80% of women swipe on just 20% of men on dating apps

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Men don’t know what women find attractive. All this 6/6/6 stuff is from men. If you look around, you see women dating and married to all sorts of men. Women will literally tell men what they’re into and men will call them liars. The men who listen to this Tate stuff are so dumb. Single men giving other single men on how to be attractive to? Other single men. They want you single and sad so you keep buying their grift.

Look up Hugh Jackman advertising to men vs women. Totally different.

That’s not true.

The 6-6-6-6 thing comes from statistical analysis of numerous dating apps. It’s pushed by social media influencers, many of whom are women.

And don’t forget Kamala Harris’ campaign creating the infamous “Don’t Get Popped” campaign ad: (google it).

That one was all her and her staff.

Nope. You’re wrong. It’s not statistical at all. If you use your eyes, look around and you’ll see it’s just not true. They are selling you a false narrative to keep you single and angry at women.

Statistics are lies?

I have never seen a legit source for the 6-6-6 rule that you all claim is true.

It clearly is not given the demographics and statistical makeup of this country. Only 17% of men in America are making over $100K and yet, 49% of American men are married. So, no, that's just not true that only men making over six figures are married.

And go to any grocery store or shopping mall on a Saturday and you will see plenty of couples where the husband is not 6'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t know what women find attractive. All this 6/6/6 stuff is from men. If you look around, you see women dating and married to all sorts of men. Women will literally tell men what they’re into and men will call them liars. The men who listen to this Tate stuff are so dumb. Single men giving other single men on how to be attractive to? Other single men. They want you single and sad so you keep buying their grift.

Look up Hugh Jackman advertising to men vs women. Totally different.

That’s not true.

The 6-6-6-6 thing comes from statistical analysis of numerous dating apps. It’s pushed by social media influencers, many of whom are women.

And don’t forget Kamala Harris’ campaign creating the infamous “Don’t Get Popped” campaign ad: (google it).

That one was all her and her staff.

Nope. You’re wrong. It’s not statistical at all. If you use your eyes, look around and you’ll see it’s just not true. They are selling you a false narrative to keep you single and angry at women.

Statistics are lies?

No statistics are real. Your statistics are made up. The real stats do not support what you’re asserting. So yeah, you’re wrong and you’re a liar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a former Division I athlete now working in finance, I’ve found that I often attract attention from women. This was also true during college, where it wasn’t uncommon for multiple women to be interested in the same guy. Men in my position tend to have a lot of options when it comes to dating.

And yet you can’t actually lock down a woman. Hmm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Men don’t know what women find attractive. All this 6/6/6 stuff is from men. If you look around, you see women dating and married to all sorts of men. Women will literally tell men what they’re into and men will call them liars. The men who listen to this Tate stuff are so dumb. Single men giving other single men on how to be attractive to? Other single men. They want you single and sad so you keep buying their grift.

Look up Hugh Jackman advertising to men vs women. Totally different.

That’s not true.

The 6-6-6-6 thing comes from statistical analysis of numerous dating apps. It’s pushed by social media influencers, many of whom are women.

And don’t forget Kamala Harris’ campaign creating the infamous “Don’t Get Popped” campaign ad: (google it).

That one was all her and her staff.

Nope. You’re wrong. It’s not statistical at all. If you use your eyes, look around and you’ll see it’s just not true. They are selling you a false narrative to keep you single and angry at women.

My favorite conversation I've ever had with an incel on DCUM was when a guy claimed women only date men over 6'. I said I dated a man who was 5'4" and was told "Whatever, enjoy your ladyboy." Like, you're mad when you think I only date tall men, you're mad when you find out I date short men (just not you).

Women will date short men who are nice and have good jobs. They do not want a loser regardless of height.

But men care sooo much about men’s mental health right? They care soo much that they call other men simps and lady boys. No one cares less about men’s mental health than other men.

Men aren’t lonely enough 🙄

They are mad that successful women who are educated and make six figures want a successful man who makes six figures, regardless of height. If it's about height they can whine and moan about how marriage is unattainable for any man under 6', when in reality plenty of 5'5"-5'11" men are getting married, it's just that they went to college and have good jobs and would be good fathers. As opposed to these guys who dropped out of DeVry university to complain about women online every day.

They claim there are morbidly obese women with bad jobs who feel entitled to 6'2", 180 pound investment bankers and yet that's exactly what they are. They are losers who feel entitled to successful women and choose to blame it on height.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm an older man and I swipe right on less than 20% of the women I see on dating apps.

When I was on the apps, it was less than one in twenty for me. I probably swiped right on one in fifty. I'm a divorced man in his 50s. I tend to swipe right on attractive and interesting women in their 40s and early 50s, mostly professionals or people with interesting hobbies or experiences. I'll also go for women in their 30s if they seem interesting and not focused on settling down and having kids. I went on some dates with women in their 60s too, but I'm not attracted very many of them. I had a couple of dates with women in their 20s, but they didn't amount to much.

Photos are important to me. I almost never find myself attracted to women with so-so photos after meeting them in real life. Sometimes I meet a woman with good photos and become very attracted after meeting in person, but usually the in-person meeting makes me less attracted to the person, since physical appearance is just the start. I don't end up in short term or long term relationships with women unless we are compatible in other ways.

If the 80/20 rule is real, I'm probably in the 20, but I doubt the rule is real. If the rule is real, then the 20 must include a wide variety of men. My experience tells me that lot's of women are looking for guys who are very different from me.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe men need to focus on self-improvement, health, their weight, appearance, good fashion, etc. just like women do.
In our society, females are largely trained from childhood that you have to look good to be noticed. Men gotta catch up if they want to be seen.

Yes, and those women need to decide on which cats to adopt.

