Charlotte Sena - Missing NY 9YO

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


OP does not owe it to anyone to post about anything but whatever she wants to. Jeff is not deleting your threads, is he? Are your own hands broken that you cannot type about it here. DCUM is a free resource. It does not hurt any of us to do advocacy for social issues here, via this forum.

Start writing about them if you get butthurt when a thread like this one comes into existence. I am neither Black, nor White. Why are you waiting for others to write about missing brown girls?

- Asian woman


I don’t scan the deadlines for tragedies and post them on DCUM.

I can ask OP if she posts these threads often. And if she does does she happens to only post about certain victims.

Based on the reaction, I’m guessing OP posts these a lot and almost all are about white people.


Once again who cares? OP can post whatever s/he wants.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.


How about the people commenting on this reflect on their own biases? You saw a missing white girl. Not a missing girl and were triggered. Think on that.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:"Craig Ross Jr, 47, is the suspect in custody. He lived inside a trailer at his mother's property on Barrett Road in Milton, New York "

Can we please just red flag any 30+ male living in a van or basement of their parents' house or property?



No we can not. There are MANY reasons to be living in your parents home. Lots of pedophiles live alone. Can we red flag any man living alone?
Your last line is extremely irresponsible. Live alone as a man, needs to be flagged? Wow


Actually, if he looks like this dude, I think extreme caution is advised.

https://nypost.com/2023/10/03/craig-ross-jr-suspect-in-kidnapping-of-charlotte-sena-appears-in-court/



Terrifying but expected. Why is it always some freaky looking white guy who does things like this?


This kind of comment always makes me laugh.

If this same photo was posted on a story about a kindly rural neighbor guy who ran into a burning home to save some kids you’d be lauding and praising him.

I’m a former prosecutor and can attest that all the worst monsters blend in with all the nicest people - you have no idea who is wearing a mask and scruffy haired bearded men are heroes on the daily, too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


OP does not owe it to anyone to post about anything but whatever she wants to. Jeff is not deleting your threads, is he? Are your own hands broken that you cannot type about it here. DCUM is a free resource. It does not hurt any of us to do advocacy for social issues here, via this forum.

Start writing about them if you get butthurt when a thread like this one comes into existence. I am neither Black, nor White. Why are you waiting for others to write about missing brown girls?

- Asian woman


I don’t scan the deadlines for tragedies and post them on DCUM.

I can ask OP if she posts these threads often. And if she does does she happens to only post about certain victims.

Based on the reaction, I’m guessing OP posts these a lot and almost all are about white people.


It was a national news story, about a missing child. You’re really surprised there was a thread- on a parenting board- about a kidnapping that was on the front page of the news? It hardly takes “scanning the headlines”. And for what it’s worth, on the long thread about unsolved crimes that still haunt us, by and far the most commonly named crime was the little black girl in DC who disappeared without a trace and was only ever seen again on a motels security camera with some janitor. As many people have said- if you’d like to bring light to a case where a little POC child was abducted and hasn’t been found, please do! I’m sure the parents would be thankful.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:People think kids are safe because they are on a bike.
A childhood friend was abducted off her bike.
They aren’t magic.

Who ever said that? There are so many cases of people abducted off bikes.


Amber Haggermann
Johnny Gosch

No one says kids are safe on bikes.


When my kids first started riding their bikes on their own, I told them that if they sense danger, they should wrap their arms through the frame, hang on like leeches and scream. Moving a kid who won’t let go of a bike is a challenge. I’m not saying it would have saved charlotte from this predator, but at least it’s something. And whenever my kids are out on their own, they have a whistle.


Do you ride bikes?

Have your husband knock you off your bike unexpectedly while you’re riding enjoying surroundings and see if you’d have time to “wrap their arms through the frame”. It’s instinctive when falling to protect during fall, so the person falling would outstretch their arms to protect themselves.

It’s not like someone trying to abduct someone will do it gently.

They’d either try to trick or try to knock down/ grab.



There is very little someone can do to avoid being taken if the perpetrator is bigger and stronger. Personal defense classes instruct you to resist by hanging on to any object around you to avoid being dragged off, whether it’s a bike, a lamp post, a fence etc. If they can’t move you so easily, they may panic and give up. What are you instructing your kids to do? Roll over and submit? Fight back with their 9 year old fists? The best way for a smaller person to resist is by making a ruckus and grabbing anything around them.

Yes, if they are struck by a car, there isn’t much they can do. But if someone tries to grab them off their bike, their chances of being safe are higher if they hold on the bike.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.


I’m the OP. If there was a non-white child abducted by a stranger this week who was ignored in favor of the white child; well, shame on the news media. But I don’t think that was the case. Stranger abductions are extremely rare and so they obviously get a lot of coverage. I simply reposted a story that was ALL OVER the news. Again, if there was a non-white child abducted by a stranger this week who was ignored by the news, by all means post so we can email the news station and ask why this child wasn’t given the appropriate coverage. As it is, you just sound argumentative. And out of curiosity, what non-white children’s’ cases are you following? Have you posted them? Are you helping search?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Craig Ross Jr, 47, is the suspect in custody. He lived inside a trailer at his mother's property on Barrett Road in Milton, New York "

Can we please just red flag any 30+ male living in a van or basement of their parents' house or property?



