How old were you when you first had sex?

[Anonymous]

14 y.o. just shy of 15 y.o. with my first love who was the same age. We had been dating for a year and we were in love. We used a condom. We broke up about 5 months after that. Honestly the sex was not great but I loved him and I love the memory of him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:9 and no I don't talk to any of them anymore.

Were you gang raped? You don't have to answer that if you don't want to. Sorry this happened to you.

No. I was abused by family members. No need to feel sorry for me I had a messed up childhood, but I have moved on. I cut my family off years ago, and my life is good.

[Anonymous]

17. I think I'm still friends with him on FB? Haven't looked in years (I'm 29)

[Anonymous]

25 and I married him. While I feel glad on some level, because we were each other's firsts (and only!), I do regret now not having done more with others before him. It would have been harder if I had had significantly more experience than him (as it was, my handful of boyfriends far exceeded his one barely girlfriend), but for my sake I wish I had had more varied experiences. It just never felt right.

[Anonymous]

24, didn't marry him, lost touch long ago. Not religious or particularly uptight, it just kind of worked out that way.

[Anonymous]

30. It was our wedding night, and yes, we're still together (and married). I don't regret waiting that long.

[Anonymous]

22

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?

I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!

Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm impressed by those of you who waited so long--until 20s / marriage. Are you religious?

I am not impressed. You guys missed out on some good times!

Along with probably a lot of STDs and emotional trauma! I'm not one of them who waited, but I do admire them very much, especially the ones who waited until marriage or at least until the one they ended up marrying. There's something special about giving yourself completely to each other and nobody else.

+1

Yeah, I didn't miss out on anything except the stress of waiting on my period. I'm perfectly happy with my decision (the 30 year old PP who waited).

[Anonymous]

18 I see him around town every couple of years. His wife HATES me, LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:15, a month shy of 16. He was my first love and it was actually pretty good - lots of foreplay beforehand! No regrets. No emotional trauma. Not in touch with him now.

+1

But we are in touch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:30. It was our wedding night, and yes, we're still together (and married). I don't regret waiting that long.

Was he a virgin too?

How long were you together before getting married?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:30. It was our wedding night, and yes, we're still together (and married). I don't regret waiting that long.

I am friends with 2 other women, very attractive, great people, where the same thing happened for them. Not my story but I always admired it. And so glad stories like this exist too.

[Anonymous]

17 with a prostitute in Amsterdam.

[Anonymous]

15. He was a senior and I was a Sophomore. I was not his first. I was devastated when we broke up after about 8 months. I thought it meant we would get married.

Like a PP, I had a pretty screwed up abusive childhood with self esteem issues. I still have them, but no longer about sex, thank heavens. I have no idea what happened to him after he graduated from high school. Someone may have told me they saw him a few years later, when I was at college. Obviously not in touch.