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Exactly! This is the type of thing that needs to be taught. But these kids were instead taught not to learn the lesson. Please tell me what employers want employees who need extra time to complete tasks. They don't exist, and you denied your kids part of the education they were supposed to receive. |
Me too, and I'd like to add that for most careers, book smarts only get you so far. |
It’s almost like 45 minute, timed, closed book exams don’t remotely reflect the vast majority of working environments. |
Right, and the other part is you actually need to use your book smarts and be functional and productive at work; meet deadlines, multitask, stay focused amid multiple distractions and problems that come up. Work isn’t going to give the accommodations your 503 plan gave you for your adhd and anxiety. |
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All the families I know who go to the most in-demand privates here in DC have kids with accommodation. For anxiety. GMAFB.
But it's just one of many many ways that the wealthy game the education system to protect their own. |
Half my kids’ sports team has accommodations for ADD/ADHD; all of them are wealthy and at private schools or high performing publics. Before they went on medication none of them were having significant academic or behavior problems, but now they get extra time on school work and if they do misbehave their parents immediately point to the ADD/ADHD as an excuse. |
I see this at my DC's private school. So many kids in his grade have accomodations and tutors for almost all subjects to maintain their almost perfect GPAs. Its pretty disgusting because tutors help write papers while my kid has to compete with these tutor written papers. When I see resumes from kids from top schools I no longer assume they are smart. |
| "Collar, the University of Chicago physics professor, said that part of what his exams are designed to assess is the ability to solve problems in a certain amount of time. But now many of his students are in a separate room, with time and a half or even double the allotted time to complete the test. “I feel for the students who are not taking advantage of this,” he told me. “We have a two-speed student population.” |
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I've seen this play out with 3 kids who went through a local top private school. The third is currently a senior.
The school is very rigorous: lots of homework, grade deflation. The top 20% of the class doesn't have accommodations. They are really, really bright kids. They can keep up with the work, even when it gets more challenging and despite taking the most rigorous classes. The kids beneath this start to struggle in high school, especially in 10th grade and up. They can't keep up with the top achievers, they start getting more B+s, they drown under the homework, they're not happy. Then BAM: The college admissions process starts and their parents have their first look at what their kid's college prospects are, given their grades. Panic ensues and these kids get taken to a psychologist for an evaluation and end up with extra time for "anxiety." And yes, they are genuinely anxious because they're way in over the heads at school and have parents who have unrealistic expectations. And COLLEGE STRESS LOOMS. Some of this cohort will end up getting extra time with the College Board for the SAT, etc. Some will not. All will try. However, in the end, the top 20% will get the Ivy spots and this next cohort will end up at schools in the next few deciles because ultimately, all this intervention in 10th or 11th grade is too little, too late. I have seen this exact process happen with 3 kids over the span of 8 years. Probably a dozen kids each time. |
I've seen this happen a lot too, especially in wealthy families, however I disagree that kids with accommodations are somehow outside of the top 20%. When you see Stanford reporting 38% with disabilities, you know a fair number of them had extra time on their tests and were awarded with admission to Stanford. |
I agree. I see that some in top 20% at our private also have accomodations. |
| The problem with accommodations becoming so widespread is that everyone starts to feel like a sucker if they *don't* have an accommodation. It's like an arms race. |
Yeah, the PP’s anecdote is off base. Ivy schools and top 10 schools, per the article, are reporting anywhere from 20-40% of their student body have accommodations for “disabilities” so obviously they are getting in |
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I wonder next time when a parent brags about their kids' SAT scores, would they mention accommodation?
My supersmart kid got 1570+ in one sitting with extended accommodations! |
Students get those order to get AC or their own rooms once they are there. My son’s dorm mate wanted a single sophomore year and dad is a doctor…bingo. |