How much did you sleep around in college?

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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


Why is having many p in your v having fun. Fun to me is a hobby , art or travelling what is wrong with you. No wonder men are seeking foreign women


I'm a foreign woman that so many American men fawn over. You'd be shocked how wrong you are about the number of parters I had. We don't have the puritanical BS moral hang-ups that you Americans have and don't feel the need to disclose this kind of nonsense to anyone. It's my business who I slept with.

Also, it's not about what's fun for you. It's about people like you policing what might be fun for other people and then making it a moral issue. It's not.

You’d be surprised that most Americans outside the bible belt aren’t puritanical at all. But I also think that sex, I mean really good mind blowing sex, is somewhat sacred (and this is coming from an atheist). I won’t risk my health for just anyone. I have to connect with someone deeply and lust has to be there too before we can be intimate. This should be normal. Not a lot of women are coming from one night stands. The best sex I have is generally once I am falling in love with someone.


That's fine for YOU. Other people might feel differently about sex and it doesn't make them morally deficient in any way.


#Oxymoronic

Casual Sex addicts aren’t morally deficient now?!
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I'm a foreign woman that so many American men fawn over. You'd be shocked how wrong you are about the number of parters I had. We don't have the puritanical BS moral hang-ups that you Americans have and don't feel the need to disclose this kind of nonsense to anyone. It's my business who I slept with.

Also, it's not about what's fun for you. It's about people like you policing what might be fun for other people and then making it a moral issue. It's not.


How do you know that "so many American men" are fawning over you? You need to provide some (actual) background for this post.

It is much more likely you are a sock-puppet.


So many that she’s here on dcum
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


Why is having many p in your v having fun. Fun to me is a hobby , art or travelling what is wrong with you. No wonder men are seeking foreign women


I'm a foreign woman that so many American men fawn over. You'd be shocked how wrong you are about the number of parters I had. We don't have the puritanical BS moral hang-ups that you Americans have and don't feel the need to disclose this kind of nonsense to anyone. It's my business who I slept with.

Also, it's not about what's fun for you. It's about people like you policing what might be fun for other people and then making it a moral issue. It's not.

You’d be surprised that most Americans outside the bible belt aren’t puritanical at all. But I also think that sex, I mean really good mind blowing sex, is somewhat sacred (and this is coming from an atheist). I won’t risk my health for just anyone. I have to connect with someone deeply and lust has to be there too before we can be intimate. This should be normal. Not a lot of women are coming from one night stands. The best sex I have is generally once I am falling in love with someone.


I risk my health every time I eat at Arby's. Taking a little risk for sex is more reasonable than what I already do for roast beef.


Stomach acids are tougher on germs and diseases than exchanging bodily fluids via mouth, private parts and sweat.
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.


That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!


Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.
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I'm a foreign woman that so many American men fawn over. You'd be shocked how wrong you are about the number of parters I had. We don't have the puritanical BS moral hang-ups that you Americans have and don't feel the need to disclose this kind of nonsense to anyone. It's my business who I slept with.

Also, it's not about what's fun for you. It's about people like you policing what might be fun for other people and then making it a moral issue. It's not.


How do you know that "so many American men" are fawning over you? You need to provide some (actual) background for this post.

It is much more likely you are a sock-puppet.


So many that she’s here on dcum


lol what does that even mean?
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


Why is having many p in your v having fun. Fun to me is a hobby , art or travelling what is wrong with you. No wonder men are seeking foreign women


I'm a foreign woman that so many American men fawn over. You'd be shocked how wrong you are about the number of parters I had. We don't have the puritanical BS moral hang-ups that you Americans have and don't feel the need to disclose this kind of nonsense to anyone. It's my business who I slept with.

Also, it's not about what's fun for you. It's about people like you policing what might be fun for other people and then making it a moral issue. It's not.

You’d be surprised that most Americans outside the bible belt aren’t puritanical at all. But I also think that sex, I mean really good mind blowing sex, is somewhat sacred (and this is coming from an atheist). I won’t risk my health for just anyone. I have to connect with someone deeply and lust has to be there too before we can be intimate. This should be normal. Not a lot of women are coming from one night stands. The best sex I have is generally once I am falling in love with someone.


That's fine for YOU. Other people might feel differently about sex and it doesn't make them morally deficient in any way.


#Oxymoronic

Casual Sex addicts aren’t morally deficient now?!


Even if they are addicted to sex, what is morally deficient about that? Please explain it to me like I'm 5. Who dictates morality? What makes it immoral to sleep with another consenting adult?
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How do you know that "so many American men" are fawning over you? You need to provide some (actual) background for this post.

It is much more likely you are a sock-puppet.


hahahahaha someone sounds jealous. It's never a good look.


Poor, sweet summer child. Trying to dodge a question by insulting the questioner (e.g., you saying that because you are jealous) looked bad in grade school and looks worse in adulthood.

Come on now. You are a sock puppet. You know it. We know it. The "foreign land" you hail from is Roanoke.
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How do you know that "so many American men" are fawning over you? You need to provide some (actual) background for this post.

It is much more likely you are a sock-puppet.


hahahahaha someone sounds jealous. It's never a good look.


Poor, sweet summer child. Trying to dodge a question by insulting the questioner (e.g., you saying that because you are jealous) looked bad in grade school and looks worse in adulthood.

Come on now. You are a sock puppet. You know it. We know it. The "foreign land" you hail from is Roanoke.


