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Totally agree. I also don't get the sense that Harper is anywhere near as enthralled with having the "big" money they now have. It sounds like she grew up working class in Puerto Rico and is still very tight with her family there (if they spent their honeymoon there). She's now a lawyer at a large firm which gives her financial security plus plenty of the nice things in life -- cute clothes, vacations. I think Harper would be happy with her UMC lifestyle and nothing more. But the thing about Daphne/Cameron that did provoke jealousy was how affectionate they are and how much fun they seem to be having. I do actually think that Harper was right about them in some ways. We see at different times that to some degree, that is a show they put on for themselves and others. We know that Daphne definitely has some strong negative feelings about the cheating and also just how absent her husband sometimes is, but she finds different ways to bury them down deep and enjoy the good stuff about her marriage. And that scene with Cam flossing indicates that he's got some of his own issues that he does a very good job of glossing over. My personal opinion is that this will work out for a Daphne/Cam couple for a while but that eventually it won't anymore. My experience in life is that at some point you have to deal with the stuff underneath, no matter how good you get at shoving it down. It will happen when you are no longer quite so young and hot and you don't command the same attention you used to, or when your career takes an unfortunate left turn, or when your kids get older and need you less, or when your parents die, or when you get sick or injured and have to confront your own mortality. I've seen it happen many times. Cam and Daphne have worked something out. For now. |
Jack's story was actually a much more realistic portrayal of prostitution |
lol. She's a practicing lawyer and she was bullying and humiliating him while eating with friends (she had never met). Even when her and Ethan first met years back, he was a Yale graduate and a tech founder (he just hadn't yet cashed in), hardly some piker. It's akin to dating a 5-star basketball player at Duke and acting like you met him before he became a rich NBA player, so you were with him for genuine reasons.
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I disagree because I think the trope about how prostitutes, and beautiful young women generally, always get "punished" for the sin of profiting off sex was written by men to begin with. I'm not a big fan of prostitution or anything, but I absolutely know enough about history to know that men in positions of power within churches and government have long sought to convince young women that they should not utilize their sexuality for their own ends. That this is immoral or damning. That it victimizes them. But really it's just that weak old men recognize that like the DiGrasso men, they all have "Achilles dicks" and that if hot young women figure this out, they are in trouble. I did not find Mike White's take on this to be misogynist or unrealistic. |
+1 |
Harper does not bully or humiliate him. At any point. Cam does, though (the "original incel" comment, for instance). |
I see it working for Cameron/Daphne, at least for a while, but not for Harper/Ethan. The games have spiced up Ethan and Harper's marriage temporarily, but they don't thrive on drama and deception like Cameron and Daphne do. Cameron and Daphne both seem to find some fun in the drama, even if they also get a little angry/hurt as well. In contrast, Ethan became almost homicidal over Harper kissing Cameron and Harper just seemed depressed by Ethan's lies about the prostitution night. Neither of those two is going to be happy long-term with that situation. |
Bullying and humiliating him? What are you talking about? Because she didn't act fun with his douchey friends? Also, the majority of tech guys never make it big - they are comfortable but not multi-millionaires. He was far from an NBA prospect This is weird projection IMO and you have issues with women |
Harper is my age. When we entered the work force, Law + Banking were predominately run by men, arguably still are. Some of the survival skills like being direct have gotten us far in holding a job in a competitive field but those traits weren't perceived as attractive/traditionally feminine like Isabella. I am used to tell people "do this and that by when" to get the work results I wanted, but my DH had soooo much issue when I act this way around his family/at a restaurant. He thinks a woman asking for things/attention/resources upfront is considered disrespectful. |
Harper repeatedly bullied and humiliated her husband publicly and was cruel and passive-aggressive to his college friend(s) as soon as she met them. My husband's a porn addict, my husband won't impregnate me, my husband won't have sex with me, my husband is addicted to work. She disclosed all of this to people she just met. Oh she did it in a "sarcastic" way; yeah right, that's what cruel people hide behind as they're bullying you. Then when she heard Cam was the alpha dog going back 20 years creeping around Ethan's crushes, which made Ethan deeply insecure, she used that to her advantage to push more of her husband's buttons. She was psychologically messing with his head the entire trip. Ethan was Harper's mark, Ethan was also Cameron/Daphney's mark. |
I agree with this. |
So Harper is just an altruistic corporate lawyer? Imagine believing this nonsense. She's a corporate shake-down artist. She's in a sexless marriage with an autistic weirdo because HE'S FILTHY RICH, period. |
Albie didn't know that his father slept with Lucia, so he wasn't really lying since his father did have some moments of self-examination and clarity. |
I completely discount the arguments of anyone with such atrocious grammar. |
So what is the theory here? That she acted like a jerk to her husband in order to - what? Get him to cheat on her? Which gets her what? I don't understand what you think Harper's big scheme was here. She was a pill to his friends (though they richly deserved it) and she's kind of sarcastic/rude. That doesn't mean she's some master puppeteer running a scam. She had a pretty normal marriage that got blown up by money and lies and Daphne and Cameron |