How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

The majority of neither sexes sleep around much.

It’s a subsegment of each sex that is sleazy and loose.

And of the 40% of the population that even goes to college, the 60% that does not has got you beat with the sleazy sex. Though many of those women bow out due to 2-4 kids with different daddies.

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Anonymous wrote:Man, this thread could’ve been so cool…a bunch of middle aged women’s talking about screwing in college. Instead it got hijacked, oh well.

Loved my college boyfriend!
In the shower, on two spring breaks, multiple times a day, on the airplane, in the dorm, moved off campus, exploring Boston, both summa cum laude, trips to Maine and Montreal, onward & upward to med school or NyC job.

Those were the days. Too bad we were only 20 & 22, different religions and his dad hated that.

Grad school love not so bad either. Still going!

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

You are one of the dumbest and most dishonest people I have ever encountered on here. You are spreading this idiocy that there is some kind of a differnt standard for men because of tostesterone. Men can screw around because they can’t possibly control themselves, but if a woman has the same urges she is a whore. How ignorant!!! If it’s ok for men to screw around the same is true for women. Women don’t need a reason or special permission to be sexual and to enjoy sex. You are the one setting women behind with this ridiculous, ignorant nonsense.

NP here.
Your ignorance is unbelievable. Perhaps your feminist beliefs are clouding your judgment. Men and women are fundamentally different and always will be.

Women face far greater consequences if they screw around compared to men.
A girl realizes early on that an unplanned pregnancy can completely change her life. The boy can just walk away from it. She cannot.

Screwing around poses more risks for women, and they have learned to steer clear of it.

If you are telling your daughters that it's acceptable to screw around, you are a monster.

Sure. Most of it is stigma that assh0les like you keep perpetuating. You excuse men screwing around with your made up science about morning wood and hormones, but women apparently have no hormones or sexual desires of their own.

This whole thing got started when posters, as predicted, kept calling women who have had many partners whores and gross.

If you want to talk about STDs talk about it for both men and women. If you want to talk about men not taking responsibly for pregnancies they create, I’m willing to have that conversation. What I refuse to do is perpetuate the nonsense that women are not sexual beings, call them whores, loose, gross because we DARE behave in the same way that men do.

Pls stop your nonsense posts.

Men and women enjoy sex.

Men and women who “enjoy” sex with many many different partners each year are sleazy and are putting their (and others’) physical and mental health at risk.

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Anonymous wrote:Man, this thread could’ve been so cool…a bunch of middle aged women’s talking about screwing in college. Instead it got hijacked, oh well.

It’s all one Troll playing both sides every 30 mins. Lame.

If that’s what you need to tell yourself. I’m very much a woman talking to both men and women.

You cray cray and stoopid.

Start ur own thread.

This thread is about Sleeping Around in College.

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

You are one of the dumbest and most dishonest people I have ever encountered on here. You are spreading this idiocy that there is some kind of a differnt standard for men because of tostesterone. Men can screw around because they can’t possibly control themselves, but if a woman has the same urges she is a whore. How ignorant!!! If it’s ok for men to screw around the same is true for women. Women don’t need a reason or special permission to be sexual and to enjoy sex. You are the one setting women behind with this ridiculous, ignorant nonsense.

Most people are not screwing around in college and their 20s with tons of different people as much as you keep falsely claiming. It’s a small subculture of loose women and feral males.

+1

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Anonymous wrote:Why are you asking without offering your own story? Seems like AI collecting data.

+1 all these surveys in this forums are really annoying.

Yes. Lame

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

You are one of the dumbest and most dishonest people I have ever encountered on here. You are spreading this idiocy that there is some kind of a differnt standard for men because of tostesterone. Men can screw around because they can’t possibly control themselves, but if a woman has the same urges she is a whore. How ignorant!!! If it’s ok for men to screw around the same is true for women. Women don’t need a reason or special permission to be sexual and to enjoy sex. You are the one setting women behind with this ridiculous, ignorant nonsense.

NP here.
Your ignorance is unbelievable. Perhaps your feminist beliefs are clouding your judgment. Men and women are fundamentally different and always will be.

Women face far greater consequences if they screw around compared to men.
A girl realizes early on that an unplanned pregnancy can completely change her life. The boy can just walk away from it. She cannot.

Screwing around poses more risks for women, and they have learned to steer clear of it.

If you are telling your daughters that it's acceptable to screw around, you are a monster.

Sure. Most of it is stigma that assh0les like you keep perpetuating. You excuse men screwing around with your made up science about morning wood and hormones, but women apparently have no hormones or sexual desires of their own.

This whole thing got started when posters, as predicted, kept calling women who have had many partners whores and gross.

If you want to talk about STDs talk about it for both men and women. If you want to talk about men not taking responsibly for pregnancies they create, I’m willing to have that conversation. What I refuse to do is perpetuate the nonsense that women are not sexual beings, call them whores, loose, gross because we DARE behave in the same way that men do.

Pls stop your nonsense posts.

Men and women enjoy sex.

Men and women who “enjoy” sex with many many different partners each year are sleazy and are putting their (and others’) physical and mental health at risk.

