “perfect mom” image. She is truthfully very manipulative abs a pathological liar. She believes her own lies.

If your 13 year can't stay home alone for a night, then you have failed as a parent. I was staying home alone for entire weekends at that age because I didn't want to go camping w/ the rest of the family. It was awesome--I loved having the house to myself--and we lived in a rural area w/o 911 service and nowhere to walk to.

Such a strange response. Not a matter of whether a 13 year old *can* stay home alone, but why any responsible parent would do so overnight without good reason. To hang out in a bar by yourself?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I did too and the other was cheating.

The next time I babysat the dad came over and moved out furniture unannounced. A real sh@t show. The mom was a piece of work that was hiring me to watch the kids so she could bang other dudes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

Because she wanted to get laid. I know a mother that did stuff like this. Also lives in a million home+ and has the “perfect mom” image. She is truthfully very manipulative abs a pathological liar. She believes her own lies.

If your 13 year can't stay home alone for a night, then you have failed as a parent. I was staying home alone for entire weekends at that age because I didn't want to go camping w/ the rest of the family. It was awesome--I loved having the house to myself--and we lived in a rural area w/o 911 service and nowhere to walk to.

Such a strange response. Not a matter of whether a 13 year old *can* stay home alone, but why any responsible parent would do so overnight without good reason. To hang out in a bar by yourself?

No. To shack up with her affair partner. That was her plan. She got stood up.

[Anonymous]

I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I am not the pp.
I am horrified at your parents and the parents of the kids you babysat. 13 is way too young.

What? How old are you? I was also babysitting at 13, and so were all of my friends. You must be super young and your parents helicoptered you.

I was in the 80s, but 13-year olds are not staying up to babysit kids past midnight in my area. The fact is, if the dude hasn’t stood her up, she would have been out until the wee hours of the morning (like last time).

Gen X-er here. I was also babysitting at age 12. I remember watching a family‘s baby on New Year’s Eve at that age. Ask me if I would have my 12-year-old do the same thing now and the answer is no. It’s not that she’s not a responsible, great kid. It’s that the culture has changed and I don’t think it’s appropriate. It doesn’t matter that I did it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

I was “a 13 year old alone at night” babysitting other people’s children. This seems like a you problem.

Ha, so true. At 13 I was babysitting 3 kids between 1 and 5 years old until 2am regularly. PP would be HORRIFIED at the amount of (responsibility?) I had by 16.

I am not the pp.
I am horrified at your parents and the parents of the kids you babysat. 13 is way too young.

What? How old are you? I was also babysitting at 13, and so were all of my friends. You must be super young and your parents helicoptered you.

I was in the 80s, but 13-year olds are not staying up to babysit kids past midnight in my area. The fact is, if the dude hasn’t stood her up, she would have been out until the wee hours of the morning (like last time).

It’s what she was doing and why she was leaving the kids alone (to drink and cheat) that is the issue here.

+1. Let’s not pretend she was being a responsible parent.

omg who tf cares?

[Anonymous]

13 is old enough to be home alone for a few hours. If she were at another moms house drinking wine, would there be more sympathy for her being murdered? Stop slut shaming her. No one knows anything about what was going on inside her relationship with her husband and why she was stepping out on that relationship.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

I would hope that he wouldn’t give her the green light to let the dudes have access to the family home!

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Anonymous wrote:Article with lots of photos:
https://nypost.com/2022/04/17/orsolya-gaal-spotted-alive-in-backyard-before-body-found/amp/

Police have appeared to clear the husband and older son. Not saying much about the younger son...

There have been many cases where the killer was cleared. Sometimes they say that I suspect just to make the killer relax and not flee. They are probably watching every move of the husband and older son, but I do think it could be a scorned lover or psycho she brought home.

This woman was juggling men. Prolific cheater. Quite possible one of the guys she was seeing found out she was banging someone else--or it was a bad breakup. Or, yeah, she went out to find a lay and unwittingly brought home a pyschopath.

No where does it say that. People will go to great lengths to overlook the obvious fact her killer was likely her teen.

I mean it can be both. I personally think the teen boy killed his mom because he was disgusted she came home drunk from a hook-up while his father was being a good parent and escorting his brother across the country. A boy can only take so much knowing his mom is an unfaithful wife and partner to the parent he actually cares about.

Nah. Kids don't care about that. If he killed her (and I'm not convinced he did) it woul be to do with her taking away his electronics or something of that nature.

Kids get upset at broken homes all the time - what are you talking about? If I knew my mother was cheating on my father and it would upend my life - at 13 I’d be worried about having to share my allowance, bedroom, parents attention - I would totally let irrational anger and fear take over.

This is one of the sickest things I read on DCUM. I hope you are properly medicated.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How could she leave a 13 year old alone at night. Something is off here.
No way, my 13 year old would stay home alone at night.

Because she wanted to get laid. I know a mother that did stuff like this. Also lives in a million home+ and has the “perfect mom” image. She is truthfully very manipulative abs a pathological liar. She believes her own lies.

If your 13 year can't stay home alone for a night, then you have failed as a parent. I was staying home alone for entire weekends at that age because I didn't want to go camping w/ the rest of the family. It was awesome--I loved having the house to myself--and we lived in a rural area w/o 911 service and nowhere to walk to.

Such a strange response. Not a matter of whether a 13 year old *can* stay home alone, but why any responsible parent would do so overnight without good reason. To hang out in a bar by yourself?

I co-parent and my ex often leaves my 13 year old home alone while he goes on dates (online dating)
I know he comes home by 11 but it creeps me out and also annoys me that he has his week off every other week
and still needs to do that and I’m sure brags how he is the best dad and loved his kids

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

And he certainly wouldn’t encourage to stay out until the wee hours of the morning with a 7th grader at home. She wasn’t even meeting up with the guy (or potential date) until almost midnight, and then it would be a few more hours.

[Anonymous]

“She was also in contact with three men on the night before her death, law enforcement sources added.“

This sounds like online dating or escort thing. Particularly because she sent the husband out of town on college tours and had the night “free” of him.

My ex used to arrange her trysts Thursday nights or confirm the day prior.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I keep thinking about how her husband is mourning his wife's death, and at the same time, learning about her affairs.

He may have known about them and encouraged her. It happens way more often than you think.

Oh stop it. That is not a common thing.

He called the cops when she stayed out all night with a man awhile back because he didn’t know where she was. That is not a sign of encouraging her infidelities.

He might have been believing all her bullsh@t gaslighting and now it’s real. It’s quite possible they dealt with it and she swore she had changed. The kid was with her Friday night which is how a lot of couples recovering from infidelity work-don’t leave the cheater home alone or go on trips alone when rebuilding.

If their kids did not know, this is now another thing they will deal with since it’s all over the news in addition to the horror of her death. And if it was a lover that killed her they will have additional trauma.

He was a trader. I'm in the industry and pretty much everyone is ruthless, so he probably knew and they probably had an open relationship. Divorce at their income is $$$. She did not deserve to die. There are some unmedicated cheated wives here who are gleeful about this poor woman being killed because she had affairs. Add the xenophobia about being pretty and Eastern European. I hope you feel better now about sitting on your fat and frigid American a** and feeling all righteous.