Do you not see you’re burning yourself?

A woman would rather live with an animal who shits in a box than deal with you. And you’re making fun of her?! L-O-f***ing-L

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t know what women find attractive. All this 6/6/6 stuff is from men. If you look around, you see women dating and married to all sorts of men. Women will literally tell men what they’re into and men will call them liars. The men who listen to this Tate stuff are so dumb. Single men giving other single men on how to be attractive to? Other single men. They want you single and sad so you keep buying their grift.

Look up Hugh Jackman advertising to men vs women. Totally different.

That’s not true.

The 6-6-6-6 thing comes from statistical analysis of numerous dating apps. It’s pushed by social media influencers, many of whom are women.

And don’t forget Kamala Harris’ campaign creating the infamous “Don’t Get Popped” campaign ad: (google it).

That one was all her and her staff.

Nope. You’re wrong. It’s not statistical at all. If you use your eyes, look around and you’ll see it’s just not true. They are selling you a false narrative to keep you single and angry at women.

My favorite conversation I've ever had with an incel on DCUM was when a guy claimed women only date men over 6'. I said I dated a man who was 5'4" and was told "Whatever, enjoy your ladyboy." Like, you're mad when you think I only date tall men, you're mad when you find out I date short men (just not you).

Women will date short men who are nice and have good jobs. They do not want a loser regardless of height.

But men care sooo much about men’s mental health right? They care soo much that they call other men simps and lady boys. No one cares less about men’s mental health than other men.

Men aren’t lonely enough 🙄

Exactly. Btw, my 5'4" bf was an Ivy League educated big law attorney in his 30s and had no shortage of dates before me.

These men literally can't handle that women just want someone with a good personality and not a victim complex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a former Division I athlete now working in finance, I’ve found that I often attract attention from women. This was also true during college, where it wasn’t uncommon for multiple women to be interested in the same guy. Men in my position tend to have a lot of options when it comes to dating.

And yet you can’t actually lock down a woman. Hmm.

I'm not the Division I athlete. I'm guessing he spent most of his adult life not wanting to lock down anyone or be locked down by anyone. That's OK.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe men need to focus on self-improvement, health, their weight, appearance, good fashion, etc. just like women do.
In our society, females are largely trained from childhood that you have to look good to be noticed. Men gotta catch up if they want to be seen.

Yes, and those women need to decide on which cats to adopt.

Do you not see you’re burning yourself?

A woman would rather live with an animal who shits in a box than deal with you. And you’re making fun of her?! L-O-f***ing-L

Fwiw I am a woman who owns a cat AND I have a bf who is under 6'! He is 5'10". Quelle horreur! Another under 6' man coupled off.

But yeah, OP, the problem is definitely that you aren't 6'1". L-o-effing-l indeed.

[Anonymous]

5’8 woman here . My best relationship post divorce was with an Asian man who was 5’7. It’s unbelievable how my dates react when I tell them. Jokes ranging from outright racist to small d..k. All men talked then him but none of them were even close to him by sharpness, professional achievements. emotional intelligence, worldly cultural and travel experience.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:5’8 woman here . My best relationship post divorce was with an Asian man who was 5’7. It’s unbelievable how my dates react when I tell them. Jokes ranging from outright racist to small d..k. All men talked then him but none of them were even close to him by sharpness, professional achievements. emotional intelligence, worldly cultural and travel experience.

What is it with men shitting on shorter exes? I dated a guy who found out the guy I dated before him was 5'6" (he was 5'11") and would be like, omg that's dysgenic, you're pretty, you don't have to date short men. I was like, uh....maybe he had a good personality and was confident in himself regardless of height?

Like, if height is so important...you're taller. You already won, by your own stupid made-up metric.

[Anonymous]

Exactly. Btw, my 5'4" bf was an Ivy League educated big law attorney in his 30s and had no shortage of dates before me

Relatively wealthy men who can behave normally will never be in short supply of dates, unless they are hideous. So that doesn't surprise me.

[Anonymous]

5’8 woman here . My best relationship post divorce was with an Asian man who was 5’7. It’s unbelievable how my dates react when I tell them. Jokes ranging from outright racist to small d..k. All men talked then him but none of them were even close to him by sharpness, professional achievements. emotional intelligence, worldly cultural and travel experience.

What age are these people? I cared more about height when I was younger. That still would not have prevented me from dating a 5'7" guy, as I am only 5'4". I probably would not have considered a guy my own height or shorter when I was in my 30s, now that I am in my late 40s, it is not preferred but would not rule a guy out, standing alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

5’8 woman here . My best relationship post divorce was with an Asian man who was 5’7. It’s unbelievable how my dates react when I tell them. Jokes ranging from outright racist to small d..k. All men talked then him but none of them were even close to him by sharpness, professional achievements. emotional intelligence, worldly cultural and travel experience.

What age are these people? I cared more about height when I was younger. That still would not have prevented me from dating a 5'7" guy, as I am only 5'4". I probably would not have considered a guy my own height or shorter when I was in my 30s, now that I am in my late 40s, it is not preferred but would not rule a guy out, standing alone.

I think not wanting a shorter man is totally fair. Most men would not want to date a woman who weighed more than him, which I also think is fair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe men need to focus on self-improvement, health, their weight, appearance, good fashion, etc. just like women do.
In our society, females are largely trained from childhood that you have to look good to be noticed. Men gotta catch up if they want to be seen.

Yes, and those women need to decide on which cats to adopt.

What you guys don't understand is that women don't NEED men anymore. They may want them but they don't want all the stuff our mothers put up with from their DHs. So they are more fulfilled by their cats than a manchild. And you posting this confirms why that is.

Once you recognize that, and adjust, you'll do just fine on the dating market.