Nope. I won’t stop as long as you keep coming back with your made up horseshit.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Man, this thread could’ve been so cool…a bunch of middle aged women’s talking about screwing in college. Instead it got hijacked, oh well.

It’s all one Troll playing both sides every 30 mins. Lame.

If that’s what you need to tell yourself. I’m very much a woman talking to both men and women.

You cray cray and stoopid.

Start ur own thread.

This thread is about Sleeping Around in College.

Learn how to spell and I might take you seriously. Until then, eff off.

[Anonymous]

The longer I live the less convinced I am that god is hung up on promiscuity.

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

You are one of the dumbest and most dishonest people I have ever encountered on here. You are spreading this idiocy that there is some kind of a differnt standard for men because of tostesterone. Men can screw around because they can’t possibly control themselves, but if a woman has the same urges she is a whore. How ignorant!!! If it’s ok for men to screw around the same is true for women. Women don’t need a reason or special permission to be sexual and to enjoy sex. You are the one setting women behind with this ridiculous, ignorant nonsense.

NP here.
Your ignorance is unbelievable. Perhaps your feminist beliefs are clouding your judgment. Men and women are fundamentally different and always will be.

Women face far greater consequences if they screw around compared to men.
A girl realizes early on that an unplanned pregnancy can completely change her life. The boy can just walk away from it. She cannot.

Screwing around poses more risks for women, and they have learned to steer clear of it.

If you are telling your daughters that it's acceptable to screw around, you are a monster.

Sure. Most of it is stigma that assh0les like you keep perpetuating. You excuse men screwing around with your made up science about morning wood and hormones, but women apparently have no hormones or sexual desires of their own.

This whole thing got started when posters, as predicted, kept calling women who have had many partners whores and gross.

If you want to talk about STDs talk about it for both men and women. If you want to talk about men not taking responsibly for pregnancies they create, I’m willing to have that conversation. What I refuse to do is perpetuate the nonsense that women are not sexual beings, call them whores, loose, gross because we DARE behave in the same way that men do.

Pls stop your nonsense posts.

Men and women enjoy sex.

Men and women who “enjoy” sex with many many different partners each year are sleazy and are putting their (and others’) physical and mental health at risk.

Nope. I won’t stop as long as you keep coming back with your made up horseshit.

Many different sexual partners a year = Sleazy

In every country, culture, religion and region of the world.

No horseshit here Horseshit Lady.

Even one bender year is probably sleazy too, and may have lasting consequences one’s physical or mental health.

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Anonymous wrote:Not at all, sadly. Just one BF. Now I wish I had sown some oats.

You mean you wish dozens of creepy drunk poli-sci majors had soiled your oats.

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Anonymous wrote:Man, this thread could’ve been so cool…a bunch of middle aged women’s talking about screwing in college. Instead it got hijacked, oh well.

Loved my college boyfriend!
In the shower, on two spring breaks, multiple times a day, on the airplane, in the dorm, moved off campus, exploring Boston, both summa cum laude, trips to Maine and Montreal, onward & upward to med school or NyC job.

Those were the days. Too bad we were only 20 & 22, different religions and his dad hated that.

Grad school love not so bad either. Still going!

Summa in Trampology. You go, girl!

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

You are one of the dumbest and most dishonest people I have ever encountered on here. You are spreading this idiocy that there is some kind of a differnt standard for men because of tostesterone. Men can screw around because they can’t possibly control themselves, but if a woman has the same urges she is a whore. How ignorant!!! If it’s ok for men to screw around the same is true for women. Women don’t need a reason or special permission to be sexual and to enjoy sex. You are the one setting women behind with this ridiculous, ignorant nonsense.

NP here.
Your ignorance is unbelievable. Perhaps your feminist beliefs are clouding your judgment. Men and women are fundamentally different and always will be.

Women face far greater consequences if they screw around compared to men.
A girl realizes early on that an unplanned pregnancy can completely change her life. The boy can just walk away from it. She cannot.

Screwing around poses more risks for women, and they have learned to steer clear of it.

If you are telling your daughters that it's acceptable to screw around, you are a monster.

Sure. Most of it is stigma that assh0les like you keep perpetuating. You excuse men screwing around with your made up science about morning wood and hormones, but women apparently have no hormones or sexual desires of their own.

This whole thing got started when posters, as predicted, kept calling women who have had many partners whores and gross.

If you want to talk about STDs talk about it for both men and women. If you want to talk about men not taking responsibly for pregnancies they create, I’m willing to have that conversation. What I refuse to do is perpetuate the nonsense that women are not sexual beings, call them whores, loose, gross because we DARE behave in the same way that men do.

Pls stop your nonsense posts.

Men and women enjoy sex.

Men and women who “enjoy” sex with many many different partners each year are sleazy and are putting their (and others’) physical and mental health at risk.

Nope. I won’t stop as long as you keep coming back with your made up horseshit.

Many different sexual partners a year = Sleazy

In every country, culture, religion and region of the world.

No horseshit here Horseshit Lady.

Even one bender year is probably sleazy too, and may have lasting consequences one’s physical or mental health.

