How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

Why is having many p in your v having fun. Fun to me is a hobby , art or travelling what is wrong with you. No wonder men are seeking foreign women

I'm a foreign woman that so many American men fawn over. You'd be shocked how wrong you are about the number of parters I had. We don't have the puritanical BS moral hang-ups that you Americans have and don't feel the need to disclose this kind of nonsense to anyone. It's my business who I slept with.

Also, it's not about what's fun for you. It's about people like you policing what might be fun for other people and then making it a moral issue. It's not.

You’d be surprised that most Americans outside the bible belt aren’t puritanical at all. But I also think that sex, I mean really good mind blowing sex, is somewhat sacred (and this is coming from an atheist). I won’t risk my health for just anyone. I have to connect with someone deeply and lust has to be there too before we can be intimate. This should be normal. Not a lot of women are coming from one night stands. The best sex I have is generally once I am falling in love with someone.

That's fine for YOU. Other people might feel differently about sex and it doesn't make them morally deficient in any way.

#Oxymoronic

Casual Sex addicts aren’t morally deficient now?!

Even if they are addicted to sex, what is morally deficient about that? Please explain it to me like I'm 5. Who dictates morality? What makes it immoral to sleep with 10+ consenting adults a year?

Good one Pp.

So you can't explain any of it?

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

Why is having many p in your v having fun.

You don't think sex is fun?
Sex can be great fun. I love having fun.

I bet the 40% of kids who are fatherless life-long, agree with you!

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.

That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.

Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

Why is having many p in your v having fun.

You don't think sex is fun?
Sex can be great fun. I love having fun.

I bet the 40% of kids who are fatherless life-long, agree with you!

Some of us know how to use birth control effectively because we aren't dumb like you.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.

That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.

Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.

What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.

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I pretty much had one gf all through college. However, we had a LOT of sex. In hindsight, I still wish I would have dated around more, especially considering that gf didn’t work out.

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I had a few long term relationships in college - all with girls who had been raised in very religious families (two Catholics and one Pentecostal.)

Eventually those relationships resulted in sex, but I was patient and never really pushed to go any faster than they seemed to want. Part of that was being new at sex myself. In retrospect, I'll bet those girls would have been happy if I'd pushed a little harder.

They wanted to have sex, but they felt guilty about wanting to have sex. If they could have blamed me a little bit, I'll bet they would have been happier.

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I was very cute and at a knucklehead university in the pre - AIDS 80s. You do the math.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.

That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.

Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.

What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.

Love how you keep leaving out the high annual body count.

Gang bang trains are so moral. And consensual! What’s the record of that recent woman again in a day? Line out the door, men all fluffed up….

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.

That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.

Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.

What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.

Love how you keep leaving out the high annual body count.

Gang bang trains are so moral. And consensual! What’s the record of that recent woman again in a day? Line out the door, men all fluffed up….

LOVE how angry it gets you that women can be sex positive without giving a f*ck what you think!!! Makes my day that you have to completely make shit up because there is no logic behind anything you're saying. Think about how many women love sex, have no hang-ups about it, have plenty of it, and none of us want to sleep with YOU. Such a sad little elf.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.

That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.

Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.

What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.

Love how you keep leaving out the high annual body count.

Gang bang trains are so moral. And consensual! What’s the record of that recent woman again in a day? Line out the door, men all fluffed up….

LOVE how angry it gets you that women can be sex positive without giving a f*ck what you think!!! Makes my day that you have to completely make shit up because there is no logic behind anything you're saying. Think about how many women love sex, have no hang-ups about it, have plenty of it, and none of us want to sleep with YOU. Such a sad little elf.

No one’s angry here but you.

I am a woman who has had and continues to have lots of sex.
Just not causally or with 50, 60, 70, 100, 200, 500 different people like you keep touting.

And no, I don’t want to sleep with any men or women with high body counts and lack of connection.

So we would never match up in the first place.

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So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.

I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.

That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!

Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.

As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.

Ugh, those pesky morals and values again.

What morals? What makes it immoral when two consenting adults have sex? I keep asking but none of you can give a coherent answer.

Love how you keep leaving out the high annual body count.

Gang bang trains are so moral. And consensual! What’s the record of that recent woman again in a day? Line out the door, men all fluffed up….

LOVE how angry it gets you that women can be sex positive without giving a f*ck what you think!!! Makes my day that you have to completely make shit up because there is no logic behind anything you're saying. Think about how many women love sex, have no hang-ups about it, have plenty of it, and none of us want to sleep with YOU. Such a sad little elf.

No one’s angry here but you.

I am a woman who has had and continues to have lots of sex.
Just not causally or with 50, 60, 70, 100, 200, 500 different people like you keep touting.

And no, I don’t want to sleep with any men or women with high body counts and lack of connection.

So we would never match up in the first place.

Sure, you're not angry. Is that why you equated gang bangs with casual sex? Totally well-adjusted and rational opinion.

I dont give a shit how many men you slept with and you shouldn't worry about me. Deal?

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

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Anonymous wrote:So “sex positive” means tons of different sexual partners a year? Got it.

It means I can sleep with another consenting adult whenever I want. Why do you care how many people other people sleep with? The only person you should worry about is you.

So I don’t sleep with you.