80% of women swipe on just 20% of men on dating apps

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Meet people in real life.

Younger men are not approaching women IRL anymore and about 1/2 of men have no interest in dating/hooking up.

My ds is 21 and they are certainly meeting people IRL.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

Have you met men? I have a friend who is an attractive, successful attorney in his late 30s. Currently dating a beautiful, successful attorney in her early 30s.

Prior to this, when he was single and had manchild tendencies in his 20s, he would go home with overweight women and single mothers given enough alcohol on a night out. He usually didn't, but if you caught him when he was horny and drunk enough, he would absolutely "bring himself down to banging 2s and 3s." Wasn't interested in dating them lol.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

Yes, that's called basic evolutionary biology, but he wouldn't know because he dropped out of community college before they got to that unit of science class.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:5’8 woman here . My best relationship post divorce was with an Asian man who was 5’7. It’s unbelievable how my dates react when I tell them. Jokes ranging from outright racist to small d..k. All men talked then him but none of them were even close to him by sharpness, professional achievements. emotional intelligence, worldly cultural and travel experience.

What is it with men shitting on shorter exes? I dated a guy who found out the guy I dated before him was 5'6" (he was 5'11") and would be like, omg that's dysgenic, you're pretty, you don't have to date short men. I was like, uh....maybe he had a good personality and was confident in himself regardless of height?

Like, if height is so important...you're taller. You already won, by your own stupid made-up metric.

In my experience the guys who are the most proud of their height or any other physical trait are losers in most other aspects of life. Like once you've hit your late 20's and 30's you should be thinking more about your achievements rather than how long your limbs are compared to other people. It's similar to the folks who brag about their IQ, only people with zero achievements care about this.

[Anonymous]

Men would f*** a microwave burrito.

Dick is abundant and worthless. So much so, that men have to PAY women to take it. Men will literally f*** anyone, doesn’t mean they’re worth settling for.

PP, you post the truth. The problem is that you do not see its application here.

On DCUM, the microwave burritos can (and very often do) post.

And they post incessantly about how they cannot find a man who meets their needs, how they will not settle for just anybody, how hot they (and other women) are, etc. While these burriots believe they deserve a "top tier" man, they do not have what it takes to get one. Often, the issue is that at some point in the past, a top-tier man f***ed them, giving them the mistaken impression that they were a "hot chick" instead of a "hot burrito."

If you do not want to settle, don't. Also, do not make the mistake that you are a hot girl wading through droves of unsuitable men. You are the microwave burrito. Otherwise, a hot guy would already have found you.

[Anonymous]

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Men would f*** a microwave burrito.

Dick is abundant and worthless. So much so, that men have to PAY women to take it. Men will literally f*** anyone, doesn’t mean they’re worth settling for.

PP, you post the truth. The problem is that you do not see its application here.

On DCUM, the microwave burritos can (and very often do) post.

And they post incessantly about how they cannot find a man who meets their needs, how they will not settle for just anybody, how hot they (and other women) are, etc. While these burriots believe they deserve a "top tier" man, they do not have what it takes to get one. Often, the issue is that at some point in the past, a top-tier man f***ed them, giving them the mistaken impression that they were a "hot chick" instead of a "hot burrito."

If you do not want to settle, don't. Also, do not make the mistake that you are a hot girl wading through droves of unsuitable men. You are the microwave burrito. Otherwise, a hot guy would already have found you.

If you actually read the posts here you would notice that most posts by women about finding a man, you would realize most posts are about finding a nice/successful man. No one is posting "How can I find a guy who is hot." Women aren't focused on looks the way you think they are. They just don't want to be married to a bitter loser like you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

That's the problem. They think a man who is a 2 or 3 is entitled to a 5 or 6, which is why they lament 5s and 6s going after 8s.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

I know we are not supposed to use the R-word anymore but I am trying very, very hard not to call you it right now.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a former Division I athlete now working in finance, I’ve found that I often attract attention from women. This was also true during college, where it wasn’t uncommon for multiple women to be interested in the same guy. Men in my position tend to have a lot of options when it comes to dating.

And yet you can’t actually lock down a woman. Hmm.

I'm not the Division I athlete. I'm guessing he spent most of his adult life not wanting to lock down anyone or be locked down by anyone. That's OK.

+1

Why would a man with options want to lock down a woman or be locked down by a woman? Show me a beautiful and I will show you a man tired of sleeping with her. The reason the divorce rate is so high in the US is because the vast majority of women don't marry their first choice because those guys have options, and they play the field.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a former Division I athlete now working in finance, I’ve found that I often attract attention from women. This was also true during college, where it wasn’t uncommon for multiple women to be interested in the same guy. Men in my position tend to have a lot of options when it comes to dating.

And yet you can’t actually lock down a woman. Hmm.

I'm not the Division I athlete. I'm guessing he spent most of his adult life not wanting to lock down anyone or be locked down by anyone. That's OK.

+1

Why would a man with options want to lock down a woman or be locked down by a woman? Show me a beautiful and I will show you a man tired of sleeping with her. The reason the divorce rate is so high in the US is because the vast majority of women don't marry their first choice because those guys have options, and they play the field.

Then don't complain about not being able to get women? Most women want to get married and have children, not settle for some f**kboy who plays the field.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:...If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

When women complain about not finding a man, they usually mean a man to date seriously and eventually get married to. They don't mean they can't find a man to have a ONS with tonight.

If that's what they're after, just show up to a bar on a Saturday night around midnight and she can probably find a man who will commit for one night. Not "any" man, but "a" man. So a female 4 is probably not going to get a 10 (who most likely isn't alone at the bar on a Saturday night), but she surely can get "a" man.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, men will sleep with almost any woman, while women are generally more picky about bed partners since pregnancy is a big risk to their life and long term well being. This is basic biology and hard wired into us, it’s not surprising that it manifests in all mating rituals.

No some men will sleep with any women. The percentage of men who will sleep with any woman is actually fairly small. If all men would sleep with any woman women would never complain about not finding a man. You could just go up to any man you wanted and he would sleep with you.

Men with options will only sleep with women above a certain level. If a guy's an 8 he's going to have a steady stream of 5's and 6's trying to get with him so there's no reason to bring himself down to banging 2's and 3's.

Men without options will sleep with nearly anyone if they've had a long enough dry spell and have a healthy sex drive.

It's weird how it's hard for you to admit that men who are "an 8" are likely dating women who are also "an 8." Like, you are really doubling down on "5s and 6s" chasing after these men.

I mean, look, I can't say because I don't believe you can quantify people's looks into a score, but I do think people naturally are drawn to equally good looking people.

It's always going to take more time and effort to casually sleep with women on your level than 1 or 2 leagues below you, which is why 8's sleep with 5's and 6's. It's not that they cant get 8's but the 6's are just easier and faster. You sound like you don't understand men (young men especially). Men love variety and aren't that picky with who they sleep with as long as she's semi attractive and he doesn't need to try too hard.

This is complete BS. The more attractive a woman is, the faster she will sleep with a man she likes. They don't care about holding out to figure out whether a man is in it for sex only and would not return. They are more confident that men cannot resist them and that the men will stay even if the have sex on the first date.

My most promiscous friend was movie star level attractive. Men were swarming and she was sleeping with them left and right. When she met one that was playing hard to get, she cconcluded that he most not like girls. It just never occurred to her that a man was not that into her.