Yes, I'm calling it love. Some of the most loving relationships I know are same-sex marriages. What you are describing in your 2 completely unrelated examples are not examples of love and are non-consensual. But you know that. Yes, it hurts a minor child to be abused. Yes it hurts an animal to be abused. It is not abuse when 2 consenting adults have a loving and consensual relationship. Just because you think it's wrong doesn't make it so. You think it's a sin? Fine, don't have a same-sex relationship. Other people think it's a sin to eat pork or to wear wool and linen together. That's their choice to avoid those things and they can judge you for doing it. But they shouldn't get to regulate it via our justice system. |
Animals and children can't consent. Why do you compare a consenting adult relationship with animal and child rape? How do two adult men or women in a relationship affect you at all? |
Mutual adult consent is necessary but not sufficient for moral sexuality. I agree that comparing homosexuality to bestiality or CSA is not helpful. But just because it's consensual does not make it morally right. You just snuck that premise in there. |
If one doesnt think it's morally right, they don't have to engage. What I believe is morally right is different than what you believe is morally right. Some people dont believe it's morally right to eat animals. I wholeheartedly support their right to not eat animals. I don't support those people trying to push their beliefs onto me or others. Same with this. |
Perhaps you could make this case if you and your gay partner live alone on an island. But none of us do. Our moral decisions have knock on effects. Sometimes those indirect effects are more serious than the direct ones. Beyond those measurable indirect effects, society is also morally injured when it is forced to tolerate immorality. |
+1 |
So how do two men in a relationship affect you? Is literally tolerating their existence that much of a burden to you? |
Not their existence. That is not at issue. But their open, flagrant immorality, yes. That is a burden to society. |
Personally I think society is morally injured when hate is thrust out into the world. Two consensual adults living their lives is not harming the world. Comparing gays to child rapists, now that is surely hurting people and spewing poison into society. But "tolerating" two adults loving each other? No, no I don't consider that having a negative effect on others. Dont christians try and preach tolerance? Or is it only for when you want to shove religious beliefs down other peoples throats? |
They are only immoral to YOU. Not to society. Or to people who accept and embrace the LGBTQ community. Seems like a you issue. |
You still havent answered how two men or two women in a consensual adult relationship affects you at all. |
A major problem with open immorality (including fornication, adultery, no-fault divorce, etc.) is that it chips away at the social element of the restraint that each of us should be applying to his sexual appetites. Every time someone in your (or my) friend group commits adultery, it reduces the social stigma of such a thing, and increases our own likelihood of slipping into the same vice, which you (and I) had previously been resisting. We see this with the ongoing increase in LGBTQ identification, with a nearly 10-fold increase in population incidence from a generation ago when scientists said there was a small minority who can't help it. Turned out not to be true. |
Uhh just because I have gay friends doesnt mean I'm going to turn gay. In fact, I'm glad that "social stigma" is reducing. I'm happy that people feel they can be themselves. You'd apparently rather they stay in the closet? You are lacking some fundamental critical thinking skills. |
Having LGBTQ acquaintances and friends does indeed increase the likelihood that someone will later identify as LGBTQ. "In the closet" is a term of art that I won't stipulate. But as to whether I think a person should resist immoral urges (adultery, homosexuality, whatever)--yes, obviously. |
Lol! So seeing happy gay couples is too hard for you because you may want to turn gay too? Keep it in your pants! |