No we can not. There are MANY reasons to be living in your parents home. Lots of pedophiles live alone. Can we red flag any man living alone?
Your last line is extremely irresponsible. Live alone as a man, needs to be flagged? Wow


Actually, if he looks like this dude, I think extreme caution is advised.

https://nypost.com/2023/10/03/craig-ross-jr-suspect-in-kidnapping-of-charlotte-sena-appears-in-court/



Terrifying but expected. Why is it always some freaky looking white guy who does things like this?


This kind of comment always makes me laugh.

If this same photo was posted on a story about a kindly rural neighbor guy who ran into a burning home to save some kids you’d be lauding and praising him.

I’m a former prosecutor and can attest that all the worst monsters blend in with all the nicest people - you have no idea who is wearing a mask and scruffy haired bearded men are heroes on the daily, too.


Very good point / you really have to know people beyond surface appearances to have any idea on whether they are socially well adjusted and kind or capable of evil.

I agree that superficially weird people can be both heroes and villains.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.


How about the people commenting on this reflect on their own biases? You saw a missing white girl. Not a missing girl and were triggered. Think on that.


Thanks DEI instructor. Will do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.


The solution is for you to stop with adding racism to everything
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.


The solution is for you to stop with adding racism to everything


+1 The nutter you're responding to is a professional victim.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Craig Ross Jr, 47, is the suspect in custody. He lived inside a trailer at his mother's property on Barrett Road in Milton, New York "

Can we please just red flag any 30+ male living in a van or basement of their parents' house or property?



No we can not. There are MANY reasons to be living in your parents home. Lots of pedophiles live alone. Can we red flag any man living alone?
Your last line is extremely irresponsible. Live alone as a man, needs to be flagged? Wow


Actually, if he looks like this dude, I think extreme caution is advised.

https://nypost.com/2023/10/03/craig-ross-jr-suspect-in-kidnapping-of-charlotte-sena-appears-in-court/



Terrifying but expected. Why is it always some freaky looking white guy who does things like this?


Always? Really?


Usually it is, yes. (FYI - Hyperbole is often used for emphasis.)

I think we should profile these types of adults and young men, despite how uncomfortable it makes the privileged in this country.

[Not PP]
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Craig Ross Jr, 47, is the suspect in custody. He lived inside a trailer at his mother's property on Barrett Road in Milton, New York "

Can we please just red flag any 30+ male living in a van or basement of their parents' house or property?



No we can not. There are MANY reasons to be living in your parents home. Lots of pedophiles live alone. Can we red flag any man living alone?
Your last line is extremely irresponsible. Live alone as a man, needs to be flagged? Wow


Actually, if he looks like this dude, I think extreme caution is advised.

https://nypost.com/2023/10/03/craig-ross-jr-suspect-in-kidnapping-of-charlotte-sena-appears-in-court/



Terrifying but expected. Why is it always some freaky looking white guy who does things like this?


This kind of comment always makes me laugh.

If this same photo was posted on a story about a kindly rural neighbor guy who ran into a burning home to save some kids you’d be lauding and praising him.

I’m a former prosecutor and can attest that all the worst monsters blend in with all the nicest people - you have no idea who is wearing a mask and scruffy haired bearded men are heroes on the daily, too.


DP. These pictures always look like mug shots. Is there a reason for that?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:"Craig Ross Jr, 47, is the suspect in custody. He lived inside a trailer at his mother's property on Barrett Road in Milton, New York "

Can we please just red flag any 30+ male living in a van or basement of their parents' house or property?



No we can not. There are MANY reasons to be living in your parents home. Lots of pedophiles live alone. Can we red flag any man living alone?
Your last line is extremely irresponsible. Live alone as a man, needs to be flagged? Wow


Actually, if he looks like this dude, I think extreme caution is advised.

https://nypost.com/2023/10/03/craig-ross-jr-suspect-in-kidnapping-of-charlotte-sena-appears-in-court/



Terrifying but expected. Why is it always some freaky looking white guy who does things like this?


This kind of comment always makes me laugh.

If this same photo was posted on a story about a kindly rural neighbor guy who ran into a burning home to save some kids you’d be lauding and praising him.

I’m a former prosecutor and can attest that all the worst monsters blend in with all the nicest people - you have no idea who is wearing a mask and scruffy haired bearded men are heroes on the daily, too.


DP. These pictures always look like mug shots. Is there a reason for that?


It’s probably their drivers license or state ID picture and most states tell you not to smile because it messes with facial recognition technology.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Now pay attention to and find all of the missing brown girls.


Start a thread and keep posting on it all details of missing girls - whatever color.
Without publicity, how will people know?


How many threads has OP posted about crimes against women? What % of them were white? DP


It's not OPs job to start those threads. If you want a certain missing person discussed, start it yourself.


I’m the OP and why does it matter? I posted about a current event; I’m not aware of any non-white young girls who were abducted by a stranger this week in the US. If you are aware of any, by all means post them and the associated info so we can be informed.


Do you frequently post about current events?


NP but what’s your beef? If you think there isn’t enough publicity about stranger abductions of black and brown children (and you’re probably correct) then start threads and boost awareness. The solution is to bring more awareness to those kids. Not to shut down awareness/ threads of white kids being abducted to make things more “equitable”.


The solution is that the people posting these threads should reflect on their personal biases.


People need to be sent to sensitivity training.
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