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Anonymous wrote:OP here - she dropped the case 2 weeks before the court date. She wants my husband to pay for the the motion to drop. He is. She wants him to pay the balance on her attorney fees. Her husband will remain the legal parent and raise the child. This is what he wanted to do all along according to FB messages I was sent early on.
My son and daughter were told we are divorcing. My 15 year old son was told of the possibility of a half sibling (reality is, he heard the fighting and already knew). His response was , "I don't have a half sibling. That kid is nothing to me. ***** is my sister (if you don't remember, she is adopted)"
My soon to be ex's lawyer felt it was 50/50. The bottom line is the best interest of the child. My husband hasn't seen the child in 6 months and this man has raised the child for 2 1/2 years. The fact that they were not divorcing but she wanted to switch paternity might not have stood well with some judges.
Next court date is my divorce. This one will not be cancelled. We are seeing a counselor to help us help our kids and both kids are in counseling. My son is beyond furious with his dad.
For all you that will come critize, judge and call me a troll, move on to another post. I have done the best I could in a difficult situation. I am still trying to do the best I can. Yes, I did make mistakes due to extreme anger (Christmas decorations) but I am supporting my kids and want them to love and have a great relationship with their dad (even though I want to kill him). It has been a long two years and I just want to move on with my life with the least amount of damage to my children and myself.
Sounds like your son has as much hate in his heart as you do. Shocking.
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