PS. Jesus broke many taboos of his time. Accepting foreigners (parable of the Good Samaritan), teaching women (Mary and Martha), eating with the despised and “unclean” tax collectors, and more. Plus he lived in a heavily romanized part of the world. You just can’t assert that because he isn’t on record as saying anything affirming homosexuality, this must mean he thinks what anyone of his background would have thought. |
Muslims throw gay men off buildings in the Middle East. They hang gay men too.
Why do Muslims do those things, and why do people not mention it and ignore it when discussing religion and glbtia+? We are supposed to be shocked and disgusted by Christians who aren’t affirming what they consider sin, but still expressing love for gay people as God’s creations, yet close our eyes to the violent nature of Islam’s treatment of gay people. |
I'm a new poster. Good points, but the taboos Jesus broke weren't sexual. We know Jesus was against adultery and fornication, and had rather strict views on a man taking only one wife (an improvement for women's status at the time). We can assume that Jesus would not have approved of homosexuality during the first century, because it was only available in the context of an extra-marital / non-marital relationship. How this translates to gay marriage in the 21st century is a but less clear. We do know his response would have been compassionate regardless. |
The real cultural changes launched by the widespread adoption of the Christian faith was the status of women. And babies. The early Christians were perceived as weirdos for rescuing unwanted abandoned female babies, a commonplace activity of the time. Thank you for writing this. This is absolutely true. Christianity was a radical new way of the order of life for women and the treatment of poor people, unwanted babies, children, slaves. Christianity said their lives were valuable and told Christians to love them and treat them with kindness and love in the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ really changed the world. It’s very sad so few understand that. |
Can I preface this by saying that I really appreciate the thoughtful back and forth here. It’s so rare in the religion forum. We just don’t know what Jesus thought about homosexuality, because there’s no record of it. As you point out, times have changed. Now homosexual relations are possible within the institution of marriage. We can’t say either way what Jesus would have thought of that. Importantly, though, we can’t assert that he would have disapproved. |
It's obvious that early religions/nations were extremely committed to procreation, because that's how nations grew in power and survive.
Homosexuality detracted from procreation. The Pope himself recently clarified that freaky sex is all good and godly, in the context of procreative marriage. |
How is monogamy better for women? Monogamy means fewer women get a rich husband, a larger share of the homemaking work, and have more pressure for sex or their husband's company, and then more than now, women didn't get to choose a husband whose company they'd enjoy. Polygamy is better than monogamy for women. |
Ha! Google knows that "ast Owul's" is a variant spelling of "St Paul's" |
I have a difficult time with interpreting what compassionate looks like with regard to sin. Because he loved everyone, spent time with, invited everyone,…to “go and sin no more” —which we know is an impossible task. But we strive not to sin, fail, and ask forgiveness. My issue with this is not in being compassionate toward others who are “in sin” as we ALL are. But it’s in the “pride” part of it. IF it is a sin—which many now claim it is not, then—as Christians—we can accept and live the sinner, but we can’t be celebrating ithe state of sin and refusal to repent from it with pride parades because if I acting on an attraction to same sex is sinful, God does not want us doing that. And since God does not want us having sexual relationships outside of the marriage covenant, and has defined Biblical marriage as a covenant between man, woman, and God, it is difficult to reconcile affirming same sex relations in the context of what Jesus teaches is necessary for salvation (confession of sin and repentance). On the other hand— one can probably argue that many many many (most?)heterosexual Christians have sex prior to marriage and then eventually stop doing that when they get married (“go and sin no more”) and churches don’t make a huge case out of whether they are or are not a “casual sex for 20-something singles” affirming church! There’s no flag for that outside the more liberal denominations. It’s just sort of a non issue. The church accepts that we fall short of that expectation. But there’s also not a casual sex parade for heterosexual that insists that we celebrate our lustful nature as part of our “identity” so it’s difficult to be consistent on this. If “the church” can’t agreee on what behaviors are sinful, then one can’t acknowledge sin to repent from it. Simple as that. |
The homophobia appears to be (extremely) exasperated in the Catholic community, why??? |
I thought Jesus said we shouldn't be judging others and just be loving everyone. So why are we deciding what is a sin and what is not? That's is God's role, not ours. If someone wants to take pride in being gay, and God doesn't like that, then God will deal with that. We shouldn't be doing anything about it. We should just be loving everyone. |
This. Jesus said that God is the ultimate judge, not a church bureaucracy, not you and me. |
Your point about the supposed merits of polygamy are off topic and you could be just another troll. But I disagree with every one of them, and I suspect others here do too, so here it goes. You’re arguing that splitting your husband’s wealth and sexual attentions with other wives is better for women, not worse. I disagree, as I suspect so the vast majority here. Why is more sex, or more of your husband’s company, a bad thing, unless you hate him? Are you arguing that marital intimacy is actually a bad thing? As you point out, the point about showing your husband is outdated, although I’m not sure why this is relevant. Your other point, about vying to be the only wife of a rich husband, is obsolete now that women can earn their own money, also it makes no sense because the earnings of a guy who makes $500k means “only” (sarcasm here) $250k apiece if there are two wives and less if there are more wives. Plus spare me all the jealousy among competing wives, or the unequal treatment of wives despite some scriptures saying they must be treated equally. |
I'm sure this is how the teaching started. It makes obvious sense in terms of history and human survival. |
I can't tell if this is a real response or if it's satirical. Monogamous marriage means that a husband's resources are better able to provide for his wife and kids. Most men who practice polygyny aren't rich, and live in areas where women don't usually work outside the home (as it was then). So polygyny = thinner resources, and results in more women living in poverty. Also, lots of research shows the negative effects of polygyny on women, higher rates of domestic abuse, and worse outcomes for their kids who are all competing for resources from the dad. There is more that you're not getting here, but I don't have time to respond. Just google it. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7750426/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6998378/ https://scholarlycommons.law.emory.edu/elj/vol64/iss6/4/ |