Yup me too and I trust my kid + my parenting. if they wanna go elsewhere they’re certainly welcome to and I’ll support them. There’s good hs teachers everywhere and my kid will be just fine |
Pandemic and low interest rates. Its going to change. More UMC blacks and whites would stay. Crazy competitiveness of suburban schools is changing minds. |
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Any white families are welcome to leave. Going to an amazing HS definitely does help for college but it's not the end all be all. I went to an average HS and still got into a ivy league school. Yes, maybe I did have to work harder than kids from a better HS but eh nothing an occasional tutor, study group, and a love of what I was learning didn't fix.
I'm amazed at how much parents stress over HS, I wonder if I will lose all reasoning when my kid gets to middle school too. PS. I am not white but my husband is. |
Right. |
I don't doubt your experience, but my experience with families that I know in DC is so very different than yours. I don't know a single family that left the city during Covid. My kids are in late elementary and MS, so maybe that is the difference. I live EOTP and only a few of those families attend WOTP schools, so we aren't all set in comfortable WOTP schools. |
This is an important point. I teach at a "desirable" high school in the inner suburbs. We had 250 seniors graduate with over a 4.0 this year. All of them can't get accepted by William & Mary and UVa. It's funny to listen to them complain about how "not fair" it is that other kids get in over them. |
There is clearly selection bias going on, but all the rich white kids I know in DCPS do as well (if not better than) the kids in families that left DCPS to MoCo or NoVa in terms of college admission. Now I know a lot of that is people who struggled in DCPS could struggle elsewhere, so I'm not blaming MoCo/NoVa. |
| I don't get why parents put kids in pressure furnaces schools and then complain about kids not performing well enough to compete and having mental health issues. |
This is us. We left for NW to have more outdoor space and a SFH, but never considered leaving the city. |
This! And Boweser will get reelected even though she messed this up SO badly |
Jfc. Are any of those things untrue in a large number of schools and contexts in DC? Are we supposed to act like they aren’t and say nothing? That is the absolute heart of the problem of education in DC: we all know the school system is struggling in numerous ways BUT CAN’T TALK ABOUT IT with any truth because…racism, elitism, gentirification blah blah. It’s maddening. |
That's the "vibrance" of living in a wonderful city like DC. You cain't handle this much vibrance |
Big mad energy. I’d argue it’s pointless for most of the DCUM discussions bc nobody comes bringing solutions. I imagine it’s because 90% aren’t actually invested in education beyond fifth grade and use this site to justify their choices to themselves. |
Oh. I’ve raised three kids through DC Public schools in all its vibrance and wouldn’t have done it any other way. But ffs let’s be real about what’s going on and acknowledge thet my kids with their privileges could weather much of the dysfunction. It’s the kids who most need a consistently excellent educational experience who suffer the most when we can’t name the weaknesses and fix them |
We used to live EOTP and left the city in 2020, and know at least other three families who did the same, all looking for better (and open!) schools. |