How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.


That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!


Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.


As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.


Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.


What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.


Love how you keep leaving out the high annual body count.

Gang bang trains are so moral. And consensual! What’s the record of that recent woman again in a day? Line out the door, men all fluffed up….


LOVE how angry it gets you that women can be sex positive without giving a f*ck what you think!!! Makes my day that you have to completely make shit up because there is no logic behind anything you're saying. Think about how many women love sex, have no hang-ups about it, have plenty of it, and none of us want to sleep with YOU. Such a sad little elf.

No one’s angry here but you.

I am a woman who has had and continues to have lots of sex.
Just not causally or with 50, 60, 70, 100, 200, 500 different people like you keep touting.

And no, I don’t want to sleep with any men or women with high body counts and lack of connection.

So we would never match up in the first place.
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So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.


That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!


Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.


As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.


Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.


What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.


Love how you keep leaving out the high annual body count.

Gang bang trains are so moral. And consensual! What’s the record of that recent woman again in a day? Line out the door, men all fluffed up….


LOVE how angry it gets you that women can be sex positive without giving a f*ck what you think!!! Makes my day that you have to completely make shit up because there is no logic behind anything you're saying. Think about how many women love sex, have no hang-ups about it, have plenty of it, and none of us want to sleep with YOU. Such a sad little elf.

No one’s angry here but you.

I am a woman who has had and continues to have lots of sex.
Just not causally or with 50, 60, 70, 100, 200, 500 different people like you keep touting.

And no, I don’t want to sleep with any men or women with high body counts and lack of connection.

So we would never match up in the first place.


Sure, you're not angry. Is that why you equated gang bangs with casual sex? Totally well-adjusted and rational opinion.

I dont give a shit how many men you slept with and you shouldn't worry about me. Deal?
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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.
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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.


Lol!
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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.
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Anonymous wrote:3 in college. I was too busy on my studies.

After I graduated and immediately started making decent money, then the pace really picked up, and I slept with a lot more college girls then. I think I was up to about 150 before I met DW and settled down.


Lol. How’s that working out for you? Why are you on DCUM?
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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


You sure do show your “standards.”
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Anonymous wrote:3 in college. I was too busy on my studies.

After I graduated and immediately started making decent money, then the pace really picked up, and I slept with a lot more college girls then. I think I was up to about 150 before I met DW and settled down.


150 in how many years post college? Were they coming for threesomes why so many? Are women really that different that it's worth time for a professional man to discover so many?


He’s either lying or disgusting.
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Anonymous wrote:3 in college. I was too busy on my studies.

After I graduated and immediately started making decent money, then the pace really picked up, and I slept with a lot more college girls then. I think I was up to about 150 before I met DW and settled down.


150 in how many years post college? Were they coming for threesomes why so many? Are women really that different that it's worth time for a professional man to discover so many?


He’s either lying or disgusting.
Most good looking men in college probably get their numbers past 150 by the time they graduate
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Anonymous wrote:If at all.


A ton. Good times.
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Anonymous wrote:3 in college. I was too busy on my studies.

After I graduated and immediately started making decent money, then the pace really picked up, and I slept with a lot more college girls then. I think I was up to about 150 before I met DW and settled down.


150 in how many years post college? Were they coming for threesomes why so many? Are women really that different that it's worth time for a professional man to discover so many?


He’s either lying or disgusting.
Most good looking men in college probably get their numbers past 150 by the time they graduate


Wrong
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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.


It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.


So I don’t sleep with you.


Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.


You sure do show your “standards.”


Oh I do. You’re just too simple to understand.
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many partners (more than 3 before marriage) is a sign of a mental disease most likely bi-polar. Prevalent in women who sleep around a lot.
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