You are more than welcome to ask Jeff to verify who I am. I have posted many times about where I'm from for the past 16 years on this site. He probably doesn't even need to work that hard. You sound ridiculous.
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


Why is having many p in your v having fun.


You don't think sex is fun?
Sex can be great fun. I love having fun.
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You are more than welcome to ask Jeff to verify who I am. I have posted many times about where I'm from for the past 16 years on this site. He probably doesn't even need to work that hard. You sound ridiculous.


I should ask Jeff if you are one of the foreign women that men on here fawn over? This is what you stated in your first post.

Not only are you delusional, you are dense. And far from as hot as you think you are.

Honey, men are not nailing you because you are hot. They are doing so because you are easy.
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You are more than welcome to ask Jeff to verify who I am. I have posted many times about where I'm from for the past 16 years on this site. He probably doesn't even need to work that hard. You sound ridiculous.


I should ask Jeff if you are one of the foreign women that men on here fawn over? This is what you stated in your first post.

Not only are you delusional, you are dense. And far from as hot as you think you are.

Honey, men are not nailing you because you are hot. They are doing so because you are easy.


Hahaha I love how much that bothered you. I never said I was hot or that anyone was nailing me. They do fawn over me because I don’t have a personally like yours. I’m not an angry b1tch who loses her shit when a woman dares to say she has gotten positive attention from men. Not sure why you felt so offended when I corrected a poster about foreign women being more desirable because we don’t have as much sex. Or are you too dumb to read and understand the meaning?

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Anonymous wrote:Women dating men 33% older than them is gross.


My 28 yo first man wouldn't have looked twice at you, trust me


Good. Too much in the news about men raping children as it is.


So many children in college, I know!


Yea, and college age girls should procreate only with acne covered college boys with greasy hair. And have orgies with crew team members on spring breaks.
They absolutely are not allowed to date late 20s men because that would be the rape


It's gross f**king someone who has been alive 1/3 longer than you.


He was only 7 years older- you just have a sick imagination. Try to figure out why sex between two young healthy people seems gross to you


New poster-but a 21 year old and a 28 year old are at two completely different places in life-so yeah it’s a little weird. But I feel the same way about a 30 year old dating a 50 year old too.

Age difference is irrelevant. All sex outside of marriage is wrong and sinful


Those are artificial constructs and just your complete invalid opinion.
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Anonymous wrote:Why is there so much moral police here? I unfortunately did not sleep with that many people in college but see no moral violation for those who did. I think you can be healthy and have multiple partners. Let's say a young person sleeps with 5 new people a year, which is not much, then that's 20 in 4 years. Why the moral panic? Again, I wish I had more fun.


I thinks that’s pretty normal. By mid-30s, the expectation is that most folks would have ~ 75 partners or so.


That’s gross.
75 total!? 5 different sexual partners a year!?

If you train yourself that sex is a meaningless self-centered mechanical thing to do, and who cares who it’s with this month or the next, sure.

Most people don’t want to desensitize themselves to sex, intimacy and real connections & relationships. But having 4-10 different sexual partners a year is a sure fire way to accomplish that!


Sex absolutely can be JUST about a physical connection in the moment and not a "real" connection (whatever that even means). No one is forcing you to sleep with anyone you don't want to sleep with. Why do you insist on calling someone else's approach to sex that is different than yours gross? What do you hope to accomplish? I find people like you completely devoid of intellectual curiosity and extremely limited.


As a woman I just don't know how I would have sex with a man if I don't feel being at least a bit in love. And I won't be in love, unless he's physically attractive, intellectual and well-rounded person. And is nice to me.
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Hahaha I love how much that bothered you. I never said I was hot or that anyone was nailing me. They do fawn over me because I don’t have a personally like yours. I’m not an angry b1tch who loses her shit when a woman dares to say she has gotten positive attention from men. Not sure why you felt so offended when I corrected a poster about foreign women being more desirable because we don’t have as much sex. Or are you too dumb to read and understand the meaning?


Your narcissism bothers me. So that you understand, when you say that men fawn over you, you are stating that you are "hot" enough for men to fawn over.

You need help reading and writing in English. Have you tried online courses to improve? You should.

Honey, you are the angry b1tch. And you are angry because you cannot stand anyone challenging your narcissistic view of the world (i.e., the world where you receive "positive attention" from men). Now, go ahead and reply that you are just stating the facts when stating that men fawn over you. In a world where we do not know you are, you can be anything you want (including hot). However, deep down, you know it is not true.
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Hahaha I love how much that bothered you. I never said I was hot or that anyone was nailing me. They do fawn over me because I don’t have a personally like yours. I’m not an angry b1tch who loses her shit when a woman dares to say she has gotten positive attention from men. Not sure why you felt so offended when I corrected a poster about foreign women being more desirable because we don’t have as much sex. Or are you too dumb to read and understand the meaning?


Your narcissism bothers me. So that you understand, when you say that men fawn over you, you are stating that you are "hot" enough for men to fawn over.

You need help reading and writing in English. Have you tried online courses to improve? You should.

Honey, you are the angry b1tch. And you are angry because you cannot stand anyone challenging your narcissistic view of the world (i.e., the world where you receive "positive attention" from men). Now, go ahead and reply that you are just stating the facts when stating that men fawn over you. In a world where we do not know you are, you can be anything you want (including hot). However, deep down, you know it is not true.


Awwwww poor baby. I'm sorry that you're bothered that I'm better than you in every way and get attention from men you want. Have the day you deserve, love. Bye now.
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