Who gives a shit about your or any other religion? How you feel about other people having sex has no relevance.

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Oh yeah, nothing is hotter than stories about acne-faced undergrads & premature happy endings!

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.

Oh, honey, I have standards. You’d never get a chance.

By definition it's impossible to have high standard of selecting partners if you sleep with hundreds without even knowing their personality, if they are jerks or good people. I find sex is the best when there are feelings towards my partner. I slept with 11 men in a lifetime (which I don't think is a low number), but each of them was meaningful. Each was amazing in their own way, I learned something from them or about myself from those relationships, they became a catalyst for my future life, goals setting, even career. I remember every day spent with each of them
I guest some women just value sex on its' own, but to me it's just bumping uglies if no connection.

I love how you admit to whoring around but think that your number is appropriate and good but someone who has had more partners is has no standards and is bad. Also, who said anything about 100s. Why do you people have the need to make shit up to tear someone down?

I don’t care how you have sex or any you need some magical connection. I don’t care how many partners you had. Apparently you did what you wanted to satisfy your needs. Why are you so stupid that you can’t extend the same courtesy to others?

I was in relationships with all these men and slept only if I felt a relationship was building up. I avoid people who disconnect sex from emotions - they are just different people with different values that I don’t understand. Particular for women given HPV, herpes etc transmit even with condoms . I understand these women exist but feel same as I would to someone who smokes or overeats. It is a risky sexual behavior
And no, 11 partners in a lifetime from 19 to late 40s is nowhere closer to “whoring”

To someone that has only had one partner of course it is whoring. It’s just an arbitrary number that you are ok with because you excused your behavior as pure and good. 11 and 30 is no different in any practical sense. It’s just that your number is 11 so that’s automatically good.

No that’s not what I meant. My response was to a PP woman poster who’s said she slept with 5+ men a year AND had high standards. It’s no way possible to get to know any man well if you keep up sleeping with so many people a year. I don’t know if there is a reasonable number but a busy professional woman simply has no time to date that many men and also know their values

agree, that amount of sleeping around points to no standards or discrepancy in partners. Plus devalues everything, including herself.

Luckily the loose types are easy to spot.

What I dislike about this poster as that she actually does a disservice to other women by her baseless chains and normalization of deviant sexual models. There are stats on sexual behaviors and the US average lifetime number of partners for a woman is 4.
I literally know zero women in my circle who had 75 partners. I’m probably the record holder with 11, and I consider myself as a pretty sexually active person though life

Oh brother! A disservice to women is horseshit that men are hormonaly driven to have sex so it’s ok to sleep around but women have no such desires so it’s deviant. You sound super dumb.

But that’s just the biological fact. Any woman who was on HTR with testosterone would feel the difference. And I didn’t sleep with only high paid men. Actually I was stating the opposite: if the woman sleeps with so many, income level , looks and height are pretty much her only “standards”
I stand by my statement and it’s confirmed by multiple studies that most women need mental connection to enjoy sex

Please post a study that confirms this horseshit than men have sold you and you bought.

You are the one writing BS here encouraging women to engage in behaviors not natural and even potentially dangerous to their sexual and mental health.
The male libido is stronger due to testosterone

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/

You are one of the dumbest and most dishonest people I have ever encountered on here. You are spreading this idiocy that there is some kind of a differnt standard for men because of tostesterone. Men can screw around because they can’t possibly control themselves, but if a woman has the same urges she is a whore. How ignorant!!! If it’s ok for men to screw around the same is true for women. Women don’t need a reason or special permission to be sexual and to enjoy sex. You are the one setting women behind with this ridiculous, ignorant nonsense.

NP here.
Your ignorance is unbelievable. Perhaps your feminist beliefs are clouding your judgment. Men and women are fundamentally different and always will be.

Women face far greater consequences if they screw around compared to men.
A girl realizes early on that an unplanned pregnancy can completely change her life. The boy can just walk away from it. She cannot.

Screwing around poses more risks for women, and they have learned to steer clear of it.

If you are telling your daughters that it's acceptable to screw around, you are a monster.

Sure. Most of it is stigma that assh0les like you keep perpetuating. You excuse men screwing around with your made up science about morning wood and hormones, but women apparently have no hormones or sexual desires of their own.

This whole thing got started when posters, as predicted, kept calling women who have had many partners whores and gross.

If you want to talk about STDs talk about it for both men and women. If you want to talk about men not taking responsibly for pregnancies they create, I’m willing to have that conversation. What I refuse to do is perpetuate the nonsense that women are not sexual beings, call them whores, loose, gross because we DARE behave in the same way that men do.

Pls stop your nonsense posts.

Men and women enjoy sex.

Men and women who “enjoy” sex with many many different partners each year are sleazy and are putting their (and others’) physical and mental health at risk.

Nope. I won’t stop as long as you keep coming back with your made up horseshit.

Not the prior posters but I always had a man waiting for me at home to f..k my in all crevices at night. Not sure why any sexual person needs to have counts in dozens to get quality sex at all times. I've had a lot of sex in my life.
I think if I slept if 70+ partners or with 5 men a year, I actually would have had less quality sex.