How much did you sleep around in college?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:many partners (more than 3 before marriage) is a sign of a mental disease most likely bi-polar. Prevalent in women who sleep around a lot.


What’s the source of this valuable information? Your ass?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:many partners (more than 3 before marriage) is a sign of a mental disease most likely bi-polar. Prevalent in women who sleep around a lot.



As women I think we tend to forget that a small percentage of men are having most of the sex. Women of average attractiveness have greater access to sexual partners (which doesn’t mean good sex or skilled lovers.) Some comments in this forum really reveal a surprising amount of male naïveté amidst the misogyny.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:many partners (more than 3 before marriage) is a sign of a mental disease most likely bi-polar. Prevalent in women who sleep around a lot.


What’s the source of this valuable information? Your ass?


Source is DCUM Troll & Sock Puppeteer. Half of this thread.
Anonymous
wtf here said 5 different partners a year for 20 years is normal?!

Normal for what? Not relationship material.
Anonymous
I fooled around and slept with quite a few guys in my 20’s. I am very attractive (hot according to guys and my husband) and I have no regrets. I had a lot of fun and led an exciting life.
Anonymous
The best part about these threads is being graced by the attendance of the "old, single, angry 'you-don't-know jacksh*t-about-women-and-sex' lady.

She reminds me of my Aunt Carole, doling out tips on cohabitating/domestic load distribution etc..... while perpetually single, childless, and filthy rich from inheritance. She lived alone her entire in a life huge old house in Middleburg. Not even a cat.

She didn't know sh*t about sh*t. If she were around today, she'd be a worldclass blowhard loudmouth with a lifetime subscription to be a punk on the internet.

Anonymous
People in the DMV are very prude. Hot girls and hot guys want to get it on. Most of you are not so could never understand. Too many uptight unattractive wonen here and beta males to get it.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:3 in college. I was too busy on my studies.

After I graduated and immediately started making decent money, then the pace really picked up, and I slept with a lot more college girls then. I think I was up to about 150 before I met DW and settled down.


Lol. How’s that working out for you? Why are you on DCUM?


Wut? Killing time on a forum = bad marriage? Ok!
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?
Anonymous
Correct, most people care about the body count and values of who they’re sleeping with.

Thats fine with everyone that you don’t. But it doesn’t change the fact that the vast majority of people do.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


Because women are receiving partners in sex and in much higher risk than men. It’s actually not hygienic and very risky to sleep around particular large metropolitan areas
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


Because women are receiving partners in sex and in much higher risk than men. It’s actually not hygienic and very risky to sleep around particular large metropolitan areas


Thanks for chiming in again with some more made up nonsense and completely moving the goal posts to bolster your nonexisting point
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.


I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?


I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”


To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.
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