Not sexually fulfilled in otherwise great marriage

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I didn’t realize that men don’t typically like to go down in a woman after sex. All my partners have (not that that’s such a large sample size).

But I assumed that’s what most people do if the woman doesn’t come from penetration. He goes down and you’re both satisfied.

Gross 🤮

Tell me you’re gay without telling me you’re gay.

Not wanting to taste semen makes you gay?

It’s his own. I find people who are grossed out by their own body a turn off.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Question for women: what are some of your favorite alternatives to missionary?

Man sitting on a chair or sofa and woman on top is probably a favorite for me and my partner.

Different versions of doggie are fun and exciting in an animalistic way but reaching O is sometimes difficult/impossible for both of us.

Doggie, Doggie while spooning, cowgirl, pool sex so he can stand up, missionary though sometimes my hips hurt, chair sex. I guess I like variety!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t realize that men don’t typically like to go down in a woman after sex. All my partners have (not that that’s such a large sample size).

But I assumed that’s what most people do if the woman doesn’t come from penetration. He goes down and you’re both satisfied.

DH here. I like either way.

Most of all, it’s exciting and fulfilling to me if DW reaches satisfaction through intimacy. There are different paths to fulfillment you know.

[Anonymous]

A related issued is when one spouse has little need for satisfaction, while the spouse other finds its exciting and fulfilling for their partner to be satisfied.

[Anonymous]

Not sexually fulfilled =/= great marriage. Sounds like you just have a normal average marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t realize that men don’t typically like to go down in a woman after sex. All my partners have (not that that’s such a large sample size).

But I assumed that’s what most people do if the woman doesn’t come from penetration. He goes down and you’re both satisfied.

DH here. I like either way.

Most of all, it’s exciting and fulfilling to me if DW reaches satisfaction through intimacy. There are different paths to fulfillment you know.

True. There are different paths to satisfaction. I wish my DW would share what are those different paths for her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I didn’t realize that men don’t typically like to go down in a woman after sex. All my partners have (not that that’s such a large sample size).

But I assumed that’s what most people do if the woman doesn’t come from penetration. He goes down and you’re both satisfied.

Gross 🤮

Tell me you’re gay without telling me you’re gay.

Probably just one of the usual Reddit trolls who has never seen a woman naked irl 😂

[Anonymous]

If he only wants to do missionary tell him that it causes hip pain and you need to try something else. I’ve had hip pain during and after missionary so we do other things that don’t cause pain. Yes, you might be telling a lie but if we wants sex he needs to do something else. Many older people have to make position adjustments due to issues with their backs, knees etc.

[Anonymous]

I'm extremely sexually fulfilled in an otherwise ehh marriage...we have nothing in common! I don't know what will happen once we age out of being "young" and hot for each other...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm extremely sexually fulfilled in an otherwise ehh marriage...we have nothing in common! I don't know what will happen once we age out of being "young" and hot for each other...

Same. DH is an as**ole but he gives me what I need in the bedroom. I’m sexually fulfilled but our marriage is a disaster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm extremely sexually fulfilled in an otherwise ehh marriage...we have nothing in common! I don't know what will happen once we age out of being "young" and hot for each other...

Same. DH is an as**ole but he gives me what I need in the bedroom. I’m sexually fulfilled but our marriage is a disaster.

Would you prefer the opposite?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm extremely sexually fulfilled in an otherwise ehh marriage...we have nothing in common! I don't know what will happen once we age out of being "young" and hot for each other...

Same. DH is an as**ole but he gives me what I need in the bedroom. I’m sexually fulfilled but our marriage is a disaster.

Would you prefer the opposite?

Yes, definitely. It is easier to find sexual fulfillment in other ways.